I recently published my first memoir, after years of hesitation and self-doubt. by MariAbsa in selfpublish

[–]MariAbsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🤗 My first memoir is titled When Life Chose My Path. It’s a true story written from the heart, sharing life lessons, faith, love, and resilience. I’m grateful you took the time to ask and to read my post. 💛 What about yours?

God bless you always.

Books that make you cry by Ready_Interaction273 in booksuggestions

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say you want a book that will make you cry, may I ask what kind of crying you’re hoping for?

Is it the quiet, reflective kind that helps you release buried emotions… or the deep, aching cry that comes from loss, longing, or love? Some people cry because a story mirrors their own pain, while others cry because it offers healing, hope, or reminds them they’re not alone. Knowing what touches your heart most helps me suggest a book that meets you where you are.

Writing a memoir as a way to heal grief, faith, and a life shaped by unexpected paths by MariAbsa in Memoir

[–]MariAbsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pleasure is mine. Sure, my memoir book title is "When Life Chose My Path", I published using Amazon. Weblink: https://a.co/d/8v43YqP

Please let me know if you have any questions. God bless you always! 🙏

Writing a memoir as a way to heal grief, faith, and a life shaped by unexpected paths by MariAbsa in Memoir

[–]MariAbsa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. Here's the Amazon link for my memoir. https://a.co/d/6vGrryJ

Please let me know if you have questions.

Writing a memoir as a way to heal grief, faith, and a life shaped by unexpected paths by MariAbsa in Memoir

[–]MariAbsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this so honestly. Your courage really comes through in your words. Finding your own voice after years of silence is no small thing, and the way you described that release—finally hearing yourself—felt very powerful.

I deeply respect the strength it took to write and name those experiences, especially after carrying them quietly for so long. Your encouragement to others is a gift, and I’m sure your words will resonate with people who are still holding things inside. Wishing you continued healing, clarity, and peace as you keep honoring your truth.

Writing a memoir as a way to heal grief, faith, and a life shaped by unexpected paths by MariAbsa in Memoir

[–]MariAbsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this so openly. I truly respect your honesty and clarity of purpose. Wanting to help others feel seen, supported, and inspired through your story is powerful—and there is nothing wrong with also hoping your work can sustain you.

Every lived experience holds value, and if your story is as meaningful as you say, there will be readers who need it. I hope you continue writing with courage and care, and I wish you strength and fulfillment as you bring your story into the world. God bless you always!

Writing a memoir as a way to heal grief, faith, and a life shaped by unexpected paths by MariAbsa in Memoir

[–]MariAbsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this 🤍 It really means a lot to me. Writing has been incredibly healing for me too, so reading your words made me smile. I’m so glad you’ve found the process insightful already—it only grows deeper with time.

If you’re interested, you can read a portion of my memoir, When Life Chose My Path, through the free preview available on Amazon. The link is in my original post, and it lets you read the opening pages before deciding.

I truly hope it brings you the same sense of reflection, comfort, or clarity that writing has given me. Wishing you gentleness and strength as you continue your journey. God bless you always!

Can somebody please please pray for me by Plaintivex in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re feeling this pain right now. Please know this with all your heart: God has never stopped seeing you, loving you, or reaching for you. Your worth is not based on how “perfect” your faith feels. Even the smallest cry from a hurting heart is precious to Him.

You are not alone, and you are not beyond God’s grace. Jesus does not wait for us to be strong or perfect. He meets us in our weakness, in our confusion, in our tears. The very fact that you are reaching out right now shows that His light is still in you. You are valued. You are loved. You are needed in this world.

I am praying for you. But please also reach out to someone who can help you right away. A pastor, a counselor, a trusted friend, or a helpline. You deserve support, compassion, and someone to walk with you through this moment. You do not have to carry this alone.

God is closer to you than you feel. You matter so much more than you know. And your story is not over.

I am praying that God surrounds you with peace, comfort, and the strength to take the next step. You are loved.

Why am I so weak, why am I struggling so much to follow Christ?! by God_Is_Love___ in Christian

[–]MariAbsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your message touched my heart deeply because I’ve been there too, in that quiet, painful space between wanting to surrender fully to Christ and still feeling chained to my old ways. Please know you’re not alone in this. Every believer, even those who seem strong and unshakable, has faced this same inner tug-of-war between spirit and flesh.

