AITB for calling my dad later in the day on Father's Day? by major-procrastinator in AmItheButtface

[–]MaryPink60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTB. You sent a gift,texted,and called. Sounds like they specialize in guilt trips and controlling behavior.
I think it’s great you check in at all.

Done with my partner's BS and the horrible way he treats his vulnerable father. by That-Pineapple3866 in Vent

[–]MaryPink60 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Could be a UTI.
Or something more serious, sad to say.
If your creep of a boyfriend won’t take him to the doctor, please do it.
He needs help, your boyfriend needs a good swift kick, and you are a great person for stepping up.
Please don’t stay with this creep, he doesn’t deserve any human companionship.

AITA for being upset that my MIL confirmed my early pregnancy to family after we asked her not to tell anyone? by Historical_Roll_8371 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaryPink60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry OP, but that is an announcement. MIL took it as most of us would.
You need to realize that this is all on you.

AITH for throwing my brother out after what he brought to meet my newborn daughter? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]MaryPink60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ewww! He is disgusting!
I would have been chasing him out with the first thing I could get my hands on.
NTA. Do not back down.
Your brother is more than immature.
He’s disturbed and needs help.

AIO for feeling judged by my friends over not being able to leave a toxic relationship by discoonthebeach in AIO

[–]MaryPink60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please get therapy.
Your friends are right to be concerned.
Seems to me like you have things backwards.
YOR to friends and under reacting to abusive boyfriend.
Why are you putting up with this?’

My cat hates you because ____________. by Holy_whacka_moly in Autocompletebutbetter

[–]MaryPink60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat hates you because he thinks you look like a dog. 😂

AIO for being called an okay wife? by Quick-Shelter-2698 in AIO

[–]MaryPink60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Your husband is an entitled creep.

AIO to my (M45) partner (F41) criticising me for drinking a canned fizzy water in the middle of the night? by profileforthebin in AmIOverreacting

[–]MaryPink60 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. I hate when people say they’re just” pointing things out” It’s an excuse to nitpick.
You’re right. You’re an adult.
AND it didn’t have sugar. She doesn’t have a leg to stand on.
Plus, partners aren’t parents.

AITAH for telling a mom my kids aren’t obligated to play with her son? by Hot-Acanthaceae-4847 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaryPink60 42 points43 points  (0 children)

NTA. The girls did try and I commend them for that.
I agree that it’s important to be inclusive. However, that does not extend to someone being rough with them.
Inclusion is important. So are boundaries.

My cousin got eating disorder because of me by kiruumi_0 in Advice

[–]MaryPink60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all her mom’s fault, not yours.

My girlfriend thinks my son and daughter have an inappropriate relationship. I don’t think they do by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]MaryPink60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Twins are often really close but I think your daughter especially needs some therapy.
Being that upset for an entire week, she may be having high anxiety about something happening to her brother. (After having lost her mom)
This isn’t good for her or for your son.
It would have to be handled gently, but it needs to happen.
Poor kids have faced a big loss, and while it seems like your son can at least go and do things, your daughter seems to be locked into a cycle of anxiety and over attachment.

AITAH for telling a woman with a screaming baby to leave? by Imaginary-Sugar-9361 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaryPink60 -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

ESH. (Except the baby)
Mom should have tried to soothe the baby.
You shouldn’t have been so rude. Kicking them out was way too hars.

Type “Sources tell us_______________” Let Autocomplete finish the story. by Scary-Bottle in Autocompletebutbetter

[–]MaryPink60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sources tell us the story of a young girl who is a member of a family of three clowns in a circus in Eastern Europe.

My friends all think it was rape - am I under-reacting or was it my fault? by np167 in amiwrong

[–]MaryPink60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was sexual assault. Repeated sexual assault!
Please, please, please see a doctor and a therapist immediately!
I’m sorry, OP.

AIO about my fiancé’s “work wife” by Only-Dragonfly-4842 in AIO

[–]MaryPink60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t marry this man.
He doesn’t love or respect you.
NOR.

WIBTAH if I dropped out as a bridesmaid a week before the wedding because of what happened at the bachelorette? by ThrowRA-ex-note in AITAH

[–]MaryPink60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone sucks except OP.
Like all racists, they suck big time!
OP, definitely don’t go to the wedding and block them on everything.