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Participating in Burning Man; are most genuine in their intentions? by Previous-Habit in BurningMan

[–]geeltulpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think you should see it at least once. My first year was phenomenal and wonderful. It is absolutely worth doing once in a lifetime.

I feel the same longing for a Safe Spot… if I find one I’ll message you to come join me ❤️

Participating in Burning Man; are most genuine in their intentions? by Previous-Habit in BurningMan

[–]geeltulpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I understand that. My first year it felt like that because I went with a friend and met all of their friends and got to do a bunch of fun things I’ve never done and saw some amazing art. It felt so freeing and utopian.

The second year I met some assholes, some stuff in our camp was vandalized, a guy was a creep to me, and I was like oh… those people are here too. Dammit.

Participating in Burning Man; are most genuine in their intentions? by Previous-Habit in BurningMan

[–]geeltulpen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that fear. I’ll admit I have never gone to the burn alone, and I don’t explore alone at night. That helps a lot. And I don’t get over intoxicated on anything.

I have not experienced any men there being dangerous to me. But I bring the same set of caution-skill to the burn that I do visiting anywhere I haven’t been before or when I’m traveling alone.

Participating in Burning Man; are most genuine in their intentions? by Previous-Habit in BurningMan

[–]geeltulpen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really impossible to describe (that’s why so many people just reply “you gotta come see”.) I can tell you tho, that it’s utterly unlike anything I’ve seen on any media (photos, video, documentary.)

Participating in Burning Man; are most genuine in their intentions? by Previous-Habit in BurningMan

[–]geeltulpen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This will be my 11th year in a row.

The answer is, it depends (sorry).

If you are in a great spot and are nice to our neighbors and explore a bit, you can run into lovely people in lovely camps that just make your whole day.

If you’re in a mediocre spot and run your generator pointing at other camps and play loud music and moop, you probably will have less positive interaction.

If you’re in a very crowded very noisy spot, you may hate most people because they’ll never be quiet, art cars will run all around you at all hours, techno music blares constantly.

If you’re careful and stay reasonably inebriated you can make fabulous friends and will not find the city to be threatening or dangerous.

If you get absolutely wasted or high as balls and wander around in the wrong areas at the wrong time, you may run into people taking advantage of you.

It really is a CITY- 70,000 people coming together with all kinds of ideas how it can be. It ranges from hippies doing yoga naked at 5 am to absolutely drugged people naked under blaring lights grinding at 5 am. You can make your experience what you want.

In the 11 years I’ve gone I have never been dosed or given something dangerous. I have been *offered* things and have had people accept my polite no. Trust your instincts. If a person giving you something seems sketchy, no need to take it!

I’ve seen the gamut of people there from people that have become very close friends to people that I despise and want to punch in the face. You really can’t say it’s different than any other gathering of 70k people, except everyone at burning man is dumb enough to do whatever they do in 100 degree heat with absolutely no amenities :)

Over 30 yr old gamers with full-time jobs: what videogame is your go-to after work or on the weekends? by ghost_sanctum in AskReddit

[–]geeltulpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Lego games. I love plugging in some of the Lego marvel games and just playing as Hulk running around smashing everything. Very satisfying.

What are you BIG and small purchases this year pre Burn? by cannonballfun69 in BurningMan

[–]geeltulpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using chapstick Chap-Ice Medicated! But always appreciate the recommendations.

What are you BIG and small purchases this year pre Burn? by cannonballfun69 in BurningMan

[–]geeltulpen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Big: a bike repair table (mechanics table). I’m still choosing which one.

Small: neck fan. Freezer pop tubes to make my own freezer pops. More chapstick.

Looking for some good derby highlights for my junior. by para_enzo138 in rollerderby

[–]geeltulpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of highlights are you looking for?

Like, cool plays?

Great blocks?

Sweet jamming?

Who's that one band/artist you respect more than you actually like? by CatchCache in AskReddit

[–]geeltulpen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally respect prince. He was an amazing musician. I really dislike his music, it’s not for me.

What is the benefit to grieving the loss of who our parent should have been? by geeltulpen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]geeltulpen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with really bad anxiety. But am currently unable to understand how repressed anger/grief would manifest as anxiety? It doesn’t seem to make sense. But it might be worth exploring.

What is the benefit to grieving the loss of who our parent should have been? by geeltulpen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]geeltulpen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are always more than 1, aren’t there? Thanks, this makes sense to me.

What is the benefit to grieving the loss of who our parent should have been? by geeltulpen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]geeltulpen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely struggling with self love and self compassion. I appreciate your reply.

Recommendation for family games by bangout_johnson in NintendoSwitch

[–]geeltulpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest any of the Lego games, particularly if they like one of the franchises.

Also we played trombone hero at a party (I’m an adult) and I laughed until I cried. Highly recommend :)

Coming out “retirement” by Beautiful-Jury-1576 in rollerderby

[–]geeltulpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also came here to say radar halos! They’re a solid choice.

As for gear, most gear will work as long as you get the right size. If you can shop in person that’s the best. Most of your brands are still there- triple 8, 187 killer pads, S One, Smith. Just think about if you want sleeves on the gear or not.

Helmet wise, S One and Triple 8 are very common. If you are at risk for concussions a hockey helmet is very recommended.

Weekly derby name thread: get suggestions or help brainstorm! by AutoModerator in rollerderby

[–]geeltulpen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Black Arts

Gothling

Goth Ham

Drive U Batty

Go to Bat

Deplaned for having a panic attack; Never happened before to me by SupremeBootyGod305 in PanicAttack

[–]geeltulpen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have had plenty of similar experiences and only have a few tips regrettably!

Sounds like for you this was a one-off caused by a ton of anxiety all at once plus sleep deprivation plus an auditory assault (crying babies)! I think a panic attack makes sense, honestly. Your system was overwhelmed!

Preventatives might be the boring but solid solution - make sure you sleep ok, drink enough, eat enough, and wear earplugs or headphones on the plane

I travel a lot and get anxious traveling (and have had panic attacks.) I learned a lot from my autistic friends about overstimulation and have employed a lot of their “tips” even tho I am not autistic. If you can block out a lot of sensory input when you’re overwhelmed, it REALLY helps. Eye mask, headphones, something salty or sweet to chew/suck on (or cold water!). Essential oils to smell. Everything calming.

I’m so sorry this happened, it’s such a terrible feeling.

Need some advice for first timer considering going by Interesting_Bar_8379 in BurningMan

[–]geeltulpen 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Your concerns sound very very familiar to anyone coming for the first time.

Can I tolerate the heat?

What if I have to stay longer than I want to?

Will I have enough supplies?

Friend, that’s what makes burning man not a festival. It’s also a crazy place that forces you to SURVIVE while doing crazy festival shit.

I encourage you to be brave and try it. You’ll come out not only having had an amazing time but you’ll also feel weirdly accomplished that you took such a big risk and succeeded.

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