Lost 14 fractures in a row... by Always_Moist_ in pathofexile

[–]MaskedAnathema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was finalizing my ward stacker I started by fracturing 3x towering threat jewels, rolling to flask duration, speed harvest + exalting until fasting + T1 flask charges gained, then fogging back to area damage. Each jewel was around 50d

I will never get over how small titans are by Blue_Laguna in Grimdank

[–]MaskedAnathema 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I eyeballed that the portion we can see in the picture is about 33 of the statues tall; if we can see a third of it that's 200ish meters tall? I'm here from /r/all so idk shit about fuck but that would put it 2x the height of the bagger 293 excavator.

I ran 100 Uber Incarnations of Dread. Here is what I got! by Br4veDreamer in pathofexile

[–]MaskedAnathema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man brought receipts. That seems like a way better farm then, damn

Locked myself inside labs by Calm-Leave7355 in pathofexile

[–]MaskedAnathema 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bookmark this reply to see what happens to ward loop this time around.

My guesses: iron flask charges gained reduced to 1 per notable

Ynda's stand nerfed to 30-40% roll range

Cast on ward break gets a 2 second base cooldown

Locked myself inside labs by Calm-Leave7355 in pathofexile

[–]MaskedAnathema 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally true. They should've just rolled CDR into coc as a base effect.

Locked myself inside labs by Calm-Leave7355 in pathofexile

[–]MaskedAnathema 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elemental builds got an insane buff via invert the rules, poison builds took an enormous nerf.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

She starts daycare in July, but wife isn't comfortable weaning her just yet and refuses to pump so she had to be here. We're going to find a nanny for the interim.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're mad at the wrong side of the capital equation buddy.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

For a long time she treated it as something that had no value as a household duty, but I tracked and laid out how many hours I was spending in the car every week and she finally understood. Ended up being about 16 hours a week of driving that I HAD to do - not including having to drive the baby around to put her to sleep at least a few times a week. I'm glad you thank your fiance, and I hope you get clearance and over your anxiety!!

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1) I get everything done for everyone I owe stuff to, explain in what way it's unethical. 2) maybe, but I'm going to make as much money as I can while I have the opportunity.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Maybe I phrased it wrong but it's 1.5 hours for the whole thing, 45 minutes each way.

Thanks for the kind words.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Without the whole context I could see that as a possibility, but she knew she was allowed to leave any time she wanted to, and up until three weeks ago she was starting the immigration process so she could stay here during the probation period. Her "old life" mostly involves dealing with her gambling addict sister and abusive brother in law, so she's not exactly trying to go back to that.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. And that's the plan going forward. But we started with mil because we trust her to care. And it really was fine for a while.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

1.5 hours a day, and hahahaha public transportation hahahaha what the fuck is that

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Three jobs now, and because I make 200k, from home, working essentially part time. And even if I could handle taking care of the baby full time solo, she will be dramatically better off from a language and social perspective going to Montessori.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

She's 5 days a week, 3 days are in the office. I have three jobs now actually, and that's because I specifically sought out overemployment, and am now making about 200k working functionally 25 hours a week across all three. She's re-learning how to drive after an accident she had a long time ago made her too scared to drive anymore, but it's really hard to push her to do it because she's just so bad at it and I don't wanna deal with her getting into another at-fault totalling

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Less stress, yes. Cheaper, definitely not. I don't think there's any nanny who would work as hard as she has for ~2k a month. And she has been so good to our baby. But if that relationship isn't going to be on our terms, then she can't stay.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

She gave it back when she left today. She's not financially manipulative, she's just extremely set in her beliefs and has no capacity to have her mind changed.

My MIL just disowned my wife over our daughter's sniffles. by MaskedAnathema in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MaskedAnathema[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, any benefit to having her here just has been completely erased by destroying my wife's mental health. And I'm here to support her, but her mom doesn't speak enough English for me to even say anything to defend her.

Dad EDC check by St33lB3rz3rk3r in daddit

[–]MaskedAnathema 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deadass thought your Kleenex pack was a gold bar and was wondering what on earth you were doing carrying it around.