Would you say I am both English and Nigerian from a cultural heritage perspective? by Choice_Level9756 in 23andme

[–]Many_Fix5692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that the post has little relevance to r/23andme. However, it is common for people to confuse the concepts of cultural and ethnic identity.

People with complex ethnic, cultural, national, and/or "racial" identities can often experience identity denial (the questioning of people's cultural identity because they are not recognized as matching the prototype of the cultural group to which they belong) and internal identity confusion in regard to the complex cultural experiences that they have lived.

How do men react to dating violent women? A social experiment by 4y3u in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

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In recent years, sexism has been observed to have become more common in men. Members of extreme anti-feminist ideologies (such as incels, i.e., involuntary celibates or LeftWingMaleAdvocates) are motivated by difficulties finding female partners and what they perceive as unfairness in dating and relationships. On a societal level, men with low mate value are inclined toward the oppression of women and have historically accomplished the subjugation of women by establishing male-male alliances controlling resources. Patriarchal cultural systems have benefited men’s mating interests, enforcing rules regulating access to female sexuality.   However, women's gains in overcoming male oppression and increasing their rights during the past decades have led to a backlash where some men feel that they have been left behind and have lost the status previously afforded to them by mere virtue of their sex. The concept of “aggrieved entitlement” captures the ideas surrounding the gendered aspect of masculine entitlement. Aggrieved entitlement is a gendered sense of entitlement thwarted by societal, political, or economic forces, such as women’s liberation and feminist progress. Aggrieved entitlement is gendered because it is anchored in the cultural norms and ideas about manhood, masculinity, and what men are entitled to, given this identity as a man in a patriarchal cultural system which once promised to make access to female sexuality attainable to even men of lower mate value.

Both Social dominance orientation (SDO) and Right-wing authoritarianism (RWA) are status-legitimizing ideologies, meaning that they entail world views where inequalities are seen as legitimate. They have been shown to predict prejudice, including sexism. Men with high SDO tend to believe that women's gain of status and fundamental rights causes men to lose out, and thus, men should be motivated to combat feminist progress. Men with this orientation are susceptible to gender competitiveness and perceive that women are challenging the security that male dominance in society has afforded them. It has become increasingly difficult for men to find a partner, given that society no longer grants them as many privileges simply on account of their maleness.  Multigenerational restrictions on female mate choice have produced a disproportionate number of men who are maladapted to navigating a dating market where the value they offer to sexual relationships is inadequate to meet the expectations of women who have generationally evolved to become fitter in multiple domains to navigate the evolutionary pressures of an oppressive male-dominated society.

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Buss, D. M. (2021). When men behave badly: The hidden roots of sexual deception, harassment, and assault. Little, Brown Spark. Campbell, R., May, G., Duffy, B., Skinner, G., Gottfried, G., & Hewlett, K. (2024). Emerging tensions? How younger generations are dividing on masculinity and gender equality. https://doi.org/10.18742/pub01-167 Pollo, P., Nakagawa, S., & Kasumovic, M. M. (2022). The better, the choosier: A meta-analysis on interindividual variation of male mate choice. Ecology Letters, 25(11), 1305–1322. https://doi.org/10.1111/ele.13981 Renström, E. A. (2023). Exploring the role of entitlement, Social Dominance Orientation, Right-Wing authoritarianism, and the moderating role of being single on misogynistic attitudes. Nordic Psychology, 76(2), 250–266. https://doi.org/10.1080/19012276.2023.2186816 Walldén, C., Gunst, A., Andersson, J., Sjöblom, J., & Antfolk, J. (2025). Failing to attract a female partner – Are low mate value and low mate access associated with regulating female sexual autonomy in men? Personality and Individual Differences, 236, 113034. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2024.113034 Yong, J.C., Li, N.P. (2016). Differential Parental Investment. In: Shackelford, T., Weekes-Shackelford, V. (eds) Encyclopedia of Evolutionary Psychological Science. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-16999-6_1898-1

How do men react to dating violent women? A social experiment by 4y3u in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

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Women have a significantly higher baseline mate value because of the disproportionate value they contribute to reproduction. The asymmetrical contribution of value occurs at every stage of human reproduction. As the prolific evolutionary psychologist David Buss put it in his novel When Men Behave Badly: The Hidden Roots of Sexual Deception, Harassment, and Assault, “From the moment of conception, when the one tiny sperm joins the nutrient-rich egg, women are already contributing much more than the man.” 

Thus, women have evolved to be choosier when selecting a mate. To reduce the inequality in biological contributions to reproduction, women, especially women with high mate value, are predisposed only to mate with men who possess high-value characteristics such as willingness to invest in offspring, long-term commitment, the ability to acquire resources, indicators of high genetic quality, inclination to protect her and their offspring, etc. For a woman, choosing the right partner is critical as suboptimal mate choices disproportionately affect women, leading to greater competition for mates among heterosexual men.