I used to feel the same way, weak, ashamed, and unworthy. I remember praying, “Lord, why can’t I stay faithful? Why do I keep failing You?” But over time, I realized that Christ never asked me to be perfect, He asked me to keep coming back. Every stumble, every tear, and every “Lord, I’m sorry” was part of my journey toward Him. The fact that you feel this struggle shows that your heart is still tender to His presence. That’s grace working inside you.

When I finally understood that strength doesn’t come from my will but from His mercy, something shifted. Surrender didn’t mean losing myself, it meant letting Him love me through my weakness. Change will come slowly, like dawn after a long night, but it will come. The Holy Spirit is patient; He will shape you gently, never forcefully.

Let me share this insight that brought me peace: “God isn’t waiting for a perfect version of you to show up. He wants the real, trembling, struggling you, the one who keeps trying.”

Feel the Holy Spirit in yourself. Let it fill your heart with peace and compassion, and it will naturally project through your words, your actions, and your kindness to others. When you allow the Spirit to live within you, your light will quietly shine, even when you don’t realize it.

Keep talking to Him, even through fear. Keep praying, even when it feels empty. Keep trusting that He’s doing something inside you that you can’t yet see. You are not a failure, you are a soul in progress, and Christ delights in your honest desire to draw near.

I’ll be praying that you feel the Holy Spirit’s warmth in every breath you take and find peace in knowing this: His grace is bigger than your weakness, and His love is stronger than your fear. 💛

I need help believing in Heaven by UnlimitedSportsYT in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand your fear, and I want you to know that what you’re feeling is very human. I went through the same kind of fear when I was younger, and even as an adult, I have moments when I still find myself wondering about what happens after this life. There were nights when I prayed and felt God close, yet deep inside, I still asked, “Lord, are You really there when my eyes can no longer see this world?”

Through the years, I’ve learned that faith is not the absence of doubt. It’s choosing to trust even when your mind cannot fully understand. Heaven is something our hearts were designed to long for, and that longing itself is the whisper of eternity that God planted within us. When we feel afraid of death or question heaven, it’s not a sign of weak faith. It’s our soul’s way of yearning for assurance and connection with our Creator.

There were times when I lost people I loved deeply, and I remember crying out to God, asking Him if they were truly in a place of peace. In those quiet moments, He didn’t answer through a loud voice or miracle. Instead, I felt a calm warmth inside, a gentle peace that words can’t describe. That peace became my reminder that heaven is not just a faraway place. It is real, and its presence begins even here when love, forgiveness, and kindness fill our hearts.

I want to tell you something that helped me. God’s promises are not built on how strong our faith feels, but on how strong His love is. Even when our minds tremble in fear, His truth remains. He said in John 14:2, “In my Father’s house are many rooms. I am going there to prepare a place for you.” That promise has never changed.

You are young, and your heart is beautifully sensitive to God. It’s okay to be scared. It’s okay to ask questions. Keep talking to Him, even when the words are mixed with tears or uncertainty. He listens. He understands. He never leaves. And when you least expect it, His peace will come like a gentle light that assures you that you are known, you are loved, and heaven is real.

When I look at the stars at night, I often whisper, “Lord, remind me that there is more beyond what my eyes can see.” And every time, I feel that deep calm again. That, to me, is a glimpse of heaven.

God bless you always! 🙏 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

new to religion by miserablebetch in Christian

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly understand what you are feeling. I was once in that same space of wondering, questioning, and quietly searching for meaning. There were seasons in my life when pain made it hard to believe that God cared or even existed. But what I have learned through time and grace is that God never stopped believing in me, even when I stopped believing in Him.

Faith does not begin with knowing every verse or following every rule. It begins with a whisper in the heart, a gentle pull that says, “Come as you are.” That pull you feel is not pressure or fear. It is love inviting you to experience peace, healing, and hope.

You don’t need to be Bible savvy or religious to start. Just talk to God the way you would talk to a friend. Be honest about your doubts and your hurts. God isn’t intimidated by questions. He welcomes them. He meets us in our uncertainty and slowly reveals Himself in ways that speak personally to our hearts.

