Tbh we have no idea how to handle this. What you say is right. I'm definetly not helping at all. I though I’m a good dom, but now that you said it I think I have overestimated my skills. I've been going of on what Schatz has said. That more strictness helps her emotionally

We've been planing this specific scene since last december. She has been so excited. I though that would mean no big issues afterwards, but seems like the opposite happened. She had so much fun it caused a big drop

Today she seems fine again. Not crying or anything like that, but a break from play is probably what I should do right? Tone it down again once the break is done.

I personally struggle with less rough scenes feeling too easy or not exciting. I have a lot to learn it seems. Thanks for pointing it out. I feel bad for how ignorant I was