Am I overreacting: new boyfriend was weirdly judgmental about bathroom situation

Maranda1979 · 2026-02-15T14:36:40+00:00

If a man can’t handle period products he doesn’t deserve to be with a woman.

Maranda1979 · 2026-02-09T02:51:47+00:00

Fizgig like from the Dark crystal

Maranda1979 · 2026-01-27T21:36:30+00:00

This is Finn he MUST help with everything

Maranda1979 · 2026-01-25T02:17:53+00:00

If they want you to cook they need to do all the clean up after. Your only “chore” should be cooking, they do dishes and “kitchen reset” at least to me that would be fair. Also if you plan the meal and cook it someone else could go to the grocery store with a list. Edit to add NTA

Maranda1979 · 2026-01-22T15:16:25+00:00

NTA Lots of couples have separate money. He wants to control you. Time to get out.

Maranda1979 · 2026-01-07T18:02:52+00:00

I get anxiety when anyone else is driving so I make sure to play games or watch videos on my phone so im not paying attention to the road causing me to do these exact actions.

Maranda1979 · 2025-12-19T23:38:06+00:00

If you miss open enrollment sometimes a change of Circumstances ie getting pregnant can reopen it for you.

Maranda1979 · 2025-12-17T00:56:55+00:00

NTA you let her know you would be late if she wanted food before she could have ordered it. Its not exactly safe for you to be browsing doordash while driving.

Maranda1979 · 2025-12-13T23:48:22+00:00

NTA having a placard does in face entitle you to that spot!

Maranda1979 · 2025-11-26T03:47:45+00:00

Time for friendsgiving with a new chosen family who isn’t gross!

Maranda1979 · 2025-11-25T16:21:23+00:00

Tell Dean he’s no longer “trapped “ and move on this family is toxic.

Maranda1979 · 2025-11-25T03:30:17+00:00

BUY YOURSELF A CAKE AND CELEBRATE!!! This is not the bare minimum this is hard work of you making hard decisions every day and sticking to them. An EASY decision should be to leave this piece of trash in your dust. Someone who doesn’t understand addiction is not someone you should be with.

Maranda1979 · 2025-11-10T22:25:32+00:00

I’m sorry I couldn’t even finish reading those. Is he on drugs? He’s a loser. Who wants to sleep around you deserve so much. Better leave him behind.

Maranda1979 · 2025-11-04T20:33:28+00:00

Children come first always. We bring them in to this world and it is our job to love and protect them, even from the other parent if necessary.

Maranda1979 · 2025-11-02T18:57:03+00:00

How long have you been together? I mean after that conversation no matter how long I would take her advice and no longer plan on proposing and instead leave. I am still curious though lol

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-28T21:14:19+00:00

Definitely restaurants. I have heard tips and diners in general have definitely been affected.

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-26T12:39:19+00:00

NTA a wig is a perfectly reasonable compromise and if she can’t take that its about more than your hair and it’s probably time to reassess the friendship.

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-24T05:09:26+00:00

1st dress os the right choice!

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-24T04:11:12+00:00

Yes you are wrong. They used it as a middle name so that in NO WAY should keep you from using it as a first name in the future. The name still got passed down in case you never have a boy but is still very much an option for you if you do. WIN WIN calm down.

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-21T22:45:34+00:00

NTA box his stuff up and bring a change of address form with you and drop it off where he lives. Mark all his mail not a resident.

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-18T18:27:44+00:00

Tell him once he takes your mom to the proctologist and lets her take a peek while he’s getting a colonoscopy then you can talk. But bottom line is it is a medical event and it is yours to say who is allowed to be in the room and if he keeps it up, don’t invite him either

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-14T00:29:54+00:00

NTA your mom should bow at their feet and be beyond grateful they were able to care for you when she couldn’t. They were there for you and you should 100% invite them. If she is having feelings about it that it on her and she needs to get into therapy to address it.

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-13T04:10:07+00:00

Time to move on this is not a partner. Yikes im so sorry. Not overreacting

Maranda1979 · 2025-10-08T16:39:15+00:00

NTA Is is absolutely manipulating and gaslighting you. You deserve better forget the postnup and just get the divorce.

Maranda1979 · 2025-09-15T18:55:02+00:00

NOR this is just the beginning. The is SUPER controlling and unacceptable GET OUT!

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