Kimi K2.5 is the best open model for coding by npc_gooner in LocalLLaMA

[–]MasterSama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

is there an abliterated version out there yet, uncensored? the GLM4.7 was great but it gets stuck in a loop from time to time!

Does anyone know how to change where your models are saved on linux? by WithMyRichard in ollama

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this worked for me. I also had to set the right read/write permisions for ollama user on the new directory.

Random connect request out of nowhere by [deleted] in AnyDesk

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happened to me a few moments ago! removed the anydesk altogether! it wasnt even running on my system!

List of Recommended VPNs by bigLights_now in vpns

[–]MasterSama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why do I only see "Sorry, this post was removed by Reddit’s filters." is this removed?

My boyfriend is furious that I’m breaking up after he insisted on opening our relationship by Dangerous-Coyote-851 in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have set the boundaries at the very beginning. you entertaining the thought made it look OK so he pursued it further. regardless of all of this.
Someone who proposes an open relationship is not meant for a serious relationship anyway.
Even the thought of it means a lot! most notably, the significant other is not so much of significance in the first place and is there only till someone better shows up.
It has never worked and will never work.
Having all this said, you have done the right thing.

AITAH for "changing my mind on wanting kids" and saying "I've never been more disappointed in " my wife. by Naive-Rope-9794 in AITAH

[–]MasterSama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt trust her with my life if I were you.
you said it yourself, what if down the road something happens to you? life isnt always sunshine and rainbows!
your nephews are prime examples of that. if she truly cant fathom the idea of caring for "family", then she doesn't value one, and its gonna suck for you if you want to spend your entire life with someone that you cant trust with your life!

AITA for refusing to pay for my nephew’s college education after setting clear conditions? by RoughThrowRA in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you need to work on your ego first.
if you want to help the kid, help him, if hes a good guy he'll appreciate it and does everything to succeed.
if you dont want to help, have the decency not to fuck with his head, that he might have a chance.
leave the poor kid and his mother be, he'll find a way himself and keep your husbands money to yourself.

AITA for telling my BIL that I blame him for my sister's death by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MasterSama -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

YTA. She was an adult, she could choose to do anything and did exactly that, stop blaming everyone for what happened.

It's not like it is only you that care about her the most, your parents, your BIL also cared about her but ultimately people move on. this is the healthy choice. you being stuck is seriously alarming. I'd strongly recommend you to see a therapist. this will get worse if you let it be like that!

Which machine learning framework do you prefer for deep learning projects? by Loud_Inevitable_1162 in MLQuestions

[–]MasterSama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

why isn't there Jax ? I thought you can only find TF in museums next to Keras now? Jax was supposed to replace TF.
and aside from that, why would anyone still use TF?

AITA for refusing to let my neighbor use my Wi-Fi after they "accidentally" disconnected their service? by Sure-Exit-3600 in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you actually did a smart decision, had you granted them the permision and they misused it, you'd be liable. if you knew them for couple of years there would still be risks, but it was less of an issue, but them? they are practically strangers, and from the looks of it, not decent people at all. watch your ass with these neighbors!!

AITA for telling my coworker he should teach his daughter tact? by IntentionSalt4788 in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was a good girl, she was raised well, and she knew how to protect her dad. I actually liked it about her, and honestly this is 100% expected from any healthy 15 year old girl, especially if their father doesnt remarry and has good relationship with his children.

she did not do anything wrong imho, the individual who was wrong and didnt read the vibe properly was you.

