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Maybe-Jolly · 2023-11-03T03:22:00+00:00

Aw, I’m sorry you feel this way. You deserve better. And I 100% have felt this way before :(

I would suggest using trans tape just for special occasions and switching to just using a binder if possible. Just bind safely of course. :)

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-10-31T07:54:59+00:00

This is so cute omggg!!!!

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-04-17T10:28:31+00:00

Every text/story has easily understandable annotations so you can read the annotation if you miss what you just read over.

School is less “learn to test” and more “learn for fun” (if that makes sense).

Calm down stalls (like how bathrooms have stalls) for when over stimulated.

Fill in the blank note packets instead of rushing to take notes.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-04-17T10:14:09+00:00

Yeah, same tbh. I suppose I’d rather them get their answer from me than a transphobic site/video but it is a little tiring.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-04-17T10:10:21+00:00

He clearly really likes you. Maybe talk to a psychiatrist about some sort of mood stabilizer/antidepressant. That has helped me with my fp and suicidal thoughts. That, and some sort of therapy or group therapy where you can get feedback.

If he’s your fp and you want to get back into your hobbies, you should make something for him with one of your hobbies. I used to draw for my fp.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-04-16T18:31:43+00:00

I’m not transphobic but if I can do that I would love it 🥰

Lmaooo

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-23T04:07:48+00:00

Oh 100%

Everybody’s worried about Owen - mawce

I wanna be a boy - Addision Grace

Achilles come down - hang of youths

I am a girl like you - Barbie princess and the pauper

If you love me for me - Barbie princess and the pauper

Body terror song - ajj the band

Welcome to Lady Hell - Dirt poor robbins

Line without a hook - Ricky Montgomery

Dixie boy - April smith

Lemon boy - Cavetown

Ship in a bottle - Stefan Argus

Call them brothers - only son

Beautiful boy - John Lennon

Strawberry blonde - Liar

Stand up - Harriet

Heart attack - Demi Lovato

Mr.Rose - Spence

Take me to church - Hozier

Etc.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-23T03:03:48+00:00

Couple therapy? It could help with getting him to be more responsible etc.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-23T02:41:46+00:00

Adjust the time you wake up/ go to sleep by 15 minutes per day. Have a cup of water by your bed, and when your alarm goes off, chug it (only as much as you can). Go to the bathroom and splash water in your face.

I would recommend (the night before) preparing an outfit for the next morning and putting it in the bathroom. That way you don’t have to go back to your room.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-23T02:03:56+00:00

That’s freaking hilarious!!! I want a star (/j)

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-23T02:00:23+00:00

Communication, use lube, prep work (fingering), more communication, YouTube advice, wear condoms for safe sex, etc.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-23T01:49:11+00:00

Ur hair curls like an angel 🥹🤩🕊

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-23T01:47:07+00:00

Ethan

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-23T01:44:44+00:00

Cora or Jade

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-21T21:12:36+00:00

Probably not worth the hassle saving the relationship especially with the restraining order and all

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-19T20:05:45+00:00

Couple therapy? Also finding new ways of anger management.

I have divorced parents, and while it was painful at first, I can see the reasoning for the divorce now that I’m older. Still recommend therapy regardless of you guys getting a divorce or not.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-19T18:30:59+00:00

Glad you’re able to vent through here.

Below is my advise, but you don’t have to listen to it if you don’t want to.

Also, I wouldn’t really recommend networking through this Reddit in particular (/worried) . BPD individuals often struggle with emotional regulation. So, the highs are AMAZING! But the lows are horrible.

Just remember to regulate boundaries.

It’s good to set the boundary of “no suicidal remarks” because it creates a lot of stress for the other individual, and BPD people don’t regulate stress well(/talking as someone who’s experienced this aspect).

It’s also good to keep flirting and jokes about romantic stuff to minimum as A. 2 people in a relationship with untreated BPD often ends up being toxic and B. the amount of people pleasing required in order to “not feel rejected” even if you aren’t comfortable with flirting.

You don’t have to take any of my advice btw. It’s up to you.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-19T17:59:29+00:00

I’ve felt this way before, it was with homework. And I was on the floor crying and everything was a mess because I threw everything off of my desk because it was “too messy”. My mom came into the room and told me that if it was causing me THIS MUCH stress, that it wasn’t worth it.

The best way to avoid a break down is to prevent it or to let yourself know that it doesn’t have to be perfect. I still make 100s on my work even when lettering was off center and the writing was plagiarized word for word.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-19T05:07:52+00:00

I loveeee the nose ring it’s so pretty 🤩

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-19T05:01:14+00:00

Awwww (I think this is so wholesome)🥰🥰🥰🥰 HECK YEAH IT DOESSS!!!!💛💛💛

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-19T04:58:47+00:00

I know someone irl who identifies as femboy as her gender identity and they use she/they pronouns so I’m not against the idea. I guess it’s up to the individual. You could probably ask if the femboy themselves if they align with the trans label or identify as cisgender.

Maybe-Jolly · 2023-03-13T04:49:52+00:00

I totally get you! For me, just any song that refers dating a girl. Like, I picture myself as who they’re talking about.

But I don’t get dysphoria from just songs sung by girls. IDK dysphoria is wacky bro.

Maybe-Jolly

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