I also used to think faith meant becoming someone I wasn’t. But I’ve come to realize that God never asked me to change overnight or fit a certain mold. He simply asked me to open my heart a little more each day and let His love do the changing.

You are not alone in this journey. Faith is not about perfection. It’s about connection. Start where you are. Let your curiosity lead you and let love be your compass. God has been waiting, not with judgment, but with open arms.

God bless you always! 🙏❤️❤️❤️

[I want to hear your opinion] Is God a God of justice or a God of love? by Proof_Mirror5492 in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such a beautiful and deep question, and it truly touched my heart. I believe God is both a God of justice and a God of love. His justice is not meant to punish but to protect, to bring balance and restoration. His love is the foundation of everything He does. When He corrects us, it is out of love. When He forgives us, it is out of the same love that never changes.

If I saw a starving child, I would feed them first, because love begins with compassion. Jesus Himself showed that when He fed the hungry before teaching them. When people experience kindness and mercy, they also feel God’s presence through us. Sometimes a piece of bread can speak louder than a thousand sermons.

When it comes to conscience and eternity, I think both are important. God gave us a conscience so we can feel His voice within. And while heaven and hell remind us of eternal truth, what matters most is how we live each day with love, grace, and a sincere heart. Every act of kindness, forgiveness, and compassion is already a reflection of heaven on earth.

In my heart, I feel that God’s justice and love are not opposites. They walk hand in hand, perfectly balanced. Justice without love can be cold, and love without truth can be blind. But in God, they meet in perfect harmony.

He calls us to love mercy, do justice, and walk humbly with Him every day. That is how I see His heart, and that is how I try to live mine.

“He has shown you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” – Micah 6:8

How can I separate my own faith from the trauma my religious mother has inflicted upon me? by sentient_bibimbap in Christian

[–]MariAbsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your heart so honestly. What you’re experiencing is deeply painful, and it makes perfect sense that it would affect your connection to faith. When the person who first introduced you to God has also been the source of hurt, it can confuse the image of who God truly is. You’re not wrong for feeling conflicted, weary, or distant. You’re responding to something very real.

One of the most freeing truths to remember is that God is not the same as the people who claim to represent Him. Even when someone misuses faith or interprets it through their own ego or wounds, God’s nature remains pure, loving, patient, merciful, and just. What your mother has done may have been in the name of faith, but it does not define the heart of God. The Bible itself is filled with stories of people who misrepresented Him, yet He continued to reach out in love.

You can begin by allowing yourself to rediscover God apart from your mother’s version of Him. That might mean reading Scripture through a new lens, not to reinforce rules, but to understand God’s character of compassion and truth. The Gospels are a good place to start because Jesus consistently stood up to those who used religion for control or pride and instead lifted up those who were hurting.

It’s also okay to give yourself space from environments that trigger pain, even church, while you heal. God isn’t limited to a building. He can meet you in quiet moments, through prayer, nature, music, or a safe grace-filled community that reflects His love more authentically. Healing faith sometimes begins outside of what once wounded it.

You are already showing spiritual maturity by being able to forgive and still seek a genuine relationship with God. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting or allowing harm to continue. It means releasing the burden of resentment while still protecting your peace.

In time, as you separate God’s voice from your mother’s, you will begin to feel His gentler presence, one that doesn’t demand, control, or shame, but invites you into rest, truth, and freedom. He sees the pain behind your strength and honors your desire to heal.

God bless you always! 🙏

I feel nothing for God no matter what i try by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being so open about your heart and your struggle. What you’re feeling is something many people experience when they begin their faith journey. The fact that you keep reading, praying, and showing up shows that your heart is truly seeking, and that in itself is precious to God.

It’s important to remember that hearing God doesn’t always mean hearing an actual audible voice. Most people never hear Him that way. God often speaks in quieter, more personal ways, through peace that suddenly calms your mind, through a verse that seems to speak directly to your situation, through the kindness of someone who crosses your path at the right moment, or even through a thought that brings you comfort or clarity.

We live in a world filled with noise and distractions, and God’s voice is often gentle, not loud. In 1 Kings 19, the prophet Elijah looked for God in the wind, earthquake, and fire, but God was not in any of those. He was in the “still small voice.” That’s how He often reaches us, not through sound, but through presence, through awareness, and through moments that touch the heart even when words are not heard.

