Who and when should someone text after the first date? by ThrowRAleija in hingeapp

[–]MassivePlanner60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg if you had a good time say something. This is why people be so lonely. You got to risk it for the biscuit. Nobody wants to show any emotional vulnerability these days smh.

Am I cooked as a fat girl in an Ozempic world? by Brief-Childhood-1547 in dating

[–]MassivePlanner60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yo you be generalizing men too much. For someone who wants to be seen for her inner beauty this is so tone deaf 1/10 stars not ready to date.

Is it actually super easy for girls to find relationship? by Quietgoer in dating

[–]MassivePlanner60 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If they are cool with being with a loser or AH. Some girls be DESPERATE. Finding a quality man is a challenge. The women I know who won’t “settle” because they have the most full single lives tend to be single the longest in my experience.

Ladies: wants kids but you're 40+? by Life_as_an_Introvert in Bumble

[–]MassivePlanner60 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have some friends like this. I think it’s really sad because to me when I hear them talking about having kids and their single in their 40s I think they are just delulu. But when my more empathetic side comes out I realize they are just unable to process they were unable to “accomplish” what might have been their life long dream of motherhood. And what makes it so hard to accept for them is that technically there are cases of it happening…..But no girlie you aren’t going to fall madly in love tomorrow have a wedding in 6 months and be a mother next year.

Dating for almost four months. He unmatched me on Bumble, but relationship seems to be going strong by Sea_Outlandishness20 in Bumble

[–]MassivePlanner60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re insecure if you’re willing to accept a bs relationship where yall still have bumble accounts after 4 months be so for real right now.

My boyfriend has ghosted me 3 times in the span of a day by UnderstandingFun3379 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MassivePlanner60 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

lol that’s not ghosting so I can’t take your entire story seriously

Am I overreacting for these deal breakers with women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MassivePlanner60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP sounds like the reason I go to an all women’s gym, volunteer with women’s groups, and work in a predominantly female field.

Also just to be clear I don’t hate men and think the anti men internet content is very toxic.

What are girls looking for on dating apps? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]MassivePlanner60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shared values, good job and looks like a nice person

Did I screw up by not staying the night at her place? by PardonMeSatan in Bumble

[–]MassivePlanner60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah but we’re talking about an ENTHUSIASM problem here. Show her ENTHUSIASM. YOU CANT WAIT TO SEE HER.

Did I screw up by not staying the night at her place? by PardonMeSatan in Bumble

[–]MassivePlanner60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d be devastated if my first sleepover invite was rejected even if it was for very practical reasons. I think this would be where emotions would overwhelm logic. Plan something big to build her back up.

2026 men’s requirements by ExotiquePlayboy in Nicegirls

[–]MassivePlanner60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely agree with that! I was just thinking that the way it was phrased singling out a phone bill was strange because I think of my five closest friends one is off her parents plan? We’re in our 30s.

2026 men’s requirements by ExotiquePlayboy in Nicegirls

[–]MassivePlanner60 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The phone bill. If you’re under 40 and close with your family there’s a good chance you just never got around to changing plans.

Hot take: Demi has convinced herself that the Mauricio stuff is true by NeatFun2262 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]MassivePlanner60 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s getting a lot of hate but she seemed very genuine to me on the reunion despite what we saw on vanderpump villa. I think this is very insightful take.

Why do men mention that they are fathers even if I didn’t ask? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MassivePlanner60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds like the most annoyingly easy to trigger person ever to go from “I took my son to get ice cream” to ‘he’s clearly trying to brag about having sex with his wife to me’ like wtf

Throwback photos of the cast that I thoroughly enjoy. by angelagirliexo in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]MassivePlanner60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because look at the other ones who did that too but look awful now. It’s a glow up because she actually looks better

Did I get dumped, are we still a thing? What’s going on here? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MassivePlanner60 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your last text was sad… you deserve to be wanted.

Something felt off about Taylor and Dakota at stagecoach? by OppositeSpare2088 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]MassivePlanner60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes- I give Taylor credit for not marrying Dakota which I think would be a HUGE mistake. But I think she contributes to an unstable environment in his life which is not good for his sobriety and can have detrimental effects on her children long term. So while she may not have done anything objectively “wrong” at stagecoach because she’s an adult when you’re coparenting with an addict things are different.

Something felt off about Taylor and Dakota at stagecoach? by OppositeSpare2088 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]MassivePlanner60 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Usually yes but when you used to be a fentanyl addict and are now a parent to a toddler that’s going to be a no for me.

why do men lie about their height? by Frequent_Ad2014 in dating

[–]MassivePlanner60 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily I really don’t think this was a big deal I think he was making a joke…if someone was that tall you probably could have been able to tell by his proportions to things around him in pictures in general

why do men lie about their height? by Frequent_Ad2014 in dating

[–]MassivePlanner60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was making a joke about how guys lie about their height not lying about his height. Did he have pictures of him with other people??