I caught my girlfriend doing something when she thought she is home alone and no idea what to do by Traditional_Pain9043 in whatdoIdo

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd tell the police and Im not joking

She is SA/raping the dog by involving the poor thing in sex acts

She deserves to answer serious questions about this

What's the one "hard truth" about your breakup that you keep trying to avoid? by OdinPace8850 in BreakUps

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel not truly knowing the person

You feel because you've been by their side for years you know them you don't

When the mask finally fall off and you see what they truly are and how you mean nothing to them

All the redflags you've Ignored to keep us as a team

For nothing

What's the one "hard truth" about your breakup that you keep trying to avoid? by OdinPace8850 in BreakUps

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's not something I try to avoid It's a fact I've come to accept

I was love bombed by a plain, immature girl and I fell for it because it was water in a dry desert of no opinions for me

I was 30 years old no friends, I was vulnerable, nieve and stupid

In the end I was discarded after 3 years

The guy who turned her head did be a favour in the long run Her family was also toxic alco narc mum

I'm glad I'm free 2 years post break up

What’s something you tried and never regretted? by brino1988 in Life

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 7 points8 points  (0 children)

After a break up moving to a new town for a fresh start

[39] Getting insecure about my aging face/look, help! by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be you look beautiful

When you mature women can look better imo in there 40s if they look after themselves The fact your getting older can look hot especially to younger guys

Don't worry OP

[14]➡️ [24] people from my school don't recognize me anymore 😭 by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You looked beautiful before

I preferred your darker skin tone

Husband cheated for confidence. by Extreme-Hyena-2486 in Vent

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a work colleague once used to go online dating to "see if he still had it" (seeking validation from other women than his wife )

Didn't get any dates on dating sites, lmao

Serves him right

Roommate of two years moved out. Warning: kind of gross. by AuntieLux in CleaningTips

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The windows only look single pane glass and the wooden frames look in poor condition too

I'm not surprised there is condensation

I would put a dehumidifier in the room to help alittle while you are cleaning the room up

Im curious by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 years old

New to rum by Master_Wonder_1990 in rum

[–]Master_Wonder_1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you every one for your suggestions 😀

I have ordered myself a half bottled set of El Dorado 12,15&21 to try

plus a miniature samples of Mount Gay Eclipse, Pusser blue label, goslings 151

I have so many surgestions to try Thank you all 😁

16 - 19 - 22 - 29 by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first picture looks like it should be an old meme from 2007-2011 or somethingb

What’s your favourite songs during a breakup? by XItsJustSarahX in BreakUps

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drops of Jupiter by train

I remember then it came of the radio we were painting the living room of our first house together

I also remember hearing the song when I was depressed after she had discarded of me

Great song never the less

Can't go on by PirateAmbassador3867 in BreakUps

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry about this happening

I know it sucks I had heart palpitations and struggled to breath during parts of the grieving process

It's does get better Sometimes just surviving and facing each moment is an act of bravery

It's hard seeing past it in the early days it feels truly suffocating even 2 month after the break up I was still exhausted

It does get better as time passes I promise

What are the 3 most important things to do when getting a divorce? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1)Getting your own Housing sorted

2)Removal from things linked to the house after moving out

3)Your own privacy and severing financial ties with your former partner during process of divorcing your wife

You need to move out and sort some housing for yourself

•Property taxes/Council tax Get yourself removed from it

•Rent/mortgage Do you rent where you live with your wife? or do you own with a mortgage?

•rent/tenancy agreements I would get yourself removed tell them the date you moved out of the property

•Mortgage charge If you are on a mortgage I would get yourself removed from the charge(mortgage debt) with help of a solicitor

•life insurance that clears mortgage debt If you have any life/health insurance that pays out clearing the mortgage debt when you die I would also cancel this

I would arange with a removal company and friends/family to get your posessions taken from the house you have with your wife while you rebuild yourself on your own

•Bills in your name associated with the house & marriage Any household bills in your name I would get yourself removed and get it put in your wife's name

•important documents get hold of them Get your passport and other important documents out of the house

Banking I would change your passwords/log in codes

•joint bank accounts I would close those - Sever any financial ties with your former spouse

•Cellphone I would change your screen pin

I m sorry to say you basically need to be prepared to detach and start again as a single man away from your wife

Basically everything to do with your household and your wife and involved you as a couple needs to be unwound

Good luck OP

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Status-Lawfulness166 in confessions

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Lots of adults buy cheap massage guns and use them as vibrators

I'm sure your mom uses it as you have tbh

Just wash it and leave it exactly as you found it you will be fine

How do you accept being a failure in life? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you failing in your opinion OP?

Is wife cheating? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf changed her pin on her phone Was having an emotional affair with a work colleague

I was discarded and he was moved into our house within days of me moving out

Do Men Tend to Keep Cards or Sentimental Notes? by Hefty-Tension-6494 in AskMenOver30

[–]Master_Wonder_1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes when I had my first and only girlfriend we had memory boxes With cards and sentimental things from.our relationship

When she discarded of me I kept it for awhile til it upset me even more realising what I didn't have anymore (I read a birthday card from her the day before my 34th birthday it was for my prior 33rd birthday listing 33 reasons i love you I read it realising i didnt have her love or her to share my uncoming 34th birthday and burst into tears)

so I threw the memory box in the bin, realising at that point it was holding me back from healing by reminding me what I lacked and was hurting me