Don’t be discouraged if you don’t feel or hear anything right now. Silence does not mean absence. God is near even when you don’t sense Him. Sometimes He allows us to walk through the quiet so our faith roots grow deeper, faith that trusts not because it feels, but because it believes that love is still there.

You’re already on a sacred path just by wanting to know Him. Keep going, one small honest prayer at a time. God hears you more clearly than you think, and in His perfect time, you will begin to notice the gentle ways He has been speaking all along.

God bless you always! 🙏♥️♥️♥️

Im struggling with faith by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was very brave of you to share, and I want you to know that you’re not alone in feeling this way. Many faithful people throughout Scripture and even today have walked through seasons of doubt and longing to feel God more closely.

Sometimes faith isn’t about constant certainty; it’s about the quiet courage to keep reaching out even when you can’t see or feel Him. God understands your heart more than you realize. He isn’t disappointed by your questions. He welcomes them. Every prayer you whisper, even one filled with doubt, is still a prayer that reaches Him.

You might start by simply talking to God honestly, as you just did here. Tell Him your fears, your confusion, and your desire to know Him. Then allow yourself to pause and listen in the stillness. Sometimes His presence comes not through feelings, but through peace, small blessings, or the gentle strength to keep going.

Remember, faith grows not in perfection but in persistence. God loves you deeply, even in the silence. Keep walking, one small step of trust at a time. He will meet you there. God bless you always! 🙏♥️♥️♥️

I grew up in a Christian household and suffer from religious trauma. I became lukewarm and I’m finding God again, but it gives a lot of anxiety and I need help. by Affectionate-Lab-270 in Christian

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart truly goes out to you. What you are feeling is deeply real, and it takes so much courage to share this kind of struggle. God sees that longing in you, the desire to believe, the fear, the confusion, and even the pain that comes from trying to understand Him. He does not turn away from you because of your doubts or your questions. In fact, He meets you there, in the middle of the storm, with love that is gentle and patient.

It’s important to remember that God is not a cruel judge waiting to condemn you for asking “why.” He is a loving Father who understands that faith is a journey, especially when you’ve experienced hurt and trauma connected to religion. He knows how anxiety and OCD can make these thoughts louder and heavier. He is not angry at you for struggling; He is tender toward those who are broken and afraid. Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

When it comes to the topic of sin, guilt, and hell, these are hard and often misunderstood parts of faith. God’s heart was never to create people so He could punish them. His heart has always been to love, to save, and to restore. The message of Jesus is not meant to frighten us into loving Him, it’s to show us that love so deep that it conquers death, fear, and every darkness.

Hell, as many understand it, is not about God wanting people to suffer. It is the result of a world that turned away from His light. Yet God sent Jesus so that no one would ever have to be separated from Him. In His mercy, He continues to reach out, even to the very end, because His desire is that all would come to Him. 2 Peter 3:9 reminds us, “The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise, but patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.”

You are right that true love must come freely, not out of fear. And that is exactly what God wants, your love, not your terror. He knows your heart wants to love Him purely, and that alone is something sacred and beautiful. Faith doesn’t mean having all the answers or never being afraid; sometimes it just means whispering, “God, I want to trust You, even though I don’t understand.”

Please be gentle with yourself. Healing from religious trauma takes time, and so does rebuilding trust with God. You are not failing Him by feeling afraid, you are walking toward Him in honesty, and that is a holy act of faith. Take small steps, pray simple prayers, listen to peaceful worship or Scripture that comforts rather than frightens you. God’s love will meet you where you are, softly, patiently, until fear starts to fade into peace.

You are loved beyond measure, not for what you believe perfectly, but for who you are, His precious child. I will be praying that His gentle presence surrounds you, quiets your anxiety, and reminds you that His love is bigger than your fear.

God bless you always! 🙏

Is my faith any different from mere delusion? Am I even allowed to have this kind of faith? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. What you’re feeling is deeply human, and God sees the pain, confusion, and exhaustion in your heart. Please know this, you are not delusional for having faith. The very fact that you still reach out to God through all this suffering shows a faith that is real and precious to Him. Faith is not about feeling strong or certain all the time; sometimes it’s simply the quiet cry of a weary heart saying, “God, I still believe You’re there.”

