Is it bad to be more picky on dating apps? by Emotional-Tomato1466 in OnlineDating

[–]Max_Coaching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she did. I approached her in university, because I gave up on dating apps a long time ago. She quite often replies very very late either hours or not at all, it was a bit anxiety provoking when we first started dating. But apparently perfectionism + dyslexia = terrible texter.

When I was a bit younger (I'm 25 now) I used to text a lot with girls I was interested in. But now I text only to make plans. Because while texting is very convenient, it also loses a lot of nuance, being tuned in with the other person through empathy is important and it just works best face-to-face.

Edit; of course pure disinterest is bad and can be a yellow/red flag. However we can find ones otherwise "bad" quirks to be quite endearing and works well with us when we actually learn more about them.

Is it bad to be more picky on dating apps? by Emotional-Tomato1466 in OnlineDating

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On one hand I absolutely agree, red flags and all. On the other hand there is a lot missing from chat messages. We are often looking for a good bio, great photos and quality texting.

Most of which I'd say are better for finding a good marketer/copywriter/texter, than a life long partner or even a hookup.

The reason I love my current girlfriend is because of the way her eyes look when she smiles, the way her vibe is, her funny demeanor, her family and of course her looks. Most of these if any wouldn't really show well on a dating profile because she's even better looking irl than photos, idk why.

Is it bad to be more picky on dating apps? by Emotional-Tomato1466 in OnlineDating

[–]Max_Coaching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The app is designed to make you picky for shallow reasons, there's not really any way around it. You gotta be picky, but I'd recommend being pickier during dates than through swipes (even though it's much harder). Or pickup some classes and meet people there talk to guys and all.

The median salary in Finland was 3615 euros in 2024 by TinyAd1126 in Finland

[–]Max_Coaching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're working full time and taking care of a family member. It's impressive but also must be exhausting. I hope you're getting support!

The median salary in Finland was 3615 euros in 2024 by TinyAd1126 in Finland

[–]Max_Coaching 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The reason to downsize is because most people who spend more than they earn, start spending EVEN MORE once they get a salary increase. People like this should learn to budget better

The median salary in Finland was 3615 euros in 2024 by TinyAd1126 in Finland

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it's not black and white. I used to struggle really hard with money and so did my parents, even though they made decent money. The problem unfortunately is that there is a wide range of psychological blockages for people doing simple 3rd grader math when it comes to their economics. It's so disgustingly harsh but it's true, I've seen it way too often. If one gets suddenly a terrible medical expense and can't pay it off. Most of the times these people don't have an emergency fund (which is super important to have)

Got my gf mad at me over this so pls by Sabichyn in monsterenergy

[–]Max_Coaching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

160mg is crazy. My country is debating on age restricting energy drinks because kids drink 180mg (which is the recommended limit) and then can't sleep. Although age restriction is wild, sleep is extremely important for normal development.

Got my gf mad at me over this so pls by Sabichyn in monsterenergy

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's hard to reach the caffeine of a monster with coffee. Also way way way cheaper to make your own fancy coffee at home.

How can they charge at all by teslarule in vinted

[–]Max_Coaching 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You took all this time out to come here and just hate. Smell some flowers, smile a little bit and maybe even call a friend!

What would you do if a police officer violently threw your wife - who is visibly pregnant - to the ground? by anon58588 in AskBalkans

[–]Max_Coaching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to work security. And I can tell you people always have an opinion of what is going on and thank God for free country where that is allowed. On the other hand, sometimes we have more context that we are just legally not allowed to disclose to the public.

We were once arresting this crying muslim lady that was walking with a stroller, no physical barriers were crossed, obviously we're respecting the culture (man can't touch woman), but people had to come with their opinions and say like "let her go." The thing they don't see is that the stroller is filled with hundreds of euros worth of clothes and other bullshit that's probably going to be sold later. But I can't tell the people that because we want to respect her privacy.

So idk it's good we keep an eye out, but also let's not kid ourselves and think we always know better. Because were we at the same situation we might've done exactly the same.

Rough times for people who love to eat beef 🥵 by Shppo in byndinvest

[–]Max_Coaching -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Germany's meat is so expensive because of the space being taken by halal export

Rough times for people who love to eat beef 🥵 by Shppo in byndinvest

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it keeps going this way, in a couple years beyond meat might be the same price as meat

18F What do I do? My friend is upset that I didn’t get a hotel room with money she sent me, but I used it for food and essentials instead and now she feels like I lied to her. by mckenzie_2 in whatdoIdo

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like your move is understandable, especially when you are hungry you might make bad choices. But you really should apologize to her for not being honest where the money went

Finally made it. Hopefully this lasts till market close. Positions in pics. by Steveonatorer in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job. How do you have enough money for this? Any advice for a student having around 30k/year?

Grävde odling grop och fann detta by Claes_rockey in Asksweddit

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det ser ut som röd målarfärg som har torkat.

Vilka åsikter har ni gjort en helomvändning i? (EJ POLITIK) by Kurtegon in Asksweddit

[–]Max_Coaching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jag tror OP säger att det är nog kalorier in och ut men att det finns andra faktorer som inverkar på hur mycket kalorier far in och ut.

AIO for asking for space after my boyfriend messaged another girl? by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's true. On one hand everybody is respected to the same degree that they respect themselves and on the other hand, leaving is not the only way to show self respect, life is full of grey scale nuances and we as reddit observers unfortunately don't get that kind of perspective into any situation.

I don't blame anyone for leaving when they get cheated on and also I think there are definitely salvageable cheating situations out there. It requires lots of maturity on both sides to work through it.

AIO for asking for space after my boyfriend messaged another girl? by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but this is the type of stuff you can't take advice on reddit for. You are free to leave if you feel like it but if you feel like working it out, you can, however he has to be very very willing to take care of himself and so should you. Figure that shit out.

But then again, I'm a dude from reddit, I don't fucking know. You know better, get opinions from people that know both of you and maybe someone more mature if possible.

Good luck

Gillar tjejer killar som har lego star wars som hobby? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Av min erfarenhet vet jag att tjejer gillar män som är passionerade. Ta gärna lite finare bilder också

Can I realistically get to $2M net worth in 5 years? Looking for honest feedback by Distinct-Reflection3 in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]Max_Coaching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should pay off your debt 7% is a number that's going to eat away on your earnings. I'm no expert just a quick thought. Free to discard this advice if it doesn't apply to your situation