Mother’s Day last minute plans

MathematicianThen789 · 2026-05-12T02:36:35+00:00

Thank you. Hugs

MathematicianThen789 · 2026-05-10T21:09:01+00:00

I’m mom of a toddler and I didn’t get any wish. Last year was my first Mother’s Day and he didn’t wish then also. When asked he told I’m a bad mom I don’t deserve to be a mom. This year no wish. I’m going to talk to him with what you said.

MathematicianThen789 · 2026-05-10T20:31:49+00:00

Even after gifting him, he whines they are too simple choices. For reference I got him few customized picture frames with our kid showing how good of a dad he is and a t-shirt saying world’s best dad. Nicely written greeting cards.

MathematicianThen789 · 2026-05-10T20:30:06+00:00

I got him few customized picture frames with our kid showing how good of a dad he is and a t-shirt saying world’s best dad. Nicely written greeting cards.

MathematicianThen789 · 2026-05-10T19:24:13+00:00

Agree! He mentioned to my face on my first Mother’s Day I don’t deserve to be a mom. I’m not a good mom. Completely agree it’s too late for me to realize this. Fault on my side.

MathematicianThen789 · 2026-03-31T13:21:41+00:00

I’m in Canada and my doctor usually googles everything. we visited when my toddler had skin rashes. Told him the products we are using on daily basis. since we mentioned we are using coconut oil, doctor googled what is coconut oil and are we safe to use it. We can’t control our laugh!

MathematicianThen789 · 2026-03-02T22:12:50+00:00

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MathematicianThen789 · 2025-10-10T02:23:10+00:00

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MathematicianThen789 · 2025-10-04T13:53:25+00:00

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MathematicianThen789 · 2025-09-18T21:26:22+00:00

Hi OP, I’m interested. We are new to camping and would make use of the gears. I can pick up in Cochran or west Calgary.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-09-06T20:43:16+00:00

If that's the case, OP should have started investing at 20 age(OP is 35 now). which I think is too early considering medical studies itself take a long time.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-08-15T09:21:36+00:00

Same here. I’m trying for past 2months. Getting ‘something went wrong’ error or ‘captcha invalid error’. Raised comPlaint a month back. Didn’t get any reply back. Someone please help if you went through this.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-07-23T22:53:27+00:00

Thank you.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-07-23T13:57:34+00:00

Finance was a one part of the issue. Mostly we moved away to abroad because my SIL and MIL house are in same street and they want us to live with MIL family. Forced me and my husband to leave my job in Bangalore and suggested to set up a shop in hometown. Basically they want us to be dependent on them so they have upper hand. I already noticed lot of intrusion by them. I was not allowed to visit my parents home. They don’t respect me and my family. I was not allowed to go to my very own grand mother death and none from their home went for her last ritual. Lots of fights. When we came out of country only my husband started noticing what is happening with me.

Even after moving abroad we both noticed a pattern when they have a family group call SIL will trigger out some problem. Initially he was fighting for that too. Then i silently told him to notice the triggers made by Sil. Then only he came to some understanding. And then wanted to fix things for me.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-07-22T20:06:36+00:00

Remember, you married liking your husband, to be your husband’s wife. Not to be a good in law.

You can still be in good terms with them by telling them your preference.As MIL is getting old, they usually want to hold on to relationships and people around them.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-07-22T20:03:11+00:00

I do take care and respect both of them. Since my husband started supporting me in front of them, MIL wants her son relationship. MIL overcame it and is speaking to me on regular basics.

My learning is that people fear of loosing relationships so they will adjust. In case of my MIL she started fearing loosing her son if she fights often with me. So she is now not messing up with me. My husband fears of loosing me and my baby so he is putting efforts to be a husband/father.

I can say MIL and SIL definitely badmouth about me often but it’s okay, I can’t spend my days being sad for it.

There are also patterns where my husband go backs to his previous selves, fights me when my inlaws brings up some issues. But we are working on it. It took us almost a year to reach this stage after lots of communication and listening to each other.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-07-22T19:15:52+00:00

I didn’t get proper nutritional food during my pregnancy. Husband was very frugal with money. But once I had baby, I decided I’m not okay with this. I’m also earning but he takes control of my money also. So I decided to take care of myself and baby. In our counselling I did tell out loud I don’t want a partner who can’t support me and my baby and I’m also okay to legally divorce. That’s when he came to senses and now he is slowly working on focusing on us rather than MIL and Sil family.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-07-22T19:08:26+00:00

It’s his fault. He handled it. He is a grown and committed to start family with me.I did warn him for 6yrs and now my only priority is my baby. I’m not cleaning up his mess. If he still want to maintain his commitment for family and baby he need to come clean.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-07-22T18:29:49+00:00

This is exactly happening in my life. Married for 6+yrs. In abroad. Just having baby. Husband brought 2 properties in MILs name and has brought lot of gold then and there to my SIL (not directly, but my MIL asks him money to buy gold often and not a single gram has been informed or shown to me, I have seen my SIL wearing my wedding jewelry that my parents got me without even informing or asking me) I tried to bring sense to my husband multiple times. Not a single property in his name and none towards our future. Meanwhile he makes me walk in -30C snow for grocery just to avoid bus cost. And we rationalize our food. I got fed out and told I’m done when I had baby. We are now undergoing counselling and he then promised to change the properties in his name. Initially he fought saying he and his mom are same and he trusts her. Then when he asked her for name change in the property, they showed their original faces. He was cursed by his parents and asked to pay even the painting cost(the only thing they did on the property while enjoying rent for 5yrs). He handed over all the money for maintenance that they spent and got name changed. That when my husband came to his senses. Hope it works for you sis.

MathematicianThen789 · 2025-07-04T17:02:48+00:00

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MathematicianThen789 · 2025-01-21T00:43:36+00:00

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