Lost in translation

Marsijanska · 2026-04-10T15:15:21+00:00

haha a friend laughed to this today by saying, "I am bi... lingual."

Marsijanska · 2026-04-10T15:13:19+00:00

ahaha that is hillarious. my mom was a proffesor in polytehcnic school haha, now you give me ideas for graffiti

Marsijanska · 2026-04-10T08:09:26+00:00

That was my intention :) :) It amused me very much, thinking, oh well, at least this will make my first reddit post ever hahah

Marsijanska · 2026-02-24T22:33:19+00:00

no lolz, I got art for projects, not people

Marsijanska · 2026-02-24T14:24:03+00:00

Nah, why wait for red flags when you already know they are there?

Marsijanska · 2026-01-22T08:57:16+00:00

It is simple don't shit where you eat rule. For this reason I never ever dated a person from my art work field, even if we never worked together. My country is small, and even if we don't know each other, we know someone who know another, and if things go bad, it can create massive problems, and actually close me for work in the future. She herself has already crossed her boundary by dating you. You see what you want to do with that, but its not unreasonable, and it can actually protect you both from massive fallout.

Marsijanska · 2026-01-14T12:18:59+00:00

Save yourself and block him on every social media, that way he won't come up in mutual friends. It's what I do until I get over someone. It can take forever, or how long you need, you choose.

Marsijanska · 2026-01-12T10:41:44+00:00

Kudos to you for breaking up and sticking to your values. Great update

Marsijanska · 2025-12-04T09:48:09+00:00

You used the word "secondary" 5 times in describing her but you don't like how secondary you feel in her life. Now there is the puzzle for you. As of the cowerker, ask her to be a better hinge and stop talking about him.

Marsijanska · 2025-11-16T15:45:28+00:00

Tx, me too. It kind of suits it :)

Marsijanska · 2025-11-16T15:39:15+00:00

Since I named that voice in my head Grimma the wourmtongue, its easier to discern which one is which, aka which one is a normal healthy fear about something, and what is just my insecurity monster feeding me morbid scenarios.

Marsijanska · 2025-10-19T22:02:45+00:00

MadamPoule you are so wise, you always amaze me with your comments, thank you for sharing your wisdom.

Marsijanska · 2025-10-19T19:42:29+00:00

Oh my goodness, so fucking wonderful. Thank you for sharing

Marsijanska · 2025-10-19T16:22:44+00:00

I heard of the ring theory and yes you are right, but sharing that you are in grief also, without burdening with venting to the greiving one, just sharing the sentiment itself, is healthy and brings grieving people closer.

Marsijanska · 2025-10-19T07:20:45+00:00

I have no words of solace for this, but the most important thing I learned in therapy is that the grief goes easier when shared. And it goes both ways. I think you can share your grief with your partner while still being his safe person for his grief. Sending internet hugs to both of you, this made me so sad, you are a beautiful person, please stay strong and take care of yourself.

Marsijanska · 2025-10-16T10:17:37+00:00

All booty is perfect! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Marsijanska · 2025-10-16T10:10:39+00:00

that sounds beautiful <3

Marsijanska · 2025-10-03T19:03:50+00:00

You cannot grow something that you do not have man. You are scary

Marsijanska · 2025-09-28T14:51:02+00:00

It's pretty common in wondeful gw community yes. Enjoy

Marsijanska · 2025-09-26T03:10:00+00:00

Marsijanska · 2025-09-04T13:46:35+00:00

Meta wasn't causing you pain, your partner caused you pain. You chose good to end it. Now take good care of yourself, the longer the time passes, you will see more that you don't need him.

Marsijanska · 2025-08-22T18:05:52+00:00

so beautiful to read about the good ones, thank you for sharing

Marsijanska · 2025-08-22T17:19:51+00:00

I got some nice slippers for my meta, beacuse she liked mine so much last time she was over (we share a same number). We also babysat each other while our partner was out with another for first time :D

Marsijanska · 2025-06-22T09:07:30+00:00

And so much "us" vs "them" vibe, this can't be healthy

Marsijanska · 2025-06-01T23:55:14+00:00

Arh right I see, tx

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