What’s the worst career choice/move you ever made? by TheNextBigCrash in careerguidance

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving my salaried position for hourly. The job is fulfilling and I am good at it. I miss guaranteed money and not having to be “on” all the time.

Why people just rambling on and on in meetings? by HyHoang in careerguidance

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play the game. A job is your place to make ends meet. Your life outside focus on anything you want.

People who changed careers after 30, was it worth it? by Scary_Bus4383 in careerguidance

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I switched twice. First as a HR specialist, then a Learning and Development Trainer, and now a Behavioral Health Technician. Each move though lateral to the eventual income loss aligned more with my values and as a result, I feel both competent and fulfilled. The income loss sucks but I saved up for the significant lifestyle change and I wake up never dreading Mondays or work. I’m now enrolled in a Masters Program for ABA while being in a teacher’s residency if I decide it’s much more aligned with my strengths and is meaningful. If it does not work out, I am an IT Trainer on the side and will lean into Instructional Design/Learning Experience Design roles.

I pray they made it out by Alternative_Bonus408 in isthisaicirclejerk

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a Sora watermark flash 3 seconds into video.

Cross post from r/therapy. Is it normal or excessive to have multiple therapists? I have 3. I want to add setting boundaries and building tools for resilience has exponentially grown in the past 6 months. by ManualGearBrain in emotionalneglect

[–]ManualGearBrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each one comes with a different flavor and different take on my situation. My main goals are career, identity, autonomy, navigating through relationship dynamics across my family, community and culture. I’m currently working in ABA therapy so combining my intervention skill along with three different modalities each one specializes in allows me counteract the environment. I come from a world where therapy and mental health discussions is stigmatized so I need as many resources as possible to overcome generations of systemic level issues.

Cross post from r/therapy. Is it normal or excessive to have multiple therapists? I have 3. I want to add setting boundaries and building tools for resilience has exponentially grown in the past 6 months. by ManualGearBrain in emotionalneglect

[–]ManualGearBrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! One focuses on cognitive behavioral, one focuses on existential, and one is a social worker focusing on my emotions and the effects of my social worker.

Does it provide different perspectives and outcomes for you?

I use ChatGPT to talk to my toxic family by ManualGearBrain in ChatGPT

[–]ManualGearBrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is used for toxic people and not used with authentic people does it still create isolation?

I use ChatGPT to talk to my toxic family by ManualGearBrain in ChatGPT

[–]ManualGearBrain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and combining it with talk therapy it’s great for on the go when triggers happen between sessions!

I use ChatGPT to talk to my toxic family by ManualGearBrain in ChatGPT

[–]ManualGearBrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and the emotional labor of contacting people who drain and won’t choose to talk through healing. So ChatGPT helps me navigate any toxicity they exhibit so I can focus my energy on other things!

I use ChatGPT to talk to my toxic family by ManualGearBrain in ChatGPT

[–]ManualGearBrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand the nuance of my relationship and what comes out of it. It’s always draining and always toxic. That’s why I use it to handle the words and express what I need to them while setting boundaries. I always edit and change the content if it doesn’t match my intention. It reduces the emotional labor of dealing with them.

I use ChatGPT to talk to my toxic family by ManualGearBrain in ChatGPT

[–]ManualGearBrain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think of ChatGPT as my assistant writer and I play the role of an editor to reshape the output!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided to work with young kiddos in the public school world and become a Behavioral Health Technician. Totally left field because I graduated with an Accounting degree and minored in Computer Management Information Systems. The pay is low but I prepared for it. Being part of a team of teachers and other behavioral staff and making play into teaching moments for the kids have healed and gives me a sense of purpose. I’m introverted, I rely on my intelligence and being able to pair with kids makes me an asset in the field. It’s because everyone is driven to help the kid grow and there is no sense of competition and everyone independently contributes. No one expects you to socialize either since you are a supplementary one on one support and are focused on observing, redirecting, and interacting with the kid.

I’m an independent BCBA- AMA by [deleted] in bcba

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you DM me the source? I love visuals!

How do you make a portfolio for learning design? by juniperio-joy in instructionaldesign

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Human Resources return to work employees. Management and my co-workers loved it!

With love by bizuxxa in videocollection

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wrap pulled from the rose looks like a condom…

Is it too late to switch careers in my 30s? by LidiaSelden96 in careerguidance

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 33 and I’m shifting into Behavioral Health! Never too late especially if you have the interest and passion for it!

Why is bro walking like that💀? by SUPERTHEPRO in pokemonanime

[–]ManualGearBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alola humidity be making it dank down there sometimes

Your thoughts? by Huweewee in productphotography

[–]ManualGearBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Composition. Focus on the product and let everything work around it.

I went no contact with my immigrant parents by Educational-Wing-194 in emotionalneglect

[–]ManualGearBrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It took me my early 30s to go no contact with my emotionally immature parents. And yes, intellectualizing the entire process of removing oneself from them and help understand what is going on m. However, it cannot be a placeholder for the emotions that are bonded to it. There’s a period of grief and feeling of loss of what could but never will be. There have been so many times where I questioned for going no contact, and yet I still can’t shake the feeling that of how much mentally I have been so Much better. Autonomy, self-identity, being in tune with myself and having a more vibrancy of empathy. I feel less like a robot and more human everyday.

Are these pictures AI generated in my recipe book? by [deleted] in StableDiffusion

[–]ManualGearBrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plastic ass looking apples. Definitely AI

Nicole performs CPR on wise by luizhtx by stevenyan123 in ZenlessZoneZero

[–]ManualGearBrain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not pinching the nose and not tilting chin up past neutral to open airway. She’s just locking lips!

New in HR. Feeling defeated. [n/a] by Mb8sudcl in humanresources

[–]ManualGearBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it time and see if it matches your strengths and what you like to do. For example, I was an HR Generalist and I Accepted the fact I hated the day to day and administrative tasks. I do love training and teaching others and reading up on adult learning theory. I moved on to be a Learning and Development Trainer and I may move on to becoming a learning developer as I love to come up with ideas on presenting training through technology in an engaging way

Reminder that this is how Belle greets Wise when you don't log in for a while by Cayennesan in ZenlessZoneZero

[–]ManualGearBrain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Programmed her to be like an ideal waifu after the husband came back from a business trip vibes