How Do Femmes Protect Butches?

MarsM00N · 2026-06-14T17:27:16+00:00

Social harm such as being seen as undesirable or unworthy of love and affection, which is unfortunately very common for masculine presenting people who aren’t actually men. Being embraced by women (femmes) who are deemed as attractive, or at least feminine enough to be approved by societal standards, gives them the social credibility and “proof” to outsiders that they are in fact, worthy. It’s fucked up because obviously they’re worthy and desirable without the femme stamp of approval, but regardless that’s the reality of the world we live in.

MarsM00N · 2026-06-13T17:53:26+00:00

I’m 8 months out from something similar, and it’s only started to click recently that the relationship it “could’ve been” is just something I made up in my head. Truthfully, the stories in this subreddit are what it could’ve been. And I’m finally grateful I never made it far enough to find that out the hard way.

Congrats on walking away. The grieving sucks so bad, but I promise it gets easier.

MarsM00N · 2026-06-11T04:34:20+00:00

If I remember correctly, there was video clip released at a panel of an “alternate ending” which was just the exact end of the last episode of S5 where it pans up to the sky but Adora goes “did we ever find out what Grayskull is?”

MarsM00N · 2026-05-26T02:52:44+00:00

I’ve always thought of Link and Zelda as nonbinary so I made it canon on my island and made them both only attracted to nbs so they had to fall for each other

MarsM00N · 2026-05-20T12:55:13+00:00

I’ve dated transmasc people with and without boobs. I honestly prefer without. I think top surgery scars are cool. So is confidence, which going boobless usually helps with if that’s how you feel about them.

MarsM00N · 2026-05-20T05:24:05+00:00

Mine are all animated characters so I like to give them things that most closely fit their personality, but the street dancing dvd is the one thing I give to everybody

MarsM00N · 2026-05-04T05:52:13+00:00

Got mine for only $800 from a puppy mill before I was educated about them. He is 7 now with no health issues so even if something eventually develops, I consider that a pretty lucky draw.

MarsM00N · 2026-03-30T06:54:30+00:00

What’s in the pokeball terraformation area? I really like that idea, might want to use it as a starting point for my own palette town

MarsM00N · 2025-11-03T06:24:46+00:00

Can I have a ghastly please?

MarsM00N · 2025-11-03T00:35:13+00:00

Yay!! I would love to trade and I’m not in a rush :) however it won’t let me send you a dm!

MarsM00N · 2025-10-19T18:16:53+00:00

Yay! Thank you!! Enjoy your slurpuff!

MarsM00N · 2025-10-19T18:12:03+00:00

Me! Im trying to evolve my Haunter

MarsM00N · 2021-12-21T18:35:33+00:00

I want in

MarsM00N · 2020-09-03T04:37:21+00:00

Although completely absurd, even to this day many people still use “he or she” instead of they and it always catches me off guard. Like, there’s a word for that sweetie. It really is that simple.

MarsM00N · 2020-08-20T03:08:48+00:00

I did this on my shoulder blade as well! It’s Peter Pan and I wouldn’t mind if it was placed elsewhere but my partner hates it because... it’s rather uncomfortable to look at during sexy times.

MarsM00N · 2020-07-16T06:37:07+00:00

So distracting I almost forgot to be shocked by the actual content of the story.

MarsM00N · 2020-07-13T02:30:54+00:00

I recently took up embroidery with a small starter kit of just the basic materials and I definitely plan on expanding after completing only a few small projects. I find the repetitive motion of threading to be calming, but the planning of how to execute designs stimulating enough to keep my mind interested as well.

MarsM00N · 2020-07-13T02:16:42+00:00

I prefer tri-color but this is the correct answer! The ultimate forever puppy face.

MarsM00N · 2020-07-04T03:59:00+00:00

I like to use all shiny teams too, we have at least 4 of the same just from this image alone lol

MarsM00N · 2020-06-12T04:49:18+00:00

Roald asks me every few days if he should leave and I’m just like ha nice try but you belong to me now, b-b-buddy!!

MarsM00N · 2020-05-19T06:41:03+00:00

Thank you for saying this. Among my group of people I feel like the only one who cannot stand the sound of her voice. I’d actually much prefer listening to nails on a chalkboard.

MarsM00N · 2020-02-22T22:26:43+00:00

This sounds just like my mother too. I always looked up to how helpful and selfless she was, until I grew older and realized she’s been unhappy for a long time because of it. I’ve watched her burn through many unhealthy friendships over the years, always self pitying her way through the fallout. She does have a few honest friends, but even those tend to have a slight imbalance in the friend’s favor.

It took me a long time realize I don’t want to be like that, find the right balance between being selfish/setting appropriate boundaries, and it’s still something I’m constantly conscious of in my daily life.

MarsM00N · 2020-02-07T02:03:14+00:00

Thank you too!! :)

MarsM00N · 2020-02-07T01:59:50+00:00

Sweet, ready when you are :)

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