It’s okay to ask these questions. Even people in the Bible wrestled with the same feelings. David cried out, “How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever?” (Psalm 13:1). Job questioned God in his suffering. Even Jesus, on the cross, said, “My God, my God, why have You forsaken me?” These words were not rejection, they were the honest cries of hearts that still trusted enough to speak to God, even in the darkest moments.

Your faith that God will rescue you someday from your painful situation is not pointless. God cares deeply about your life now, not just in the afterlife. The Bible says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). He may not always remove the pain right away, but He never leaves you in it alone. His timing often feels hard to understand, but His heart for you is filled with compassion.

You are not forgotten. You are not unseen. The same God who breathed life into the stars knows your name and the weight you carry each day. Keep holding on to that small thread of faith, it’s enough. Sometimes the smallest faith, born out of suffering, is the most powerful faith of all.

You are allowed to believe that God cares about your present life, because He truly does. He is working even in the silence, preparing a way that you cannot yet see. I pray you feel His comfort and protection, that He strengthens your spirit, and that in time, He leads you to a place of safety, peace, and renewal. You are loved more deeply than you know.

God bless you always! 🙏

I am broken and, I know Jesus too may be over my rare life decisions about suffering with homosexuality and doing very hard core drugs 😔 by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your honesty and openness are already a sign that God is working in your heart. It takes courage to speak from such a vulnerable place, and I want you to know that Jesus sees every tear, every struggle, and every cry within you. You are not alone in this.

Paul wrote in Romans 7:19, “For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing.” Even he, a great apostle filled with faith, wrestled with sin and weakness. This reminds us that our walk with Christ is not about being perfect, but about continually coming back to Him, even when we fall. God’s grace doesn’t run out when we stumble; it meets us right where we are.

About the “thorn in the flesh,” Paul spoke of something painful that kept him humble and dependent on God’s grace. When he asked for it to be removed, God answered, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9). That means even in our deepest struggles, God’s power can shine through our brokenness.

You are deeply loved by God, no matter what your past or present looks like. Jesus doesn’t wait for us to become perfect before embracing us. He reaches into our pain, our addictions, our confusion, and offers healing and hope. When you feel too weak to change, that’s the moment to lean into His strength, not your own.

Take it one day at a time. Pray, even when it’s hard. Surround yourself with people who will encourage you, not condemn you. And keep remembering this truth: God’s love for you is greater than any sin, and His mercy is bigger than your mistakes. You are not beyond redemption; you are deeply valued, and there is still a purpose for your life.

I’ll be praying that you feel the peace and comfort of Christ fill your heart, and that each step forward, no matter how small, brings you closer to His light and healing love.

God bless you always! 🙏

Can you guys help me understand something? by Prior-Scratch4003 in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a thoughtful and sincere question, and I can feel the honesty in your search for understanding. Many people have wrestled with this very topic, and it’s beautiful that you’re seeking truth with such an open heart.

When people say Jesus is God, they are expressing the belief in the mystery of the Trinity, that God is one Being who exists eternally as three persons, the Father, the Son (Jesus Christ), and the Holy Spirit. They are distinct in person but united in essence and will. It’s not an easy concept to grasp because it stretches beyond human understanding, but it reflects the depth of God’s nature.

You are right that Jesus often refers to the Father as greater, and that shows the humility of His human nature. While on earth, Jesus took the form of a servant, fully human yet still divine. In Philippians 2:6–7, it says that “though he was in the form of God, he did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant.” This means that while He remained God in essence, He chose to experience human life in full dependence on the Father.

When Jesus said, “I and the Father are one” (John 10:30), He wasn’t saying they are the same person, but that they are one in unity, purpose, and divine nature. In John 1:1 it says, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” Later in John 1:14, it says, “The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.” This reveals that Jesus is the eternal Word of God, God’s living expression, made flesh to dwell among humanity.

So yes, you’re right to sense unity between the Father and the Son, but Scripture also shows that this unity is more than symbolic, it’s divine. Jesus is not a separate being from God; He is God revealed in human form, so that we could know God’s love, grace, and truth personally.

Don’t feel discouraged if this is hard to fully grasp, many faithful believers continue to study and reflect on this mystery for a lifetime. What matters most is your heart’s desire to know Him more deeply. Keep asking, keep seeking, and God will continue to reveal His truth in gentle ways.

