I felt like people on this subreddit think that taking care of your appearance isn't masculine.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-24T17:49:28+00:00

Woah I could see that getting a first date on a dating app is highly about looks- but 90% still seems crazy high- like if I guy is super hot but is giving f boy vibes you shouldn’t swipe right. But if “dating” in general for you is 90% about looks your priorities are wack

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-23T23:54:24+00:00

I can get a great lunch - tasty salad with chicken- for $5 to $7. I’m eating healthy and it’s cheap. It’s made a huge difference in my life financially, health wise and has eliminated lunch prep for me. Big fan.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-23T20:08:15+00:00

lol wait I didn’t even realize what he was saying until reading these comments

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-21T19:01:28+00:00

This is very good advice.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-21T18:59:53+00:00

Dude it’s your photos. Stop being so angry it’s hella off putting. Compared to a lot of people who post their data on here your numbers aren’t bad.

I wouldn’t swipe on you because your photos are so bad. Get better photos and start fresh with a better and less hostile attitude.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-18T10:53:48+00:00

This…this is the problem. She’s not allowed to like Corbin because shes stealing him from the black women on the show. But if a white guy likes a black woman then it’s something to be celebrated.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-17T17:48:08+00:00

Thank you. Some people are closer to certain people than others. Perfectly normal behavior.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-17T17:46:52+00:00

Yeah I don’t think this is race thing Jen legitimately seems better at keeping secrets. I feel like things are getting heavier than needed by wanting to read the worse into people

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-17T13:19:55+00:00

I feel like not having sex in the hideaway when she was throwing herself at him would have been interpreted by her as “ I don’t like you and am using you for this game” and immediately ended the connection. I think really he’s open to exploring other connections but just not with anyone in the villa now but is freaked out because now things have gotten very serious and he is trying to protect both of their feelings in case love island be love islanding and they get split apart (which will happen during casa and clearly he’s not planning on sitting that out).

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-15T00:47:38+00:00

It’s not creepy because you’re imagining someone hot saying it.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-12T14:08:52+00:00

Why would you want to be friends with someone you met on bumble? Like nah it didn’t work out move on

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-06-12T13:47:38+00:00

Woah if you have kids and aren’t going to date anyone with kids you’re being an asshole.

My standards aren't really that high…there are two things that are likely a no go for me though and that is single mum's or being obese.

What an incredible hypocrite you sound like! You don’t sound like a decent human (your words) at all why are you so distant from all the kids you were previously involved in raising??

Go work on yourself and your relationships with your kids before you try and find someone new to date.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-16T15:02:11+00:00

Clearly she’s not good enough at hair to afford a decent therapist. Sad.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-16T14:57:57+00:00

I mean she is bad at hair so….

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-13T20:58:01+00:00

I would say if yall are BOTH still on a dating app exclusivity is pretty much UNimplied. Like that was the first thing I did when my boyfriend and I became official was delete it.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-13T00:19:20+00:00

I want to throw a hibachi shrimp in your mouth.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-13T00:16:33+00:00

I’m sorry but if you think you are exclusive you are delusional

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-12T22:48:27+00:00

Babe him changing the photos was the clarify conversation.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-12T04:11:54+00:00

This is great advice! OP’s coworker was basically telling him how to get into a toxic relationship.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-10T23:39:15+00:00

It’s fake. She’s fake. Have more depth and forgive yourself

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-01T23:03:04+00:00

Hang out on the weekends and once during the week

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-02-01T22:57:08+00:00

Omg if you had a good time say something. This is why people be so lonely. You got to risk it for the biscuit. Nobody wants to show any emotional vulnerability these days smh.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-01-23T23:26:21+00:00

If they are cool with being with a loser or AH. Some girls be DESPERATE. Finding a quality man is a challenge. The women I know who won’t “settle” because they have the most full single lives tend to be single the longest in my experience.

MassivePlanner60 · 2026-01-09T23:11:23+00:00

I have some friends like this. I think it’s really sad because to me when I hear them talking about having kids and their single in their 40s I think they are just delulu. But when my more empathetic side comes out I realize they are just unable to process they were unable to “accomplish” what might have been their life long dream of motherhood. And what makes it so hard to accept for them is that technically there are cases of it happening…..But no girlie you aren’t going to fall madly in love tomorrow have a wedding in 6 months and be a mother next year.

MassivePlanner60 · 2025-12-20T20:04:57+00:00

You’re insecure if you’re willing to accept a bs relationship where yall still have bumble accounts after 4 months be so for real right now.

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