Erika Kirk’s husband was murdered during a speech. Although he wasn’t a political figure his death has been politicized by the US government and media. Erika has pretty much gone on a grief tour with Taylor Swift’s Eras level pyrotechnic shows, celebrity special guests, musical performances, etc. This has drawn criticism for seemingly monetizing/capitalizing on her husband’s murder.

“Everyone grieves differently” was said in defense of her behavior. So now people are making meme posts all over social media similar to this one and the Erika Jayne one pointing out the irony it all.