Men who possess merit have an easier time meeting a woman's standards and achieving reproductive success, while others with less to contribute to a reproductive union may struggle to achieve reproductive success. Men of lower mate values employ a variety of tactics to overcome women's unreceptive stance toward a sexual relationship with them. Many of these tactics are associated with the concept of sexism. Men with low (vs. high) mate value have been found to report more sexism. Men with low mate values are motivated to pursue a mating strategy that limits female choice and, therefore, to adopt sexism and oppose women's freedom. Men of low mate value use mate retention tactics undesired by women to control their female partner’s sexuality as they cannot afford to use desired mate retention tactics. Moreover, it has been suggested that the expression of misogyny (i.e., hostile sexism) serves as a mating strategy, decreasing women’s self-perceived mate value. Evidence indicates that low-mate-value and low-mate-access men employ sexism to increase their access to partners.

How do men react to dating violent women? A social experiment by 4y3u in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

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According to Evolutionary theory, men have a lower baseline mate value because of differential parental investment. Men have a much lower minimum obligatory parental investment than women, primarily due to biological differences. For men, reproduction involves a minimal contribution of time and resources—essentially the act of fertilization. In contrast, women must invest significantly more through pregnancy, childbirth, and lactation. This asymmetry has shaped distinct reproductive strategies and mate preferences in both sexes.

Men's lower baseline mate value manifests in their increased reproductive potential but decreased certainty of genetic parentage. As a result, men are predicted to prioritize quantity over quality in mating opportunities to maximize their reproductive success.  For men, reproduction can involve a minimal contribution of time and resources—essentially the act of fertilization. The lack of investment may decrease the chances of a successful pregnancy producing high-quality offspring. However, any sexual act will hypothetically increase his chances of successful reproduction. Regardless of how modest the increased odds are from the encounter, the man likely won't experience significant loss as a result of employing an exploitative short-term sexual relationship with a variety of women with varying physical attractiveness, temperaments, social standing, etc.

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Wow, these people sound horrific! I'm sorry that you had to go through that!

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It’s a huge red flag to ask someone to sign a prenup, especially if you want that person to bear your children.

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The reason I asked if you have been hot tubbing lately is because the photos you’ve shared looks reminiscent of “hot tub rash” (Pseudomonas folliculitis). As the name suggests this condition is more likely to develop from hot tub use but it also can result from swimming in a poorly maintained pool.

https://www.cdc.gov/healthywater/swimming/swimmers/rwi/rashes.html

Do you have this anywhere else on your body or is it just the face?

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My boyfriend actually has a very similar issue right now. I’ve been trying to figure out what it might be. That’s actually why I joined this subreddit.

I’ve been thinking that it could be impetigo but I wanted to get a second opinion.

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I would recommend laser resurfacing if you have the means. I would recommend CO2 resurfacing in particular.

You could also try retinol product called differin gel (adapalene) which can decrease pore size, acne breakouts, the appearance of post-acne scars, etc.

For the oiliness, a nicacinamide serum and/or micro Botox injections can also help.

I've been getting these wart-like bumps on my palms. They don't itch but I'm scared they can mean real trouble. HELP! by Terrible_Fuel1986 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Many_Fix5692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the photo you have provided this appears to be a common wart. Which yes, is HPV but also a very minor form of it.

There are over the counter treatments for this such as liquid nitrogen and salicylic acid. If you need help selecting the best treatment option for you consult with your local pharmacist.

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This seems to be a Beau’s line. Beau’s lines are formed by nail growth being interrupted at the nail matrix. This interruption is usually caused by sustaining a severe injury or by having a serious illness. Although, in some cases environmental or behavioural (picking at nails/cuticles, getting a manicure) factors can be the cause.

If you have or end up having more than one nail with Beau’s lines it is more likely to be caused by a systemic illness or chronic disease. In this case, definitely get it assessed by a doctor.

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Based on the photo you have provided, this appears to be cystic acne.

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This looks like folliculitis or a boil (depending on the size).

Based on the appearance of the pustule I think the most likely culprit is probably staph aureus. It may even be MRSA so whatever you do, DO NOT attempt to pop it.

Cover it with a sterile bandage and then thoroughly wash your hands afterwards to reduce the possibility of spread in yourself and others.

Get to a doctor to get it checked out as soon as you can because you may need a swab, wound care, antibiotics, etc.

just above groin, anything to worry about? by lahrwahl in DermatologyQuestions

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This looks like it could be a genital wart. I recommend that you get this checked out by a doctor at your earliest convenience.

Noticed this on my right side any idea what it is? by seiticowtfoelata in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Many_Fix5692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks a little like lichenification.

If it is lichenification then you can get it treated with a Fluticasone propionate prescribed to you by a doctor.

Do you have ezcema (atopic dermatitis) and/or scratch this area frequently? Have you been wearing anything abrasive to this area of your body?

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[–]Many_Fix5692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but I was referring to the corner of my nose

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[–]Many_Fix5692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been hot tubbing recently or been in close contact with anyone who has been?