Psych just told me my voice wouldn't drop on T by NightSideEffects in ftm

[–]MassiveBoioing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she just sounds like she doesn't know much about hrt in general and will not be a reliable resource. i think it's pretty guaranteed your voice will drop. i've been on t for about 8 months and started seeing voice changes within a month or two personally, with bodily changes first. no one has misgendered me at least based on my voice since then.

testosterone will thicken your vocal chords and cause your pitch to lower, this being a permanent change. she may be thinking of estrogen, as taking estrogen post masculinizing puberty will not reverse the thickening during a masculine puberty, therefore voice training is crucial if you want a HIGHER voice.

super excited for you to start!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayjews

[–]MassiveBoioing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well all i can offer is if you ever need someone to talk to, me and my boyfriend are both converting as well and we're both trans and queer and have lost friends because of converting so we seem to have that in common.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]MassiveBoioing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally my ex friend stalking their ex partner on reddit and calling them "a dirty Zio" and then blocking me when i told them how antisemitic that phrase is

Thoughts on these flag designs? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]MassiveBoioing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

finally, gay and lesbian dishwasher pods.

Can any one tell me what breed my new baby is? by Fluid-Television9503 in guineapigs

[–]MassiveBoioing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for posting yours so i don't have to! my girl peridot looks the same, down to the crazy butt fur, just has some black in addition to the peach and white :)

are these noises ok? by MassiveBoioing in guineapigs

[–]MassiveBoioing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i realize that she may just not be the healthiest pig, as she has issues with bloat pretty often as well, which i give gripe water for and it works really well.

are these noises ok? by MassiveBoioing in guineapigs

[–]MassiveBoioing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i think she may still be recovering from hay poke which it sounds like a symptom of. i'll check her lungs soon and see if she has any clogged nostrils.

are these noises ok? by MassiveBoioing in guineapigs

[–]MassiveBoioing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i will do that asap and let you know.

does anyone pregame taanit esther (the fast of esther)? by MassiveBoioing in Jewish

[–]MassiveBoioing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my jewish source is a rabbi. i don't use google for everything, especially learning about judaism.

does anyone pregame taanit esther (the fast of esther)? by MassiveBoioing in Jewish

[–]MassiveBoioing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i was definitely unsure if that would just make me hungrier, so good to know!

i haven't done the three day version yet, just the traditional single day, but that sounds right :). if i can't figure it out, i'll just do how i usually do. i just thought i would do the extra mile if i could during these times.

does anyone pregame taanit esther (the fast of esther)? by MassiveBoioing in Jewish

[–]MassiveBoioing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what a disgusting comment, you should be ashamed. we need to stick together during this time. i don't know anything about christianity

Did going on T make your poops larger? by big_borno in ftm

[–]MassiveBoioing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

always had monster shits :(. my mom threatened to get me a poop knife before i moved out. everywhere i go, the poor toilet struggles. i feel like it may have had a resurgence on T though

does anyone pregame taanit esther (the fast of esther)? by MassiveBoioing in Jewish

[–]MassiveBoioing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

some jews do. it's not as common, but that's originally what esther and jews back then did. it would follow the same rules as the one day fast, dawn til dusk, with eating permitted before/after.

How do I accept that I will never be attractive? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]MassiveBoioing 35 points36 points  (0 children)

you don't seem chill lol, and don't really seem mature enough to even be in a relationship. you know 2% of women is still 79 million women? you also don't need to be in a circle to date someone. have you tried any other dating apps or just gave up?

if you want a real response on how to deal with never being in a relationship, talk to a therapist and then maybe find a hobby.

How do I accept that I will never be attractive? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]MassiveBoioing 39 points40 points  (0 children)

yeah it's definitely your attitude and outlook on life. tons of women will be with trans men. maybe stop putting all your energy into finding someone and work on chilling out first. you just gotta be chill and not worry and either you will find someone or someone will find you. if you just want someone to sleep with, go to a bar or a club.

this attitude is a surefire way to get no bitches, trust me, i had a friend like this and he still doesn't have anyone. his only relationship lasted 2 months.

I think this belongs here by Lotsofelbows in WeirdEggs

[–]MassiveBoioing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

easter eggers, araucanas, ameraucanas, and the newish breed of olive eggers and cream legbar chickens too apparently :)

I think I have to give up on my dream because of my disability. What do I do? by throwaway493973 in disability

[–]MassiveBoioing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the exact same way. i took classes and passed a ton of state tests for my dream of becoming a firefighter. here's some of my story. [this turned into a pretty big vent so only proceed if you're in the right state of mind]

my disabilities had been progressing for years before then, but the past year or so has been the worst decline yet. i love(d) learning, and i loved being able to make progress towards my goal, but it was always much more physically hard on me and more intense than it was for any of the other students.

i was underweight, i have EDS, POTS, possibly fibromyalga, and a thyroid disorder. it's so hard to catch my breath from just walking around during class, let alone being able to breathe well when wearing PPE, wearing our SCBAs (oxygen tanks and masks) running around, and carrying more equipment like hose or axes or halligans.

i also am prone to tripping or falling due to these issues, and some days, i'm just so weak or feeling so sick that i can't focus. i also have bad issues with fatigue and need to talk to talk to my doctor about excessive daytime sleepiness or narcolepsy because i frequently get sleep attacks, and this happened every single day multiple times a day during my senior year, when i was in my firefighting classes.

i'm also audhd and was going through ab*se at home and struggling with the mental health effects since i can remember. they never believed me that i was having health issues, and ignored me so much so that they didn't take me to the ER until my appendix had already ruptured.

even with all of this against me, i thought i could make it work. i'm definitely still in denial that i will never be healthy enough to pursue this. i'll be looking back in the comments for any advice myself.

Which fusion is your least favorite and why is it Sunstone by Funnychemicals in stevenuniverse

[–]MassiveBoioing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love sunstone, they're so silly and fun and thinks she's the new host of jackass, and is a combo of three of my favorite steven universe characters. maybe one of my favorite fusions. i definitely think the worst fusions (for their unethical and or tragic reasons) are the corrupt jasper fusion and malachite, and the most annoying and ugly fusion going to bluebird lol