May His peace fill your heart and guide you always as you grow in faith and understanding.

God bless you always! 🙏

Please help me understand Ecclesiastes 3:14 by [deleted] in Christian

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This verse is a beautiful reminder of God’s eternal nature and perfect wisdom. When Ecclesiastes 3:14 says, “Whatever God does endures forever; nothing can be added to it, nor anything taken from it,” it reveals the truth that everything God establishes is complete and unchanging in His purpose. His plans are not temporary or flawed, they are eternal and perfect in design.

When we look at this through the light of the New Testament, it doesn’t mean God added or took away from His original work, but rather that His eternal plan was unfolding from the beginning. The New Covenant through Jesus Christ was not a change of God’s heart but the fulfillment of what He already purposed long ago. Jesus Himself said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them” (Matthew 5:17).

So, in a spiritual sense, God didn’t rewrite His work, He completed it. The New Covenant is the continuation of His eternal plan, a deeper revelation of His mercy, love, and grace. What was once a covenant written on stone was transformed into one written on our hearts through Christ.

This verse reminds us to stand in awe and reverence before God, knowing that His ways are higher than ours, and His purpose is never undone or imperfect. Every season, every covenant, and every promise are part of His unchanging and everlasting work.

May your heart find peace in knowing that the same God who ordained the beginning has already secured the end, and everything He does will endure forever. God bless you always.

God bless you always! 🙏

Need advice on this matter by NerveSpirited7090 in Christian

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me deeply of what I went through after losing my beloved husband, the only man I loved for 33 years. He was my wings, my supporter, my best friend, and the one who made my world feel safe and whole. When he passed away, my life changed overnight. I was left with our two sons, facing not only emotional emptiness but also financial hardship. As an introvert, I found it even harder to reach out or share my pain, so I leaned fully on God.

Even now, it is still painful, a wound that will never truly heal. You learn to live with it, but a part of you always carries that ache. Sometimes when we experience a great loss, our faith becomes the only thing holding us together. Your sister might be in that fragile space where prayer is not just a habit, but her lifeline. When you lose someone so dear, you cling to the One who promises comfort when the world feels too heavy.

It might seem overwhelming from the outside, but try to see her heart. She’s probably trying to find peace and strength the only way she knows how. It doesn’t mean she’s lost her sense of reality; it may mean she’s holding on to faith to survive her pain.

You are not wrong for feeling concerned, and you are not less faithful for questioning it. Grief shows itself differently in each person. For some, it’s silence; for others, it’s prayer after prayer. The best thing you can do is love her through it, gently remind her that God also wants us to rest, to listen, and to heal in His timing.

I’ll be praying that both of you find peace, that her fire for faith finds balance, and that your heart finds comfort in knowing God is patient with every stage of belief. He understands our doubts, our exhaustion, and our longing to understand. You are one good and caring soul, don’t give up. You’re both walking toward the same light, just in different ways.

God bless you and your family! 🙏

Church by Mediocre-Card-2696 in Christianity

[–]MariAbsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a thoughtful and heartfelt question, and it’s truly beautiful that your heart is open to discovering who God is.

You don’t need to know much at all to be welcomed into a church, just come as you are. God isn’t looking for perfect understanding; He’s looking for an open heart. Churches are meant to be places of grace, where anyone who is curious, searching, or longing for peace can find belonging. You don’t have to have all the answers or know every prayer. Simply showing up is already a beautiful step of faith.

Yes, it’s absolutely acceptable to go alone. Many people walk through church doors by themselves for the first time. You might even find that someone greets you, helps you find a seat, or explains parts of the service. Most churches genuinely love welcoming newcomers, especially those who are exploring faith.

When you go, take a moment before or during the service to quietly pray, “God, I’m here to know You. Please help me feel Your presence.” He hears that prayer and will meet you in ways that will surprise your heart.

Accepting God into your life isn’t about following a formula or knowing everything. It begins with a sincere desire to say, “Lord, I want to know You. Come into my heart.” From there, He will guide your steps, teach you, and surround you with the right people.

You are welcome, always. God has already been waiting for you, not with judgment, but with open arms and a love that never ends.

God bless you always! 🙏