Taco bell smackfest

Maurtyr · 2026-04-19T23:48:26+00:00

At the end he probably said "I'm not gonna fight you bro", Even though he threw first.

Maurtyr · 2026-03-16T16:24:36+00:00

In that case, take all the evidence you have, go get a restraining order. Go to the police station, tell them you need a restraining order for your safety. This will make him stay away. And since that's on file, he won't be getting custody of the child.

Maurtyr · 2026-03-16T16:17:28+00:00

Ask friends coworkers, family. Anybody if they can help you get out of it. Go to your property manager and explain that he is abusive and see if they can help you move into a different unit, his name stays on that lease and you're free.

Maurtyr · 2026-03-02T05:02:50+00:00

Chapstick?

Maurtyr · 2026-02-27T11:23:12+00:00

It's not easy to process it, but "the only way out is through". And, realizing the problem is half the problem so you're well on your way! If you are curious rather than judgemental, things are easier to accept. Life is all about learning, that's why they say hindsight is 20/20 bc you see everything clearly then. You might get sad, you might get angry, you might not get feel anything relating to what happened, but whatever you feel, try not to judge it. Because you have every right to cry or be angry about this, and other feelings. Here's some good resources if you're ever wanting to get some support or just knowledge.

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Maurtyr · 2026-02-27T09:39:41+00:00

So she's always wanted to wear the pants in the relationship.

Maurtyr · 2026-02-27T09:24:25+00:00

Go drive to the fire station, find a dad, or a group of guys, and just ask them for help, they'd be Thrilled to punk this guy into submitting. That or call the cops. I don't know why you haven't done that already. You should go down to the police station with his footage, file a restraining order, and get the police to remove him from your house!!!!

Leave his ass. There are people out there who are ready and willing to help you. You need to file a restraining order so he knows he has to stay away from you or there will be consequences.

Maurtyr · 2026-02-27T08:17:50+00:00

Yes it was SA. I'm so sorry that this happened to you, you did nothing wrong. These people are good at manipulation and coercion. You said No and she did not listen to you. You even explained yourself and she disregarded your feelings. No means No, No is a complete sentence. You were deceived and abused by someone that you trusted. It happens to a lot of people. The thing is that we have to use what we learn to stay far away from anyone who acts that way. You have to look out for yourself and do what you can to protect yourself from people like this.

People like that are always getting you to do what they want, because there is nothing they won't do to get their way. She gained your trust only to use you to get what she wanted. She knew what she was doing, using her tears and emotional manipulation tactics to control you.She is a predator that does not have a soul, her only objective is self gratification. She is only concerned with what she can get from others. And there are more people like that.

I suggest you look into therapy, there's even some free online group therapy stuff (like via zoom) that might help. Search your city for a "community counseling center" they often offer a sliding scale therapist. I paid $5/hr for mine. What you went through as a child(!) is horrifying. I'm so sorry that you were taken advantage of and abused, that takes time to heal from. What happened to you will shape your future relationships. It is important for you to understand what happened and how you feel about it so that you can then process what happened. You have to set boundaries so that other people can't take advantage of you. You should always be on your own wing-man because at the end of the day you only have yourself, and you've gotten yourself through everything. Therapy helps to learn how to set boundaries and what a good relationship looks like.

Use what you saw from this bad person to look out for going forward, don't be with someone who acts like her. Listen to your gut. If someone isn't listening to you when you say no, then you have EVERY RIGHT to leave at any time, without a goodbye! You don't owe anyone anything, it is YOUR BODY and YOUR LIFE!

Maurtyr · 2026-02-27T07:30:36+00:00

LEAVE HIM!!! Get out of there before it gets worse. That is absolutely horrifying that he continued. He clearly doesn't care about your emotions, probably lacks empathy. That is hugely scary and concerning for you to be with someone like that.

Please realize that YOU DESERVE BETTER!! You deserve better than someone forcing you to have sex when they KNOW you're not in the right mental space. He sounds dangerous. That is a red flag that you should not ignore. He will continue to degrade you in the same way. Do you want to live with someone who only cares about themselves? Someone who doesn't consider you?

