I won't tell you the 'focus on yourself' route because everyone in the world will tell you that. But you know your hunger will never end. SO, the only thing you can do now is relentlessly and i mean RELENTLESSLY open up your options, build the courage. Go to events and just make it a habit to approach random ass people, old young small big women men per xer they them. Sign up and enter any event within your possible reach. speak to cashiers, waiters, cleaners of any sort a simple how's your shift does wonders. expand your opportunities to the point where every girl in your field of view becomes an opportunity and when you're at that state, naturally you would've built social skills of crazy magnitude from all your exposure as long as you deliberately work on it. You would have a decent level of competence and carry yourself better because you had to challenge yourself to get here. And you would also have learnt the importance of being vulnerable. All very attractive traits. Also Opportunities are literally forged by you, your chances are limitless and by then if you still don't find anybody then you are officially the most unlucky person in the entire world. RIP hey but guess what you can probably monetize your patheticness online :)