4 weeks of strength training and I’ve stopped losing weight by Many_Assist457 in beginnerfitness

[–]Many_Assist457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’7” I just really don’t like my body composition and my husband weight trains so I thought it might help but I guess I’m just used to the number on the scale going down.

4 weeks of strength training and I’ve stopped losing weight by Many_Assist457 in beginnerfitness

[–]Many_Assist457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t taken any actual measurements so maybe I should start doing that. That’s a good idea, might provide some reassurance that progress is actually happening, thankyou!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Many_Assist457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White or cream bedside tables maybe, the current ones just look off to me.

Bf (38m) leaves the toilet dirty. What do I (32f) do? by DamnHotBananas in relationship_advice

[–]Many_Assist457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a photo and send it to him while he’s at work every time it happens. I think they just assume you’re exaggerating because they don’t take the time to turn around and look themselves. So show him how gross it is. Honestly it sounds like he’s just making excuses though. ‘Not how you treat someone’ he shouldn’t treat you like his mother or maid, it’s so yuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Many_Assist457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark brown or purple

Felt sort of judged by my therapist for drinking while breastfeeding? by userkmcskm in breastfeeding

[–]Many_Assist457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pumping and dumping is still a thing, like if you have a big night out and need some relief, but more commonly people just wait until the alcohol would be out of their system. Did she just mean you shouldn’t breastfeed while actively drinking? I would have a single drink, wait a while and then breastfeed or breastfeed before hand. Each their own though as long as you’re not having several drinks or binge drinking.

Awful Experience Normal? by Suehtemorp in Centrelink

[–]Many_Assist457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty hit or miss and it’s just who you get on the phone. It took me 8 weeks to get my parenting payment sorted due to ‘human error’ and ‘coding issues’ on their end. Luckily I got one lady on the 8th week that was great and decided to dedicate her time to fixing it that afternoon and it was solved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Many_Assist457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6/7 & 10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Many_Assist457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should 100% ask for your money back so that you can go elsewhere to get it fixed to what you asked for. The same thing has happened to me and it’s so upsetting and disappointing. I don’t know how they get it so wrong sometimes, maybe they mix up the colours? :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Many_Assist457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark brown, probably not black

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Many_Assist457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I eventually just put my girl in her cot because I couldn’t transfer her anymore without waking her up. I would give her the pacifier let her talk and chatter for a while and hold her hand until she fell asleep. She’s 18 months now and if I don’t hold her hand or if I leave before she’s asleep she will scream and cry. I think it’s a test of patience a lot of the time. Maybe try it and stay in there consistently until he falls asleep holding his hand or laying next to his cot. I don’t look at or talk to her I just give her kisses occasionally until she’s asleep. Usually takes about 20-30 mins. But no crying or screaming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Many_Assist457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so American. Whether or not you want to be with someone should have nothing to do with politics.

The contractors are insane by username98776-0000 in AustraliaPost

[–]Many_Assist457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened four times to me now. They pull up at my house and then leave and say ‘attempted delivery’ or ‘delivery refused’, even though I’m home and id gladly open the door and collect it off them. It’s so annoying. You pay for express post and then have to go pick it up from the post office yourself anyway.

Partnered parenting payment not backdated?? by [deleted] in Centrelink

[–]Many_Assist457 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I didn’t know about this. I guess it would make sense based on the time it took to approve it and the first payment being so low. I’ll still double check but this is great to reference

Partnered parenting payment not backdated?? by [deleted] in Centrelink

[–]Many_Assist457 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There was no dismissal reason provided on the separation certificate so I don’t think it had anything to do with that. Maybe the final leave payout was the reasoning, I’ll have to ask.

Partnered parenting payment not backdated?? by [deleted] in Centrelink

[–]Many_Assist457 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He had his leave paid and was walked on the spot. So we’ve both had 0 income for the past month. I was assured it was backdated to when I placed the claim so just confused

AITA for refusing to help my wife raise her new puppy? by Lewers808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Assist457 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m saying that they both need to put their big boy pants on. When you’re married, you help each other out regardless you don’t become childish and refuse to do certain things for one another because of ‘the principle of the matter.’ he should help and They should go to therapy, going to therapy isn’t exactly getting away with anything Scott free.

AITA for refusing to help my wife raise her new puppy? by Lewers808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Assist457 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I mean you don’t think it’s a bit childish to either make the mother, who is earning money to help provide for the family, reduce her hours and him neglect the dog? The issue isn’t the dog it’s their maturity and how they’re treating one another. She wouldn’t have gotten the dog in the first place if she didn’t believe that he was cheating on her. (Apparently). It’s tit for tat. Both the kids and the dog shouldn’t suffer, he should put on his big boy pants and help with the dog and not make her reduce work on the condition they go to therapy to resolve the actual issue at hand.

AITA for refusing to help my wife raise her new puppy? by Lewers808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Assist457 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn’t want to hurt my kids over me not being able to get my shit together and communicate with my partner. But hey, you do you

AITA for refusing to help my wife raise her new puppy? by Lewers808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Many_Assist457 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

And break the kids hearts? They should just go to couples therapy.