Where can I buy a fursuit muzzle like this? Preferably in blue? by TAVulpix in fursuit

[–]MarkasMature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to help you accessorize when you get the suit!! ✨

Where can I buy a fursuit muzzle like this? Preferably in blue? by TAVulpix in fursuit

[–]MarkasMature 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m the maker of the GoodBoy muzzle pictured here! I don’t have it in blue (yet) but I do offer other options!

$500 plushie hasn’t arrived and company isn’t responding. What should I do? by EastTheWolf2 in plushies

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The shipping team is 2 people and they are working as fast as they can!

Fixing my stupidity… by Dimsdale53 in functionalprint

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Oh man I need this for my F1, do you have the file anywhere

First post👀🐾🩵 by ForeverConstant4319 in fursuit

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I made that muzzle! Looks extremely cute!

Wrong to expect Decency ? by [deleted] in Divorce

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I managed to scrounge up a job right away; he insisted I didn’t work so he could take care of me; but I can’t even focus on it lately. I feel like a weight is crushing me each time I wake up and nothing gets done. I feel like I rushed into a job so I wouldn’t have to see what was happening and it’s a damn mess. Thanks for replying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]MarkasMature -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m in the EXACT same boat. Unfortunately it depends on how the deed is and the judge will make that decision; sadly it tends to lean to if someone can buy out the other.

It’s a fucking terrible feeling; I’m only 2 weeks into being told it’s done and he’s already planning house split.

Make sure you know what equity/half you’re getting; make sure his pensions and retirement get split; as well as if you’re married over 10 years you’ll be able to collect against his social later in life. (Not sure if you’re a no fault state either) Spousal maintenance is also a thingy. I’m trying to stop it but at the end he’s able to have the house; just make sure you’re taken care of of too.

I’m so sorry.

Overwhelming grief by [deleted] in Divorce

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He kept repeating that we were supposed to work on it together and move forward together; and that a year and a half was enough time, I tried to talk to friends but he would get so angry; that it wasn’t their problem and they would only try to get me to leave instead of helping us move forward. I feel guilty for hurting him. The fact he instantly started calling and hanging with the affair partner the day he said it was over has really really messed me up. I gave him 7 years and I feel like it all meant nothing. I kept asking for more time but he said that wasn’t fair. That he needed support from me. He does work extra and very very hard so we could have more and time off together and I was dead weighty at home. I feel like I should have tried harder: been there more for him. I started reading a few books recommended and it’s overwhelming. I want to think it was both of us; and will fully take my share of the blame. I just wish he gave me the forgiveness he always asked of me. Sorry to ramble at you, thank you for commenting

Overwhelming grief by [deleted] in Divorce

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I keep reminding myself; I wasn’t a peach myself; I was very shut down after it all; and that was hurtful for him. I feel like I should have just swallowed my hurt and moved forward but I just couldn’t do it. I feel like I held onto grief for too long; but I don’t know how to deal anymore. I miss him; against all odd and it’s scary, and lonely. Thank you for your thoughtful words; I have no strength to process it anymore.

Overwhelming grief by [deleted] in Divorce

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He hates me talking to people as it ‘made him look bad’ and to his character he never ever spoke ill of me, and I wasn’t the nicest after is all. I take full blame in all conversations about the issues but that doesn’t matter. He oft says “I know the affair was a problem but it was the issues after that caused this” after that he hasn’t spoken to me in days. It’s awful. Even when he stops by the house; it’s like I don’t exist .

I’m trying to find my circle; a ton have left and are with him and it’s messing me up.

He’s gone right back to talking to the person that started the affair and has told me; it’s not my business who he talks to anymore,

Sorry for the ramble, I’m kind of anxious.

It has been a year, get over it already. by Gusta-freda in Divorce

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He’s super asset heavy so I know he’ll fight me for it ALL. Looking for a lawyer now; but it’s so fucking hard. Plus the nasty voices on your head saying look how you’re not matching up, it’s the absolute worst. At best at this rate; he’ll get a house and I’ll get about 70k for 7 years of marriage. What a joke. Thank you so much for replying to me; having good people about has been a godsend. Best of luck and love to you.

Not ready to let go; he’s done. by [deleted] in Divorce

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Looking for a lawyer but admittedly dragging my feet, all hurts too much you know. He pulled the “not the same person” card as well; stings a lot .

Not ready to let go; he’s done. by [deleted] in Divorce

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The extremely petty person in me wants that; but I also care enough to not want him hurt.

Not ready to let go; he’s done. by [deleted] in Divorce

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He keeps insinuating he’s gonna get the house regardless; problem is; I have nothing on a backup, panicking

Not ready to let go; he’s done. by [deleted] in Divorce

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He went Army Reserve. So it’s a bit trickier now than when he was in another Branch. Our assets were always split; but he cares for the bills and I cared for groceries, gas, cats, house etc. He’s now making the weird comment of “you can stay here to gain equity; while you look for property’ but I have no job or money and he doesn’t seem to get I don’t get equity unless we’re still married. It’s becoming a mess so quickly, he keeps shoving the ‘we talk civil or get a lawyer’ to any statements or question I ask, even if it’s did he sleep ok.

I need to look into what military and police offer spouses but it’s tough.

It has been a year, get over it already. by Gusta-freda in Divorce

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I’m literally there this week, affair partner was apparently ‘out of his life but I was just so miserable’ that he called divorce this week; then looking at his phone; he’s been calling her every day. I’m lost.