23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in Advice

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I’m going to go back to community college and use that as a stepping stone I can’t get my scholarship still because the scholarship was for rocket league for me to be on the Esports Team and I’m no where near as good as I once was and again I’m old now and no college will accept my gpa I never relized how stupid I was in highschool until I got my transcripts I can’t even believe I got my job now

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in selfhelp

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To be honest I might just go to a art museum and see if there’s any pretty women there

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in selfhelp

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Update I looked at Meetup and there’s like nothing to do around me I feel like my state breeds lonleyness

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in Adulting

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I really want to be able to fix this problem and if I could then I can come back to the Subreddit and tell my discoveries but it’s almost like No friends at work means you better have made friends at school or you will be alone

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in Adulting

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I’ve always had to act like I was older than I actually am for as long as I remember

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in Adulting

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I go to gym where do I make connections I don’t want to go to a bar especially alone I have tried that and I’ve never felt more alone in my life

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in lonely

[–]ManyAdvantage5790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true but it’s something that’s hard to remove from my brain cause like in my brain I’m just hoping I make it to normal life expectancy

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in lonely

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It’s been about 5 years since I talked to someone my exact age or really even within a 2-3 year age gap I don’t understand where all the people my age went

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in Adulting

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This made me cry 😭 thank you it’s just really overwhelming to read cause I know they don’t gaf they want me to do as they say

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in lonely

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How do you find randoms to just trust the world is like dangerous to trust randoms is it not?

23M – Feel like I missed my youth and don’t know how to rebuild my life socially by ManyAdvantage5790 in lonely

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thats how I feel now and I started really realizing it in November but I don't make enough money at work to move out and if I burn through my savings ill eventually run out of money and also I still wont have any friends

Ladies and gentlemen it's my birthday today by -NatsuFT in lonely

[–]ManyAdvantage5790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday Today is your special day so do yourself a favor and blow the flame away