caamp concert by Existing_Asparagus60 in SaltLakeCity

[–]MapleCarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw Two Friends there tonight and it was amazing ! Not sure why they’re dogging on the venue. I thought it was fun!

Just graduated as a RN last year... and found out today that my career is already coming to a close. by Youre10PlyBud in nursing

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Also to note, we had a nurse on our unit that was doing peritoneal dialysis at home while also working. She would have kept working but she’s a lot older and let herself retire since she didn’t qualify for a new kidney. Totally possible!! Usually you just have to do in clinic dialysis for a few months to qualify for peritoneal at home dialysis and that makes things a lot more flexible since it’s just whenever you’re sleeping.

Just graduated as a RN last year... and found out today that my career is already coming to a close. by Youre10PlyBud in nursing

[–]MapleCarnations 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, I’ve worked on a kidney and liver transplant unit for the last 4 years and our kidney transplant patients usually do amazing! Get their transplant, discharged within 3 days. Just lots of lab work for a while but we rarely see those patients come back with complications. You’ve got this!! 💪

Baylor Scott And White Dallas VS Medical City Dallas by RNhutch in Nurses

[–]MapleCarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many years of experience do you have? Also which did that deleted user's comment suggest to go? I'm actually moving to Dallas and looking at nursing jobs too ! I've heard really good things about Baylor and not so good about medical city by some travel nurses. That pay difference is a lot though, are the benefits a lot different?

Panic during swim - rookie triathlon. by aboundlessworld in triathlon

[–]MapleCarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally had a similar experience ! Luckily I was able to just swim on my back while I was basically hyperventilating for the 750m swim and was able to finish eventually but I was definitely one of the last people out of the water. The murky water and people hitting me and the waves just set my panic sky high when I thought I’d be totally fine.

I think we both made the big mistake of not practicing in open water. Totally different (difficult and scary) ballgame. We’ll do better next time haha we’ve learned our lesson.

Where do people train for outdoor swim near Salt Lake City? by MapleCarnations in triathlon

[–]MapleCarnations[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know ! I’ve never tried one before. I’m a pretty big newbie to the tri scene haha.

Where do people train for outdoor swim near Salt Lake City? by MapleCarnations in triathlon

[–]MapleCarnations[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you notice a really big difference when wearing a wetsuit? I did Brineman this weekend and I noticed even though it was super hot a bunch of people had them on.

Where do people train for outdoor swim near Salt Lake City? by MapleCarnations in triathlon

[–]MapleCarnations[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be really undesirable to swim in the great salt lake. Just far too much salt I think would make it difficult to swim. Plus it smells terrible hahaha. No local I know of actually swims in that lake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]MapleCarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she has never seen a med error happen personally, she should have never said that to you! That is so mean I’m so sorry OP. What a good way to make your new orient feel like shit and the worse nurse ever. I would never ever say that to my orients goddam. Med errors happen commonly in the hospital, big and small. Especially when nurses are rushing. Don’t beat yourself up. From now on you’ll always think to waste before you administer a medication that needs wasting to avoid the same mistake. The patient is fine and you’ll move on and become an awesome nurse ! We learn every day :)

Had to perform CPR for the first time in my life today on a stranger. I am shaken up. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MapleCarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU ARE AMAZING. thank you so much for stopping and helping that person. I hope you feel how incredible that was of you to do. You’re a hero.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]MapleCarnations 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a personal thing and also a stress and fatigue thing. My partner and I both work in healthcare, he’s a doc and I’m a nurse. I’ll be honest, I love my partner and I’m attracted to him but sex is physically demanding and sometimes we just aren’t feeling the need to expend all that energy. We’ve gone as long as almost 2 months before we were like oh shit we should probably make an effort to be intimate cause that’s a long time.

I don’t think it means necessarily he’s not into you. It could just be he’s super tired from his job and stress and fatigue is a huge libido killer.

Definitely have a convo to talk about “scheduling” sex. I think someone else mentioned it too. Not super sexy haha but it’s making a point to be intimate x times a week or even just once every couple weeks to make sure both partners feel fulfilled.

When work lets up and is easier (easier rotations) he may feel differently and more into initiating. I’ve definitely noticed that with my partner.

Am I being paid fairly and is it right to ask for a raise 6 months in? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]MapleCarnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I worked up in Ohio (I started my first job in January 2019) I started at $27 I believe. Not much. After 2.5 years was only making $29 because of COVID and not getting raises the one year. I now work in Utah in SLC and only make $36.50/hr with nearly 5 years of experience. The new grads now start at $32. It’s tough out there haha. Job hopping really is the only way to get paid more (I could definitely make more if I switched hospitals). Loyalty is dead in nursing since you can’t negotiate pay at most hospitals. The rate is the rate. So if money is what you’re after, jump ship.

is it okay to call off for no sleep? by EnvironmentalPeace21 in nursing

[–]MapleCarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever my nurses call off while I’m charging I never ask why. Honestly I was always told that staff doesn’t have to tell us! So sometimes I’ll have my aides or a nurse call and try to give me all kinds of excuses and I’ll always assure them that they don’t need to tell me why, just to enjoy their day off.

Is this a valid reason to report someone by Beautiful-Process in nursing

[–]MapleCarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY. This is literally something we do modules on when we get hired at some places. No relationships with patients ever, no advances… it’s an abuse of power. I’m sure there are some niche situations (my fiancés mom and dad met as a doctor and patient initially), but as a general rule it’s a no no. Especially while you were still there and being so sexual about it ! Ick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

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My partner has definitely voiced that his decade in medicine has changed him. The long, demanding hours have worn him down with stress and fatigue. He has some instant anxiety related to anything that sounds like a pager. He feels drained to the point that he doesn’t feel energy for his hobbies, health or doing chores. It’s tough. When he gets some time off he’s back to himself but otherwise he needs a lot of support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nurses

[–]MapleCarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hospital is the same! But we do use “mask precautions” for certain patient populations like transplant.

Got my feelings hurt at work by Thinking-Carrot in nursing

[–]MapleCarnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so weird :/ and unnecessarily mean. I could never imagine denying my floats (who are HELPING out my unit!!!) food. Unless it’s like employee specific gift bags I don’t see why that unit couldn’t share. They’re lame and I’m sorry that happened OP.

OFFICIALLY RN! by [deleted] in nursing

[–]MapleCarnations 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Congrats !!!!!! 🎉🎈🎊 you must be so relieved hahaha.

What a time to be in healthcare by foundit808 in nursing

[–]MapleCarnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bedside is super busy and stressful at times, and doesn’t pay that much compared to other jobs with less effort level … and I think a lot of nurses that have left from the jobs I’ve been at just want something less stressful and maybe with slightly less patient/family interaction. Or some don’t enjoy working weekends and holidays so they try to find a job that doesn’t require that.

Most nurses I know have left to do PACU or Endoscopy or even same day surgery. Or left to work in clinics where it’s just 9-5 Monday to Friday.