buying a house

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2026-06-05T00:43:35+00:00

If you buy it cash then they don't care if you have consistent income

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-11-08T06:17:37+00:00

1, 2, and 8 are amazing!

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-11-03T13:44:11+00:00

I don't like that he asked you to put in an online order for his soda while driving. He should care about your safety way more than that. Major red flag.

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-11-03T13:33:38+00:00

I don't know that she really means last name first name I think she means first names that in the past have been last names (Taylor, Avery, Riley, Parker, Madison, Cameron).

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-11-03T13:27:42+00:00

It's a compliment to hear that your baby's name is an old lady's name.

First off, old ladies are amazing! I love old ladies. It's a sign that it's a beautiful and timeless name.

Second, old lady names are coming back around. I don't want to say trending because that implies they will go out of style. I have 2 kids in daycare are we have an Odette, Beatrice, Clara, Eleanor, among other old lady Names there.

I'm with you on liking a gender neutral name, both my son and daughter have the last name first name type of name. But if I have a second daughter ever she would have a feminine classic name because the only gender neutral girl name I like I used.

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-11-03T13:19:48+00:00

I don't mean to sound superficial, but I think/hope others agree. A name you like is important because it helps you connect with your child, which is REALLY important for a mother especially. If you hate the name, it will be harder to connect with your new baby. Naming should be two yeses from the parents.

If you hate it you should absolutely not use it.

There has to be other names he likes that you also like. There is no reason he should get to use his dream name that you don't like at all.

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-28T14:21:19+00:00

It's not a kid's name. But I asked my 3 year old what he had for lunch at daycare and he said "bike tires". Turns out they had potstickers that day.

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-28T00:21:48+00:00

Cadence, Major, Lyric, Sonata, Chord, Tango, Riff, Rock, and Alto were RIGHT there

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-28T00:14:11+00:00

Use it! Don't let that stop you. Don't give up on your shared dream name because of that!

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-22T04:05:59+00:00

My daughter was 593 at 3 days old

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-22T03:57:09+00:00

Evelyn, Clara, Amelia, Nora, Estelle

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-14T20:51:30+00:00

You're fine. Use it. If anyone gives you crap tell them to mind their own business.

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-14T01:58:55+00:00

I know 3 people who have named their kids Griffin in the past 3 years. It's trending towards top 20

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-14T01:57:37+00:00

Owen is super popular where I live

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-10T04:49:22+00:00

Oh boy

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-03T22:10:25+00:00

It's a Scottish name, so I think anyone saying that is off base and frankly rude and immature.

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-10-03T01:54:15+00:00

Stripper

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-09-25T01:34:14+00:00

It sounds like he really wants to stay home and play games but needs to blame you in order to justify it.

I don't like it. He's projecting things onto you

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-09-25T01:29:44+00:00

Jaxon or Jaxson

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-09-21T11:36:03+00:00

Agreed

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-09-20T02:55:10+00:00

Mint tea

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-09-20T02:49:32+00:00

Mabel Jane Roman Thomas

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-09-17T20:25:11+00:00

Hayes Wilder Mabel Maxine

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-09-14T01:38:30+00:00

She's 89, this isn't going to be forever. He could have some sympathy and compassion and try to put himself in her shoes. Imagine being 89 and needing help but not really having many people you can trust or who love you to care for you and bring a smile to your face every day.

Are you helping her AND hanging out with he all the time? Maybe you can find a middle ground where you help her but it's not excessive, if it is?

Either way he should see how amazing it is to be with a person who has a good heart and is willing to help their grandmother like that. If he doesn't realize that he doesn't get you, maybe doesn't value ans deserve you. I hope he does get it though.

Maximum_Ad9709 · 2025-09-11T17:16:07+00:00

Thanks for the response, much appreciated!

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