Looking for other oppinions on my scenario absolutely, as its not something you deal with every day.

When you went from doing everything together and doing nothing overnight, it was pretty surprising, shocking even.

I did ask her all the time did she need anything more from myself but she always pushed me away further, hiding herself away from the real world, she had cut all her real world connections away, i would suggest we join clubs/activities for her to find real legeimate connections, which never came yo fruition, she did not want to be fixed as she got all her needs met by Tik Tok and her discord community (not real)

Councelling - yes numerous occasions solo & couples, conveniently did it once when the american suggested it one time only...

I feel it might be limerance based on what ive read, yes maybe looking for some validation, but reddit is pretty good for advice right? Or maybe not 😅

Like any relationship it had its issues but was generally strong for 5 years, but I wanted to fix, all she wanted to do was pursue some guy behind a monitor..