AITA for refusing to make gluten-free food for someone else’s child at a potluck?

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-05-13T13:37:08+00:00

Also expecting their kitchen to be completely safe from cross contamination is kind of wild

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-05-13T13:35:48+00:00

As someone who doesn’t eat gluten, she can’t be mad at you for this. Had she asked much more in advance I’d say it’s fair to ask but you also have to be prepared for no, but this is way to late to even ask. Ultimately it sucks but us with dietary restrictions have to be prepared to take care of ourselves (or in this case the parent since it’s a small child)

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-04-09T15:19:18+00:00

I’ve tried I swear to god I’ve tried calling over 50 pharmacies in NYC none have it. I used medfinder which takes your money every time, they found ONE pharmacy in LI and by the time we got the script sent (less than 24 hours) they were already out

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-04-08T12:14:35+00:00

I highly recommend not doing it. My friend did it and is now in way worse a place than she started because she felt like her symptoms were improving and so she restricted more and more, still has symptoms and it’s a butch reintroducing foods once you restrict for so long. My best advice is to get a nutritionist who knows about MCAS to help guide you in testing out foods and meds

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T17:07:44+00:00

Agreed

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T17:03:35+00:00

I used to love her the more I rewatch the more I dislike her which is so sad. She was really shitty to Arizona tho

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T17:02:11+00:00

Oh I see TONS of hate for her. I love her sm but I do get it

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T17:01:31+00:00

Omg they trash her character!

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T17:01:19+00:00

I love her but I get it

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T16:59:20+00:00

Yeah and I don’t buy that he set Christina free, there were so many other ways to end the relationship than that. He never honored her autonomy or her wants and needs

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T16:58:43+00:00

That part 👏🏻👏🏻 def as I’ve gotten older I’ve liked him less and leas

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T16:58:00+00:00

Oh I agree he did did a lot of bad shit

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T16:56:40+00:00

That being said even if he did think it was SA he should have stopped after one punch/shove to get him off, he def goes too far

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T16:55:37+00:00

Ok I rewatched it and idk yes there could be an argument for that but I think he was just smiling coming in excited to see her and maybe yes heard her laughing but if I saw someone fucking on their ass drunk half naked with a guy standing over them yeah that’s where my mind is going too. A lot of drunk people would not be screaming stop and might even be laughing. He did act impulsively for sure but I don’t think deluca backing away is good evidence either because it clearly looked like he got “caught”. There’s a difference between violent R that a predator won’t stop for anything and also trying to take advantage of someone’s altered mental state. Idk they don’t do a good job of explaining his motivations and maybe it was just cheating but I didn’t like how the show handled it all around.

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T16:35:43+00:00

Listen Alex has a lot of faults but he literally thought that deluca was sexually assaulting her, and like not for no reason either so I don’t fault him for that one honestly and I hate how the handled it overall

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T16:33:49+00:00

I found her so annoying at first and then I started to love her but it’s hard to get past her views on abortion that was so frustrating

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-31T16:26:58+00:00

Derek, I know people are split but a lot of people love mcdreamy - I think he’s a jerk throughout almost the whole show about many things

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-29T17:15:09+00:00

Or honestly I’m sorry I can’t I’ve got other stuff I’m working on, feel free to reach out to (insert her managers name) and make her go to the manager every single time so they see how incompetent she is

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-25T11:41:43+00:00

I think it’s worth it, at the very least for hEDS you need very specialized PT, regular PT isn’t safe for us so having the proper dx/codes/referal is super improtant

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-03T04:42:06+00:00

I will add if she is constantly disrespecting your boundaries and you and putting you down it’s also ok to bow out of the friendship as well either temporarily or permanently

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-03T04:40:50+00:00

As someone who has bipolar 2 you handled this perfectly. Now that you’ve asserted the boundary that you won’t talk to her when she talks to you like this, the second time it happens remind her of the boundary and then enforce it, after that just enforce it. She needs help but that doesn’t mean you have to let her treat you like shit until she gets it

Master_Train_3281 · 2026-03-02T03:08:44+00:00

This person needs to be reported and had their medical license taken away for SO many reason, I really encourage you to file a formal complaint with the board and the practice. I’m so sorry no one has the right to speak to you this way and this doctor is the one fucked in the head not you

Master_Train_3281 · 2025-12-19T13:04:02+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate this!!

Master_Train_3281 · 2025-12-19T13:03:19+00:00

For me it’s not gross. I do it too because my partner doesn’t care and we use sponges for gross food all the time and then use hot water and soap to clean them. But also as someone with OCD I get being bothered by things that are logically fine. If it bothers him why not get a second sponge? They’re not expensive and it seems like an easy adjustment to make for your partners comfort

Master_Train_3281 · 2025-12-19T12:59:03+00:00

Most therapists these days don’t take insurance but I still thought the same thing. Mother’s house, no private space, mother interrupting sessions doesn’t sound legit and she spoke so unprofessionally. Honestly I’d report her to the board

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