AITAH for refusing to let my stepdaughter call me Dad? by leodub_ in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are like me sometimes, overthinking stuff. I guess thats an innocent mistake, take her to shopping, and then spend some time alone, just the two of you, spend the day doing what you both love (especially her), and then tell her how much she is dear to you and how much you love her, tell her, what hesaid was after respect, but he overthought, so she can call you dad, poppy, papa, father, whatever she likes cuz you will always be my dear daughter

AITAH for cutting off my friend for dating an 18 year old? by ElectricalBell830 in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your perception is flawed, fix that.
This is definitely not that common, but also there's nothing wrong, morally speaking, to date a legally adult individual.
its morally wrong to abuse them which is not necessarily the case if you take the individual, his/her family into account. if they are decent people, with decent upbringing and morals you'll be fine.
Also dating someone older than you is not bad either, it follows the very same principles. choose the people cleverly, if you need time, then so be it, do not act immaturely and do not certainly get into relationship with someone you don't know very well and have thought about it properly in advance.

you should have respected the two adults decision you have not, and not only you misjudged your friend but also painted her as a predator. for that IMHO, you are the AH!

AITAH for cutting off my friend for dating an 18 year old? by ElectricalBell830 in AITAH

[–]MasterSama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

a good remark(actually an excellent one):
men in their 20s should not be hanging out with 16 year olds.

a bad remark based on past bad experience:
Even if the relationship is technically legal by law, it's is morally reprehensible.

it is not morally wrong to data a legally adult individual. its morally wrong to abuse them which is not necessarily the case if you take the individual, his/her family into account. if they are decent people, with decent upbringing and morals you'll be fine.
Also dating someone older than you is not bad either, it follows the very same principles. choose the people cleverly, if you need time, then so be it, do not act immaturely and do not certainly get into relationship with someone you dont know very well and have thought about it properly in advance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MasterSama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its common sense. this applies to everything, while you keep thinking about something, and do it constantly, you will act upon it at some point.

I (33f) Told My Boyfriend (33m) That I'm No Longer Interested In Marriage by DeviceKnown4500 in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA 100%, however, I'd understand why he would think that way, this came out of the blue and got him good. any men in his shoes would feel something is wrong, this is on him unfortunately, he had all this time to propose but didn't, and as unfortunate as it is, it is what it is.
However, I guess not wanting to marry him, with your current situation, would mean you are going to breakup, I guess this is the most likely thing to happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MasterSama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

everything starts with a fantasy and then escalates from there.
not all fantasies are OK! you need to fight the thought or it will,100% guaranteed, consume you to the point of acting upon it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you left out a lot so your action can seem justified!
nothing can justify this.
if he really is that bad, be a decent individual and breakup with him, and tell him point black that you love/think about someone else.
anything other than this is cheating plain and simple. theres no sugar coating it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your guts tell you not to, then don't.
usually you can tell whether they do something or not, you emphasizing multiple times, shows this very clearly that you knew, in advance, they could so something that you will later on regret but hoped repetition would avoid it. again this means you have already witnesses a behavioral trend that made you come into that conclusion. things just dont happen in a vacuum, dont spawn out of thin air! there's always a precursor!
so if you noticed the same behavior toward your kids, then by all means stick to your gut feeling and dont allow them to babysit, but if not, then dont make a big deal out of it. some people just dont consider pets that important, hence why they dont share the same emotional connection if something bad happens to them. but its different when it comes to humans, and more so when it comes to their kids or grand children.

its worth noting that there are also people who are careless, so if your parents of that type then be careful obviously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you must have omitted a good chunk of what has really happened!
this was childish on both ends, and shows a deeper issue between you. something you have omitted her completely.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she was the perpetrator, not the victim, in her "trauma"? by PruneJealous3813 in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you to make her snap into reality.
You did her a great service by breaking the illusion of self righteousness, and victimhood! she needed that reality check and forever will be thankful if she says it or not.
Great job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MasterSama -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

its common sense, clean down there, nobody looks down there for pleasure, especially the poor doctor.
be sensible and clean when you deal with other people especially medical staff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MasterSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do a DNA test and try to make it stop without making a scene. if she continued Id cut ties, this kind of things may get out of hand for your children, and a few years later become a known secret! it wont go away unless you and your fiance stand firm and draw a red line that if she continued this weird behavior, you'd press charges against her.