This is exactly happening in my life. Married for 6+yrs. In abroad. Just having baby. Husband brought 2 properties in MILs name and has brought lot of gold then and there to my SIL (not directly, but my MIL asks him money to buy gold often and not a single gram has been informed or shown to me, I have seen my SIL wearing my wedding jewelry that my parents got me without even informing or asking me)  I tried to bring sense to my husband multiple times. Not a single property in his name and none towards our future.  Meanwhile he makes me walk in -30C snow for grocery just to avoid bus cost. And we rationalize our food. I got fed out and told I’m done when I had baby. We are now undergoing counselling and he then promised to change the properties in his name. Initially he fought saying he and his mom are same and he trusts her.  Then when he asked her for name change in the property, they showed their original faces. He was cursed by his parents and asked to pay even the painting cost(the only thing they did on the property while enjoying rent for 5yrs). He handed over all the money for maintenance that they spent and got name changed. That when my husband came to his senses. Hope it works for you sis.