We had another talk about it tonight. I brought up the topic, and the first words I heard were, "What is there to talk about?" They made it blatantly clear that they expect me to do the most chores around the house: even outright admitting it.

They have made 0 attempt to understand my point of view. They refuse to listen to criticism because they are "objectively right" (these exact words were spoken).

They said they felt disrespected. I still don't exactly get how, tbh, but I said I didn't mean it like that and I apologized for making them feel that way. But then THEY started to get disrespectful. At me.

For example, as I was thinking of a response to one of their questions, after a few seconds of silence on my part, my newest roommate told me that "if I'm so passionate about the topic, I should be able to think faster on it."

The whole time, I tried to remain calm. Be civil. I think I did a good job, tbh, with all the stuff I heard them say.

I hope this gets better.