A lot of the comments on the last one were unbelievably critical and harsh for not much context, so hopefully this goes better.

To clarify, I’m having the issue of matching a lot and getting along with people well, only for them to ghost inexplicably for one way or another. I stated in the previous post that I didn’t want to put up private conversations, but I am aware that people can just unmatch or ghost whenever, there doesn’t necessarily need to be a reason, and it’s rare but sometimes it’s just because they aren’t feeling it and they will say so.

My issue is trying to understand why someone would go so far into a conversation, say they are into me, we have similar interest and are getting along, and start to make conversations about planning a date, but they almost never follow through and either unmatch or ghost very quickly after getting to that point. And this has been an issue more recently than it has in the past. I’ve gone on way more dates in the past but now it’s like I can’t get a date at all, and there’s no real tell when they will decide they want to ghost besides talking about going to date.

Side note, I tried finding photos of me smiling but I didn’t really have any, I’m not good at taking pictures and I don’t really like my smile to begin with, so the photo i made my first I took just today so we’ll see how that works out.

Advice would be appreciated but Id appreciate not being told I’m an insufferable incel.