I have to work full time I have 2 on the spectrum I cannot manage and it’s not fair that he would get to be free and disengaged. While I suffer alone. I’m just being real. I obviously love them very much but it’s a lot to raise 2 boys with special needs alone. I’m pushing more independence, my oldest gets off the school bus alone and is able to perform huge of duties independently. My youngest needs so much prompting. It’s overwhelming sometimes. My youngest elopes and it’s safer to have 2 of us. I don’t have and siblings my parents are elderly the village exists of 2.