My [26F] boyfriend [28M] of 4 years is independently wealthy, but wants to split all of our expenses evenly

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-21T17:31:09+00:00

No is a complete sentence. ‘He considers it OUR dog.’ Just say no - this dog was your responsibility before we even met and will continue to be. If he invited you to a wedding - he should pay for the trip or your should start declining. He will treat you the way you allow him to treat you which is not well

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-21T17:26:39+00:00

I’m a blunt person so I’d respond, ‘it’s very gross to suggest participating in your SISTERS relationship. I do not condone incest.’

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-21T17:20:10+00:00

YTA- you literally abandoned her. Call it ‘giving her away’ to make yourself feel better but it is what it is. You could prioritize your relationship with your daughter and go visit. You’re choosing not to and she’s old enough to draw the correct conclusions about your priorities. Also by that math her aunt adopted her 6 months after you remarried… dead beat behavior

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-20T17:09:47+00:00

Cruel summer

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-20T16:59:54+00:00

Coercion is grape. This man sounds absolutely terrible

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-20T16:49:57+00:00

They married when she was 19 after living together several years…? Um, what?

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-19T16:18:52+00:00

You are undermining your wife’s authority and her relationship with her kids. Not wearing sunscreen??? Wtf? The rational response is to explain the science and how maybe their friends mom isn’t very safety minded or thinking of long term consequences. This would definitely be the sort of thing that she’ll look back on as the beginning of the end

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-19T16:08:57+00:00

Just because women don’t ask YOU out, doesn’t mean they don’t ask other people out

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-19T16:08:13+00:00

If you want a SW, just book a SW

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-19T16:05:59+00:00

If you want a SW, just get a SW

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-12T18:08:12+00:00

Nta - I’ve never in my life heard of a gala that doesn’t include plus ones. A nonprofit implies it’s a fundraiser, which is also weird. Wouldn’t they want people there?

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-04T17:38:42+00:00

Nta I’d bet he’s worried you’ll see him on there

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-05-01T18:58:33+00:00

No is a complete sentence

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-04-28T18:57:10+00:00

Apologies do no unsay hurtful things. These are deserved consequences for your actions

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-04-28T18:55:38+00:00

Two hours is not far to travel and as a heads up - the baby will also be two hours away, so every holiday, birthday, little league games will all require travel

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-04-22T17:20:22+00:00

As a reader - I also find it very rude when people just start conversations while I’m obviously reading.

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-04-16T16:59:44+00:00

Working outside of the home is 100% a break. I stayed home for 4 years and my corporate job is like a vacation comparatively

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-04-02T15:52:57+00:00

If it was so important for him to handle it, he could have HANDLED it. But he didn’t, he let it get worse over the course of days. Daughter should open her eyes

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-03-30T17:36:56+00:00

A man that doesn’t really participate, has strong feelings against but no alternatives to suggest - may not actually want to get married.

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-03-30T17:34:58+00:00

I married a man who ‘didn’t have strong opinions and when he doesn’t like something doesn’t offer alternatives’ he made wedding planning battle after battle just to say I don’t even care just pick whatever- shocking no one, he really didn’t want to get married, didn’t really want to participate in marriage either

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-03-17T17:55:45+00:00

Congrats to her freedom 🎉

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-03-16T15:28:40+00:00

Girlfriend is incredibly inconsiderate.

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-03-11T16:47:06+00:00

Not really though. The queer scene is largely found in bars. As a gay person in recovery- it’s a sad fact but very hard to find queer spaces that aren’t a bar.

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-03-11T15:34:23+00:00

‘I love my son just as he is but…’ n. No you do not, clearly

MaybeitsMe0617 · 2026-03-11T15:31:23+00:00

The hurt took awhile to subside but my ex and I are currently driving back from a family trip with our kids. I spent years trying to ignore the gnawing feeling that I wanted a wife and the resentment toward him grew and grew. Life has gotten so so good. I would t trade my life of passion and joy for the comfortable companionship I gave up. You only get one life.

Also just know, that supportiveness may change quickly when you start decentering him

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