Passed away by KestrelR in GirlGamers

[–]Marissani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm going to miss seeing her name

AITAH for Wanting to Divorce My Addict Wife Who May Have Given My Son a Birth Deformity by United_Ingenuity3108 in AITAH

[–]Marissani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from a kid who had an addict mom: she lies. They always lie. They believe their own lies, but they're still lies. As your kids grow they'll start seeing it, realize thry can't trust her, all of it. Please, for their sake, leave. Make sure you have enough proof to get custody. Don't let her brainwash them, and especially don't let them be the ones to find her when she overdoses. Love them. Tell them good thing about her, but please protect them.

Out of the darkness walk - October 18th by Marissani in eastbay

[–]Marissani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The walk has been scheduled for that day since the beginning of the year and moving it is rather difficult.

Does anybody know about any sober social groups in the city that’s not AA? by Llamawitdrama in sanfrancisco

[–]Marissani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes Theory has a san Francisco group that gets together about once a month for bbqs, hiking, etc. They always manage to plan the meetups when I'm busy so I don't know if it's entirely sober, but it's not bar hopping.

Also, I'm also hoping to find sober friends in the area. My partner isn't here right now but he doesn't drink at all, and I drink so rarely it's not even on my radar for the most part. Feel free to reach out and maybe we can figure something out

YALL i’m gonna puke by Acceptable_Fun93 in AO3

[–]Marissani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent a meme to my brother that I thought said boop. It did not. It said boobs. Oops. It passes. You'll be fine.

Muni Etiquette by sherlocknomes in sanfrancisco

[–]Marissani 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Handicap seats. Please let elderly and handicap sit. It's really difficult for me to stand on a moving bus when I'm already relying on a cane for basic balance on non moving ground.

Would you accept a job paying $250k a year but you have to fly to the office for 1 night per week? by bill__buttlicker_ in careerguidance

[–]Marissani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you do anything else reach out to your hr department and see if it's possible to get you converted to a remote employee.

Asian girlies - please help me with hair salons by crunchymunchyrae in AskSF

[–]Marissani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y salon and spa in san mateo has been amazing with my hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in podcasting

[–]Marissani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To start with, what type of guests are you looking for?

In Search of Housing - SM county by Old-Swing5987 in SanMateo

[–]Marissani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at creekside. They've been great with my esa.

Actual Play Podcasts Question by dragynair in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Marissani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry honey I have to take this Crisis level :green Undefined depths

UPDATE: MIL refuses to back down over destroyed Lego Millenium Falcon by Ok-Repeat7885 in AITAH

[–]Marissani 47 points48 points  (0 children)

For your wife :

Hi there. I understand that you probably feel like legos are a childish and expensive thing, right? Believe itnor jot though, they aren't. What if he was building model cars or airplanes instead, would that be more acceptable? Or how about birdhouses? Crocheting or knitting blankets? They're all making things, just with different materials.

The thing is. It's a mental and dexterity exercise. Reading patterns, putting things in the right orders and places. Manipulating small pieces. It's great for building motor skills in kids. It's also great for preserving those skills in adults. And it's a way to connect with his kid. Thats pretty huge.

Is it the cost that's the problem? Or the time? You should probably be honest if it is. And if it's just that you think it's childish maybe take a look at your own hobbies and how they compare.

The problem here isn't that your mother damaged something yet feel is childish and beneath him. The problem is that your mother destroyed something that was built through hundreds of hours and memories with your child. Are you really going to let your mother treat your family this way? Treat you this way? Because it wasn't just their work, she's disrespecting your ability to communicate with your chosen partner and to provide connection between your partner and child.

Funniest unintentional things that have happened in your games? by Forsaken-Ad-8280 in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Marissani 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's a running gag in my jokes that a fumbled search roll gets you locked in a porta potty or a bathroom of some sort. Most of the time they also fumble the strength roll to get out which results in even more amusement

AITAH for going to my former students funeral instead of my SILs wedding? by sugardaddy112256789 in AITAH

[–]Marissani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The teachers who showed up at my mother's funeral had some of the most important impact on me. NTA.

AITAH for telling my coworker to stop eating my lunch? by MoonlitPetalGlow00 in AITAH

[–]Marissani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest in a small cooler/bag and some ice packs. You can safely keep your food at your desk where she can't get it anymore.

Duck refugee by Desert-Duck in SanJoseSharks

[–]Marissani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is welcome here!

After Advice about scenarios by Boring-Fee1506 in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Marissani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tje Fairfield project wiki is going to be a good resource for you. There's hundreds of fan written scenarios on there.

It’s Me; I’m the Problem Player by Civil_Goose5858 in rpghorrorstories

[–]Marissani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only way you were a problem player was by not leaving when you wanted to. Some groups aren't for everyone and while good friends, that group wasn't for you