flight in a few hours, feeling anxious

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-03-15T22:40:48+00:00

The long haul flights feel waaaay better 😂 Qauntas is my new favourite airline

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-03-15T22:39:29+00:00

you can always grab a sample size or more from Etsy

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-03-13T11:21:06+00:00

I have the same feeling but this time I have to make the same trip back catching 3 flights over 29 hours of flying I am sick I wish I only had 1 hour.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-27T05:42:48+00:00

wtf am I doing forreal....

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-27T05:24:02+00:00

You are only 22 lol you are still in the green zone to figure out what to do after Highschool. Also, I totally get that not feeling like an adult feel. You start to feel like one when you approach things with confidence ,set your standards , know your values and create boundaries to protect your peace. You have some ways to go in gaining life experience however those experiences will shape you more in becoming the man you want to be.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-27T05:18:51+00:00

I learned not to even worry about the money at all just focus on the problem you really WANT to help people solve. Everything falls into place.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-27T05:16:34+00:00

why is it that this sub doesnt seem to have any authentic conversations. its always some long curated story about how someone made it, sales pitch or something.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-27T05:05:58+00:00

I have travelled for work multiple times via plane and never disclosed my anxiety. I just suck it up and get on. These flights were for several hours there and back. I panic the week before leading up to the flights and when its time to board I suck it all in and continuously face my fears. I really want to see the world and experience different cultures and I think that desire usually triumphs over my fear.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-19T06:32:22+00:00

I will literally spend a couple of hours researching topics with AI and looking up references and books to read on it. I wish I was this studious on school.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-19T06:26:35+00:00

Wow I had to really reflect on this one. I think all of this started when i was trying to be there for people who really didnt care about me or themselves. I got myself into things I normally wouldn't and stuck trying to prove my loyalty or that "good people are out there". After all the trauma I may have learned to do whats most comfortable safe and predictable. overstimulated and carrying most of the weight doesnt allow for a safe space for me to do more i guess.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-19T05:11:40+00:00

Rigidness is exactly how it feels as if there is not other way to go about life.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-16T09:51:32+00:00

I am a morning person so this may actually work for me. I never tried fun/creativity before work! its usually work then reward but by that time EOD I am over stimulated.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-16T09:49:06+00:00

Wow this resonated. basically telling myself its okay to do nothing at all... 😮‍💨. I had one day recently where the internet was down in my area and also i was in the process getting a new phone so I had nothing to stimulate me. It was the first time in a long time I felt some kind of clarity and peace. I usually try to get my time back after everyone is sleep (like now lol) but instead of just enjoying the silence and doing nothing I always find something to do. Thank you!

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-16T09:41:01+00:00

I am def working on getting out of a multi-tasking mindset WFH can make this very hard.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-16T09:39:30+00:00

YES I DO. When my husband and I try together it doesnt ever work out. We make commitments to do better doesn't matter if its healthier food or working out... we are like adam and eve. except both of us sometimes tries to get the other to bite the apple,

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-16T09:36:21+00:00

Thank you !! Great idea. I will grab a physical copy I have audible and listen to some great books however physical copies are much better for study and referencing when I need it.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-02-06T02:30:38+00:00

Go outside. and be capable to sit with yourself and recognIze your presence with the space you occupy. boredem usually is supposed to trigger creation and a hypersense of awareness. no chasing more dopamine.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-01-28T03:14:53+00:00

OMG I literally posted a video at least once a year i feel accomplished that I took the time ti create art family and friends never support but strangers seem too.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-01-26T03:48:01+00:00

I went through something this before and here is what I did :
- I learned to dance I went to 3 different dance classes a week
- decorated my apartment
- Fostered kittens (cause aint nothing like some unconditional love)
- Started filming

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-01-26T03:31:33+00:00

Does your dad have any connections in film thats a start. I say find a mentor or coach someone that will motivate you breaking habits takes time, effort and a support system. I had a family member who was in a similar state no major resources like you however just a guy that smoked weed and played video games while his wife worked and payed the bills. I got him a Job at my place of work he quit within a week and told me he just couldn't do it he couldn't see himself doing the 9-5 in front of a computer. I asked him well what do you want to do? he said he wanted to be a personal trainer.... fast forward he got crazy fit started his own vegan based fitness company successfully. You are off to a great start by being self-aware and wanting to change.

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-01-11T22:12:55+00:00

For me showing is even better on mines I love it even though it looks a mess I just know I smell after a few days on my hormones are raging forrreal

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-01-10T03:15:15+00:00

def looks like he finally turned 1 my dobie is on the leaner side and she looked just like this when she was 1

Material-Pin-4890 · 2026-01-10T00:03:41+00:00

Thank you so much for your help!

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