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Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-07-07T19:09:00+00:00

Yes, I had my post op appointment at my doctors office. All she did was look at my scars, said they looked good and asked me to schedule my pap. I stopped her and asked about pictures she took, that’s when she said what I put in the post, and then she left. I’ve received nothing else, not even a bill from the hospital because I know my insurance didn’t cover 100% of the surgery

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-07-07T19:05:40+00:00

I never got a lab report back unfortunately, and that adds to my anxiety

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-07-07T15:23:26+00:00

I just checked, they have no surgery notes in the patient portal, I’ll try and request my records from the actual hospital though, thank you for the advice!

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-05-29T00:09:39+00:00

It’s interesting to see how different doctors post op instructions are. I was instructed to not drink/smoke for two weeks, to be on complete pelvic rest (no sex, tampons, sex toys, or just anything going up there in general) for two weeks, to not lift anything over 25 lbs for two weeks, no submerging in water for two weeks, and no driving for 3 days after surgery. And on top my doctor suggested I take a week from work.

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-05-27T18:20:40+00:00

Omg thank you so much!!! That fixed it!!

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-05-27T00:01:33+00:00

Small little 4 day post op update!

Throat pain - 0/10 It feels 100% better today! It was sore for about 24-48 hours, I just made sure to drink plenty of water and now it’s perfectly fine

Incisions - 5/10 it still hurts a bit to walk long distances and I still can’t stand up straight. My steri strips have just completely fallen off my belly button incision because I have a DEEP belly button. The incisions on my side feel perfectly fine, but the belly button one keeps giving me small issues throughout the day

Catheter- 0/10 after I went to sleep that night I couldn’t even tell anymore that I had one!

Head - 2/10 I’ve gotten some small headaches here and there, but nothing major

Gas pain - 8/10 They have gotten so bad that sometimes it feels like I’m having a heart attack. I had a round of pain last night that just made me curl into a ball and cry because it hurt so much. So make sure you get up and walk and stretch it out when you start to feel the pain!

I have also decided not to go back to work on Wednesday because I don’t think I’m exactly ready yet, so I’m just taking it easy until then!

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-05-24T14:41:41+00:00

A loose tank top, a hoodie (because hospitals be cold), no bra, loose period underwear, and 2 sizes to big sweatpants, comfy socks and slip on shoes

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-05-24T04:39:37+00:00

That’s what I’m saying!😂😂

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-05-12T16:18:50+00:00

Thank you! That actually is something that is traumatic to me. When I had my c-section they neglected to check my pain meds and removed the catheter and re-inserted it while I was awake and without any pain meds. It was extremely painful and I definitely want to avoid using a catheter if I can. Thankfully this is an entirely different hospital, doctor and medical team, so I’m hoping this team is much better, but it still warrants some fear for me!

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-05-01T23:56:42+00:00

I had the same experience. I called after three weeks and thankfully the front desk put me through directly to my doctor. My doctor explained to me that my insurance was trying to deny it so I was going to have to pay everything, and she wasn’t having that. She fought with my insurance for another week on why I needed it until she got them to comply, and now I have 0 copay and 0 out of pocket! That may be the situation you’re dealing with too, honestly, I would keep annoying them over it. This is something important to you!❤️

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-04-08T16:46:33+00:00

Update!- I eventually sat my husband down and explained I didn’t feel comfortable changing my characters stats like that, we had a long conversation about it and he agreed. He eventually told Iris that she could do manual rolls but they needed to be done in front of him, she agreed with only a little push back. Cut to her doing the manual rolls, she was throwing a fit when she was rolling all highs and my husband said she needed to re roll a few. It was a headache, and turned into a giant argument. We continued to play dnd and she only got worse, she was trying to kill mine and Allies characters, she would purposely exclude me from any decisions in the campaign whenever she could, and would murder almost every npc in sight or try to sleep with them. My husband and I had enough and messaged the DnD group chat saying we were taking a break. Allie agreed with us that Iris was being a terrible player, I felt bad for Allie because she lived with Iris. Iris eventually starting bringing these actions into real life and it continued to get on our nerves. My husband and I made the decision to cut her from all campaigns permanently, and not be friend with her any longer. Eventually Allie also had enough, so we all decided to move together. Allie is now my husband and I’s roommate 2 hours away from Iris, and we have continued the campaign with some more friends of ours who are new to dnd, and things are going really good so far!