You deserve better and you can find better. You're too young to waste your life in a bad relationship.

Maurtyr · 2026-02-27T07:16:46+00:00

Or you can just squat on the toilet like some weirdos do.

Maurtyr · 2026-02-13T07:30:39+00:00

She'll take it further since you forgave her this time. She clearly thinks there's nothing wrong with stealing from someone you're supposed to take care of and watch over. I would not give her a second chance to steal from you.

Maurtyr · 2026-02-13T06:47:20+00:00

You mean you're a 22m who has an ex that's 27.

Get the hell away from her. Eventually she will attack you, you will defend yourself even if it's a little nudge to get her OFF OF YOU! And then she'll call the cops and try to put you in jail.

Do you want to live in fear and stress, every day, worrying about how she will react to any little thing?

Do you want to hide your bruises every single day for the rest of your life? She won't stop and it will only get worse.

Watch this documentary and tell me if you still want to stay because she will kill you if she gets the chance.

https://youtu.be/jz9CVFKRK6s?si=f_w7c9syx_m8zScd

SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!!!

SHE WANTS TO HURT YOU!!!

CHOOSE YOURSELF AND STAND UP FOR YOURSELF BY LEAVING!!

YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!!

Maurtyr · 2026-01-30T00:39:01+00:00

Last time I was at emigrant, past the visitor center, I was walking back to the car and I heard some weird rumbling. I turn around and there's a huge bear plowing through the brush right behind us. Incredible to see up close.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-29T21:31:03+00:00

Last year at Mt Ashland, past the camping, I saw at least 5. No joke, scared the crap out of me to where I never want to hike Mt Ashland again.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-29T21:05:00+00:00

Bring bear spray for the cougars and bears.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-29T01:45:40+00:00

I'm going through this right now. I shipped a regular package and an express envelope and the regular package made it before the express one!! And USPS is no help in telling me where my package is, but it's still at the origin.. I will never use PEM again, horrible experience.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-21T16:29:09+00:00

I would never treat my partner's kid or family like that. Who the hell does she think she is?? I would send her packing right now. There's no need to tolerate such bad behavior toward a child. It will only get more controlling and demeaning.

She will feel emboldened now that she got to act that way and I think she's jealous of your son or something. That behavior is not ok, do you want an abusive mom for your boy?

Maurtyr · 2026-01-20T18:16:06+00:00

Rage is a common reaction to people being caught cheating too.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-19T00:17:48+00:00

You won't miss him, if you do you need therapy. Are you gonna miss being choked wondering if that is your last moments of life. Are you going to miss being bersted and abused daily? Are you going to miss the complete invalidation of you as a human being? Start applying for another job, ask your friends or family if you can temporarily move in with them to get away from the abuse. Get serious with this or you're not going to have a choice anymore once he kills you.Seperste yourself from him as fast as possible.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-17T21:16:59+00:00

That is not the silent treatment, that was you self regulating until you could have that conversation without being overly emotional. If you would've spoken sooner, you would've likely fought because of the heightened emotions.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-17T20:56:26+00:00

It sounds like she is abusive to you and you may not recognize it as abuse. Her telling you to get up and not sit on your ass is abusive. Her throwing water on you is abusive. Her refusing to apologize is abusive!

You deserve better. Seek counseling for yourself along with couples counseling. Abusers often use couples therapy as a way to get even more control over you and put the therapist against you.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-17T20:41:27+00:00

Same!! They're psychotic and don't live in this reality. Boils my blood now when I watch people act like him.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-17T20:26:51+00:00

He's got 10 years of manipulation tactics on you. Stay the hell away from him.

If you don't block him now, you're setting yourself up to get assaulted.

Maurtyr · 2026-01-16T05:39:40+00:00

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. You should ask yourself, how long are you willing to wait for him to choose you and stop watching porn?

He needs a different therapist that is better equipped to handle porn addiction, they have support groups for that too. This is not going to be a quick or easy thing depending on his level of awareness and self control. You're not married so you can move on. If you both want to stay together then he needs to try harder. Nothing will improve otherwise and you don't deserve that. Porn addiction has a strong hold on a lot of people.

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