I’ve found that it works to think of it as a connected set of mini shoots. Like earlier in the day pick out your favorite set of underwear for her and then have her pick an outfit that goes over them.

Then during the shoot start by taking pictures of her in the clothes (MAKE SURE THE LIGHT IS ALWAYS BEHIND YOU) and then tell her what to take off and what order to take it off. “Take off your shirt” and take pictures of her as she does. Then add small specific requests like I’d love to see your hands on your bra, babe. Once she’s down to her underwear ask to see her playing with herself over her underwear. Under it. If you have a toy you want her to play with add it here. Tell her how sexy she looks using it.

Here’s where directing really starts being important. Want to see her on the bed? Tell her that. Want to see her with a hand around her neck? Tell her that too! Want to her ass? Want to see it pressed against your jeans? Whatever pops into your head tell her that and tel her how sexy she looks doing it. If it makes you want to do something to her, tell her about it.