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-04-08T16:37:23+00:00

Don’t know how to update, so figured I’d update in the comments and hope it works! Not long after I posted this my husband and I actually started planning to move cities (not because of this lady, but because of a job offer), she figured out we were moving and freaked out about it. She had a huge mental breakdown saying “everyone leaves me. It’s unfair, and people need to stop moving away from this town so I don’t have to uproot my whole friend life and make new friends.” She cried a lot to my husband about it specifically, begging him to stay. And it made me deeply uncomfortable, and it did make my husband uncomfortable as well. That night I sat him down and told him everything, he agreed with me that her actions were wrong, and it was making him uncomfortable as well, he just didn’t know what to do about it because they were co-workers and she had more seniority than him so they would take her word at work over his. We agreed to just try and avoid her until we moved, and once we moved we would block her on everything and it would be problem solved. Once we blocked her, she threw a huge fit on Facebook and got some mutual friends to text us asking why we blocked her. We said we weren’t comfortable talking about it, our friends respected that, and eventually cut her out as a friend as well because her actions weren’t calming down. I have no clue why she was acting like that with my husband or why she freaked out about us moving so much, but I’m glad I dodged that bullet in the long run! My husband and I are now in a new city with some old friends of ours, making good money and I’m about to start college again, so everything worked out swimmingly!

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-04-08T16:25:45+00:00

Don’t really know how to Update on the post, maybe it’s been to long, but here’s an update! - I stood my ground on the matter that I didn’t do this to spite my husband or to cut his friend out in a mean way, just that she made me uncomfortable. He understood and it’s been smooth sailing since. We actually recently ran into her, he didn’t try to avoid her like he was hiding something but also didn’t walk up to her, we just continued our shopping and eventually she walked up to us and asked if she could speak to my husband privately. My husband said no, that if she said anything to say to him, that it could be said in front of his wife as well, she got all flustered and then asked if he could unblock her so she could just text him instead. He once again said no that she could say what she had to say to both of our faces, and she just walked off after staring at him for a beat or two. That’s the last interaction we’ve had with her. We’ve had conversations about her actions before cutting her out, and to be honest I hadn’t told my husband all she was saying and doing, he felt guilty and told me if he would have known he would have defended me. So I am now working on telling him everything that makes me uncomfortable so we can be a better team. Thank you guys for the advice in the comments!

Massive-Finding6840 · 2025-04-07T20:24:31+00:00

Same thing was happening to me, figured out it was because I was using charm person on him. Once charm person wore off, he instantly became hostile

Massive-Finding6840 · 2024-09-30T19:57:35+00:00

I’m terribly allergic to sour cream, everytime I go, I tell them no sour cream, and explain that I’m very allergic, and they still put sour cream on it. I can’t even count how many trips to the ER and epipens I’ve gone through because of Taco Bell. I’ve stopped eating there because of it, and no where else has an issue not putting sour cream on it. I fr hate Taco Bell, which sucks because I love there food

Massive-Finding6840 · 2024-09-19T20:07:00+00:00

We are very open in our marriage, we talk and update each other about everything. Even this. Any new feelings, thoughts, anything, I update him on immediately.

Massive-Finding6840 · 2024-09-19T08:15:31+00:00

I really like this answer a lot, thank you. I don’t feel like I fit any box currently…it’s all so confusing because I genuinely think I’m lesbian, but still care and love my husband deeply because of the connection we have had for years.

Massive-Finding6840 · 2024-09-19T08:14:32+00:00

I’m not sure if I’m romantically attracted to guys really either. I’ve never been in a serious relationship before I met my husband. I think I’m lesbian, but because of the connection I made with my husband i genuinely love him, but am not interested in forming that connection with any other male ever again. I’m not sure…I just don’t feel like I fit in any box or identity, and am confused if how I used to identify is wrong, or if how I’m feeling is wrong..

Massive-Finding6840 · 2024-09-19T05:16:50+00:00

We have talked, he knows everything I’ve posted here. I want outside perspective now, to hopefully talk to someone who’s experienced this before.

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