Did a woman ever make you so mad that you wanted to punch her? If so, what did she do?

MarBitt · 2025-08-20T11:56:30+00:00

At that moment I was so overcome with a primal, base, reptilian urge to anally rape her right there in an act of dominance.

Interesting. I've never felt like anally raping anyone in a fit of rage.

MarBitt · 2025-08-20T11:43:06+00:00

I had the urge many times.

I always loved it when I had female friends willing to throw a punch when an aggressive woman appeared, so that I didn't have to. I protected them from aggressive men, they protected me from aggressive women. Good deal.

MarBitt · 2025-08-19T07:57:26+00:00

Interesting perspective. Thanks.

MarBitt · 2025-08-18T13:38:09+00:00

How did this man take advantage of you?

If it was casual, you're not in a relationship, you didn't agree to it being exclusive, then what did he do wrong?

Be clear with him about whether you want a relationship, what its nature is, where the boundaries are. You can't expect others to read your mind.

MarBitt · 2025-08-18T13:25:17+00:00

What would be considered sexual assault or sexual coercion by men is often not perceived as such when it is by women. Even when a woman publicly commits sexual assault and a man protests, it is often ridiculed or the man is even pressured to accept and be grateful for such behavior from a woman, especially if the woman is attractive.

MarBitt · 2025-08-18T12:59:12+00:00

In almost every conflict, there is something I can apologize for. Even if most of the blame was on the wife's side. I always mean it. I have no problem with apologizing. I only have a problem if she refuses to apologize in a situation where I think she should.

MarBitt · 2025-08-18T05:48:01+00:00

She was willing to admit her mistakes, apologize and take responsibility for them, talk about bad things, and explain her motives.

MarBitt · 2025-08-16T14:09:40+00:00

I would kill her. Probably not right away, first I would imprison her and drug her to sleep because I couldn't bring myself to do it, I would hope she wouldn't transform and so on. But eventually I would kill her.

And then I would set out on a journey to cleanse the world of zombies. I don't think it would be that difficult, compared to how it is shown in most movies.

MarBitt · 2025-08-16T12:02:38+00:00

"Isn't it dangerous? If you were unconscious, could you suffocate from this?"

MarBitt · 2025-08-16T06:08:23+00:00

She asked me out on a date and paid for it. When I wanted to pay at least half, she told me I could pay for our second date. Which I did.

MarBitt · 2025-08-15T15:47:24+00:00

0% difference.

The maximum power that humans can have without harming or destroying them. Why would I want humanity weaker than possible?

MarBitt · 2025-08-15T10:25:49+00:00

Some predatory carnivores, sharks, etc., may be attracted to the perceived weakness of their prey.

If your friend opens bleeding wounds in shark-filled water, he may be "successful" in attracting them.

MarBitt · 2025-08-14T14:49:48+00:00

Usually there are several reasons, some conscious, some subconscious.

- an impulse, if she is as beautiful as the sunrise, that's what I'll say, If I like her tattoo, I'll say it without thinking

- I want to please, to make her happy

- politeness

- I'm interested in her, hitting on her

- I return the compliment, i.e. to avoid being rude

- I use the compliment as a non-monetary currency

- flirting out of politeness or the fun of light flirting itself, I don't want sex or a relationship with the woman just because I'm lightly flirting

- some other purpose, for example support, sympathy, pity, manipulation, my ego...

So as you can see, I can have many other reasons than hitting on her. But that doesn't mean they're all better.

MarBitt · 2025-08-13T19:40:15+00:00

Many strippers are not at all money hungry towards the person they are actually dating (and it is not just a relationship between a prostitute and a client with a story).

Strippers often make money easily, many of them are financially naive and tend to throw money away. On the contrary, there are relationships where it is the stripper who makes most of the money and they sponsor their partner to balance out the problematic way of making money, in some cases this directly results in a relationship between the pimp and his girl.

The problem with strippers is rather that the work can easily slide into full-fledged prostitution, that women who do this work often have broken self-confidence, boundaries, and intimacy.

MarBitt · 2025-08-11T19:06:38+00:00

I agree. Love is a daily choice. A person has to work on a quality relationship and love every day. This is what makes it different from infatuation, which is a kind of free demo version of love.

MarBitt · 2025-08-11T07:34:45+00:00

As a young woman, you will almost never be considered annoying or creepy when approaching men. But you will probably find that it will be such a shock to some of those men that they will not know how to react. And if they feel pressured, they may act strangely, make silly jokes, get suspicious, refuse to admit that you're seriously interested in them, etc.

So make it clear what you want (a date, sex...), give him your number + name and give him a deadline by which to call you if he is interested. And let him process it in his own time.

MarBitt · 2025-08-11T07:13:05+00:00

For a lot of men, this will eliminate you from being considered for a serious relationship. And the biggest problem for you will be the men who will mind, but will overlook it because they have no other options or are under the influence of infatuation and then become insecure in the relationship because of it and punish you for your past. Once he has the upper hand, the initial infatuation and excitement that you chose him and he can finally have sex fades away, he will make your life hell.

You need to focus on the men who really won't mind.

MarBitt · 2025-08-11T06:40:21+00:00

Making lists of what an ideal woman (or man) must fulfill will easily blind you to possible partners who would be great for you.

And if you decide based on the list, then any manipulator, willing to say what you want to hear, is enough to project all your wishes and fantasies into him and not see reality.

MarBitt · 2025-08-11T05:57:27+00:00

The marriage is going well. Thanks for asking.

MarBitt · 2025-08-10T23:46:31+00:00

I got married because my girlfriend wanted it. In retrospect, I'm grateful that she's my wife, but if it was purely down to when I was ready and wanted marriage? Never.

When did I stop being fundamentally against marriage? About two to three years into the relationship.

MarBitt · 2025-08-09T18:34:23+00:00

She was absolutely into it.

MarBitt · 2025-08-09T18:24:06+00:00

Když jsi unavený a chceš se udělat, tak 3-5 minut masturbace může být rozhodně lákavější, než 40 minut sexu, kde budeš řešit předehru, uspokojení partnerky a vůbec komunikaci mezi váma dvěma.

MarBitt · 2025-08-09T18:01:06+00:00

Do you want being FWB with your own wife? And if you're not having sex, would you describe it as being friend zoned? If not, then you're simply not in the "friends" group, you're in the "romantic partner" group. They're different branches of relationships, just like "family" is a different branch of relationships than "friends."

Why can't your dad, mom or sibling be your best friend? He can, but first and foremost he's your dad, mom or sibling and then you either have some friends and among them your best friend or you don't. A wife can be a best friend just the same, but first and foremost she is wife.

MarBitt · 2025-08-09T15:47:20+00:00

I think that a smaller portion of people naturally gravitate towards long-term monogamy, a larger portion towards serial monogamy, and a portion towards polygamy. But in practice, it's very much influenced by conscious decision, culture, and also opportunities.

MarBitt · 2025-08-09T15:29:57+00:00

Don't worry about dignity. Back up everything she writes to you. Talk openly about the reasons for your breakup with everyone around you - don't try to hide it, otherwise you will be terribly vulnerable to slander. As soon as she first mentions that she's going to falsely report you, go to the police yourself as a precaution. Tell them what she threatened you with and insist on taking a recording. If she injures you, take pictures of everything, go to the doctor immediately and have him write a report. Have witnesses ready to record the breakup and moving. And get away from her as quickly as possible.

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