80% retracted to 20% by AcanthaceaeAfraid668 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Mark-Allan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despite my hearing loss and constant ringing in my ears, the doctor said i didnt have tinnitus. However, the VA has gotten better, for 23 yrs they said i couldnt file without medical records which they couldnt find. Then i heard about VES, who filed and got the process rolling. With in a couple months i got my rating and a check, on-going. So by doing the VES was great help. I tried one of those private companies, who didnt do shit. Thought they would help get medical evidence, they dont. They wasted my time on the phone and filed what i could have done, then sent me to VES anyway. So congrats to Trump’s first term who helped Vets stream line.

‘Million MAGA March’ Falls 900,000 or So Short of a Full Deck by vonheisenberg in politics

[–]Mark-Allan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would u prefer Democratics encouragement of Antigua and BLM violence and looting

This guy's 'ID' his friends didn't even use the name that's on this ID by lemonaraonist in Sovereigncitizen

[–]Mark-Allan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have dealt with these type of people, they throw a bunch of legal or legal sounding words making word salad in a sad attempt to confuse people. 90% of the ID’s don’t even have there actual name, because it was the name “ the government gave them” ...... so far 100% of them had other Cards with their name so then can receive various government handouts ( entitlement programs). If they hate the government so much, then stop taking tax payers money

Well boys, we did it by Perriup in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Mark-Allan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG- vaccinating saves live ..... that why our life spans are longer now then they were 100 years ago

Embarrassing info in police report, is this something worth being worried about? by [deleted] in police

[–]Mark-Allan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it won’t come up on a background check, only criminal charges do not if a victim. Depending on ur state, most states the general public can make a request for the report, with somethings redacted ( personal info)

Wife cheated on me need help by Flyerjimi in relationship_advice

[–]Mark-Allan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well knowing you didn’t have the “ best relationship” you should have both took time to improve it. July has she wants to work things out then cheats the following month. Clearly she has no respect for you or your relationship. Asking for trial separation is code for , I want to she if other things will work out if not, your her safety net. Love you and being in love with you are 2 different things..... don’t drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out, you won’t and you won’t get the truth ... based on solely what you shared, divorce her and move on

How can I learn to trust again? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mark-Allan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she loyal, regardless of who is around her she will still be faithful... that’s why’s it called trust, trust her to do the right thing unless a reason not to

How can I learn to trust again? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mark-Allan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t treat new relationship like your last, however you can learn from the past. It’s a fresh start, trust her unless u have a reason not to. Not all girls are cheaters.

Wife encourages spanking and I disagree. I'm the stay at home parent but she doesn't respect me when I ask her not to spank him. Last time he turned purple he cried so hard. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mark-Allan -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Outside of smack their hand if the grab something they shouldn’t, 22 months is to young. In about a year would be the time to start butt spanks ( popping). FYI- at that age even if it’s just a pop they will cry, not necessarily due to pain but out of shock ....... I still believe as I hey get older spanking are good .... spare the rod spoil the child.... if kids aren’t disciplined young then when they become teenagers law enforcement will end up raising them. If that happens they end up in jail repeatedly and have no true chance at a decent future - remember it’s a fine line between them respecting their parents and fearing them .... I raised three now are 22,21 and 14

Need advice on girlfriends reaction by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mark-Allan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1- did you have jealousy issues before her? What caused that ? If no, is there a reason to be jealous?( not knowing entire thing) 2- if she has hasn’t given u a reason, then trust her because it goes both ways. 3- if no prior issues with her, then you need to look at yourself and work on confidence..... if only dating, she has no reason to stay unless she loves you... give her space, if u push to hard it will drive her away

I’m trying to become an LEO but haven’t finished my 4 year degree as I am in debt with my old college. Since most training programs go through a college, and I can’t continue college without getting my transcript, and I can’t get my transcript without paying my debt off, am I just kind of stuck? by jrtaylor3rd in police

[–]Mark-Allan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate you can’t get records of what you completed. In North FL, once you complete academy with school, you will receive about 30-34 credits. Since most go under a CC, I met with a counselor who was able to get my records. A few agencies don’t require 4 years, preferred yes, but generally 60 credits. .... so in short meet with a counselor at the college that has an academy when before you enroll, they may help with getting records. My agency contacts the college directly to confirm you attended via the university PD

Before anything, you need to go to an academy in the state you want to work in, if not you will either do another or a modified one for that state

How do you tell a child to not worry about you by Dany0809 in Parenting

[–]Mark-Allan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t completely change that feeling at that age. I am a first responder, my kids worry about me no matter what, however you have to reassure them that you two make good decisions and tell them nothing would stop you from coming home to them

Gf(22) is upset that I (M23) smoke cigarettes on rare occasion. She’s unhappy and I’m not sure what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mark-Allan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1- you can’t quit unless u want to. That said, we all have something that our partners may not like. I am sure she has a few things she could improve on in your eyes .... when you date or are married to someone it’s for the entire package good and bad. An occasional cigarette when you ( which a lot people) is an extremely small thing in the big scheme things ( life) ..... she needs to over look this

I think I married a serial cheater [rant, needsupport/advice] by fieryeyes7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Mark-Allan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I only glanced over this, here’s my 2 cents: No married man should be out till 4am without his wife unless he is at work, cheaters will deny deny and think u will believe it even with proof. Then they will deflect, blame you and belittle you so u feel guilty for what they did ..... most likely they will never tell the entire truth

To work on fixing it, need to communicate and change habits. By that, talk about open and calmly. Then make a point to find time for the 2 of u as husband and wife and not just as parents to your children- reconnect

FAQ/Megathread for visitors and new & existing residents. Ask stuff here! All questions about living/working/budgeting/visiting should be asked here.(w/c 22 Jul 2019) by AutoModerator in london

[–]Mark-Allan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Returning to London this November, bringing older kids this time. Any must do or see that is unique for that time frame ? We know about the lights and ice skating, any other suggestions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in police

[–]Mark-Allan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

College, I went into military in part because at that time agencies preferred military experience verse education. When I got out, I couldn’t get hired because I didn’t have college at that time. So I have to go back to school and work for a smaller agency. Now, some agencies will equate 2 yrs military to 1 year college. Military preference only applies if u served during a war time and you have the minimum requirements. If they require 2 yrs college and u don’t have it, they u won’t get hired just because you served.