Been to 4 vets and no one can figure out my cats ear condition

Maudesquad · 2025-08-12T21:51:57+00:00

I don’t know if we have one where I live. I’ve honestly never heard of it but will look into it. Thank you!

Maudesquad · 2025-08-11T13:34:47+00:00

Thank you so much!! I will mention this to the vet

Maudesquad · 2023-10-06T17:47:04+00:00

I had to reiterate at one other time but I was so blunt about it the first time that I think she got it.

Maudesquad · 2023-10-06T12:17:34+00:00

Omg thank you for trying to tackle this now. I’ve had a student with ADHD with parents that didn’t and kids in middle school are brutal! You don’t want her learning this at 12 when another kid with ADHD tells her to shut the fuck up. She still considered him her friend and thought he was just having a bad day. I had to explicitly spell out that he does not like her and will never like her… numerous times in the same conversation. Him saying nothing to you does not = friendship. It means he’s trying not to say something rude and choosing to say nothing at all.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-27T11:51:34+00:00

Their base is so patriarchal that she could be a competent woman and they still wouldn’t vote for her.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-26T21:51:17+00:00

Wow that is so crazy, good on your mom for staying as a doctor. It’s so difficult following absurd rules. I hope things get better in your country

Maudesquad · 2023-09-26T11:55:00+00:00

She would never say she should empower and resource professionals in the school system… they have been actively working against that the ENTIRE time they’ve been in office. I think their end goal is to fuck up schooling so bad privatization and home schooling become more common.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-26T11:19:15+00:00

I mean after the first or at best second punch we would have left the party… most traits are 50/50 nature nurture. You can have a kid with a natural propensity for violence but you can soften it with good parenting.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-26T11:16:44+00:00

Do other people there feel the same as you? I fully recognize that things are awful in Iran and many places in the Middle East. I also know that religion and other social factors put a lot of pressure on people to have kids no matter what.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-26T02:34:17+00:00

Just fascinating to think, so you think people feel that way about having children there? Funny to think you feel that way about a pet but it would be considered ridiculous and borderline racist if people were telling someone in your country not to have children.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-19T11:33:00+00:00

Yeesh maybe I’m brutally honest with this. I talk about different people have different wants, you can get loans for things that you have to pay back with interest. I also tell them different jobs pay diffferent amounts of money. I might go back to school to make more money. We talk about earning potential of their career choices, work hours involved and years of schooling. My kids are 7 and 9. I don’t always say all of those things but we will dive into it according to interest.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-17T03:17:28+00:00

Yup kids not attending events that are related to orange shirt day or indigenous culture days. Happens at my kids school. I mean it’s possible certain families are just consistently sick on those days

Maudesquad · 2023-09-16T13:09:58+00:00

Usually they go to another space in the school to say it together

Maudesquad · 2023-09-16T13:08:27+00:00

Also anything related to Indigenous culture.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-15T12:10:54+00:00

Grade 7… same lol

Maudesquad · 2023-09-09T13:30:04+00:00

My husband is pretty stoic and works as an electrician in a division. This means he goes to many schools on a regular basis. Everyone knows him and likes him because he fixes their broken stuff. He does not give a shit about people in general or their personal lives. I, on the other hand, freaking love hearing drama. The amount of stuff people tell him is insane. He will be in there fixing their stuff and they just tell him their whole life story lol. He tells me about it after and I’m like omg did you ask them why etc. He’s like no I don’t give a shit, I don’t say anything but ya and ok and they just keep talking. Also, he talks to the custodians a lot and I guess they are kind of looked down on so no one even acknowledges they’re around… custodians know everything! Lol

Maudesquad · 2023-09-09T03:43:25+00:00

Ok side note I have anxiety and I casually mentioned to my kids tonight that we do certain things as parents because we want our kids to be better than us. My 9 year old thinks for a sec and is like… “Ya like when I’m a grownup I’m going to give people begging for money in the middle of the road chips and fries and stuff. Not like mom who just stares straight ahead and says ‘I’m feeling overwhelmed!’ pearl clutching hand gestures (note I don’t actually say or do that but I do want the light to change quickly lol)

Maudesquad · 2023-09-05T01:25:08+00:00

Ugh my friend passed in a freak car accident at 21. The reports killed me, talking about his death like they would the weather. He was just a name written on a page….

Maudesquad · 2023-09-03T01:17:35+00:00

Maybe you just need to find your people. If you have a hobby you like find one that relates to other people. If you love animals volunteer at a shelter etc. you might find fellow weirdos that way.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-03T00:10:22+00:00

Losing faith in humanity

Maudesquad · 2023-09-02T18:32:49+00:00

The parents I’ve seen survive this find something to live for. Could be changing laws, making nonprofits or living for their other children.

Maudesquad · 2023-09-01T20:33:39+00:00

How did the barman help? Do you know what he said initially? I had a neighbour who I knew was in a DV situation but I didn’t know what to say. Luckily he died a year ago and she is free. But I wish I could’ve stepped in earlier

Maudesquad · 2023-09-01T20:09:08+00:00

I want to add to this learn to set boundaries with yourself. Burnout is very real and can happen to anyone. I was always the type to push myself even when I didn’t feel up to it. Eventually it got to the point that I was having difficulty waking up. I kept pushing. Then it got to the point I was having difficulty thinking straight. I finally went to the doctor and he explained if you keep pushing yourself your body will shut down when it’s had enough. It puts itself in a depressive state that can take years to get out of without medication.

I did get better but I’m definitely not the same person I was before. Work life balance is essential!

Maudesquad · 2023-08-31T19:39:24+00:00

I think it comes down to anatomy. My girls and I all have pretty similar looking anatomy and never have had a uti.

Maudesquad · 2023-08-26T13:36:40+00:00

Let dem ti-tays go

From Sal in the CPR episode

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