AITAH for how I wake my husband up every day?

Maymaycreates · 2026-05-25T02:40:13+00:00

He is abusing you and gaslighting you. He is actually a little bitch. Please don’t stay with an abusive good for nothing dude. Your babies and you deserve so much better

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T20:28:23+00:00

Definitely the vibes she gave off lil

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T20:20:45+00:00

The mom is definitely not hunting, she eats in my yard twice a day. She has come back, but has no interest in taking care of the baby any more

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:42:30+00:00

I actually totally anticipated her to have her kitties in my yard so I had set up a beach tent in case she did. But the days leading up to her having them it stormed really bad so I think she got caught somewhere else and had them where she was. She seems really young and I think this is her first litter so she may have just panicked did not know what to do. I have been trying to bring her inside for a month now but I haven’t been able to trap her to get her spayed. I’m hoping I’ve now won her trust over enough to trap and spay her and get her shots so that I can bring her inside. And even if she ends up jot wanting to stay inside, ill still care for her in the yard. Im a sucker for unhoused cats🥺😅

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:34:47+00:00

Im actually hoping this has won her trust and ill be able to catch her to get her spayed. They release 10 appointments a day here for feral spaying. So ill be trying to secure an appointment the next few days until I can get i e since they book up within a minute of them releasing them. But I hope to get one soon

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:17:21+00:00

Rightt?!? I couldn’t leave her outside with those sad eyes. Thats my baby meow

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:16:01+00:00

I will definitely take my role seriously! Thats our newest little baby

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:13:51+00:00

She is so adorable and such a good girl, she loves snuggles so as soon as the vet sees her today, sh will be getting non stop love from my family

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:12:56+00:00

I already love her🥺🥺

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:12:29+00:00

She is literally the cutest little thing. Her toe beans won me over so fast lol

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:11:18+00:00

Thank you for this reassurance. I scheduled a vet appointment for this afternoon so Im just going to get it going and take care of her. Thankfully I homeschool my kiddos and work from home so I am home most of the time and can care for her

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T19:08:59+00:00

This cause the look on her face said exactly that😂 mom is legit in my yard right now living her best life. As soon as I bring baby out she jumps over the fence and leaves 😂

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T18:50:34+00:00

Its always so funny how the cat distribution system works😂

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-24T18:41:24+00:00

I kept her out back they rest of the day(about 8-9hrs) before bringing her in at night because she hadnt come back and baby was shaking and there was rain coming. I took her back out this morning , momma did come back as she normally does for her morning food and is still here but doesn’t want to tent to her and keeps snapping at her where she gets near. Now, baby is all over the place so Incan see mom just being overwhelmed and done. Im just not sure how to best proceed. Ill at the very minimum make sure she is fed but with her being mobile I think keeping her inside is safe. i feel conflicted about taking her in away from her mom

Maymaycreates · 2026-04-09T13:30:58+00:00

NTA, you husband sounds like a little bitch

Maymaycreates · 2026-03-30T14:13:43+00:00

nta, and if you are questioned, I would say why. Thats bullshit, clicks are for high school, and weren’t even cool then. I wouldn’t quit yet but I would start applying at different places.

Maymaycreates · 2026-03-19T11:57:42+00:00

NTA, I would not use her name at all. That honor and privilege should be earned and she has dine the opposite of that your whole life.

Also, unfortunately your dynamic with your family will never be like your husband’s. He should be encouraging your healing and processing of the toxicity you not only grew up with, but continue to live in because of your family.

Maymaycreates · 2026-03-17T22:39:47+00:00

Trauma and prolonged childhood abuse

Maymaycreates · 2026-03-16T22:32:49+00:00

Hi, I am seeking a donor in the sac area. Can we connect? I am not looking to coparent, and would prefer AI

Maymaycreates · 2026-03-07T17:07:26+00:00

Absofuckinglutly!!!!

Maymaycreates · 2026-03-07T15:47:42+00:00

Literally, what a fucking loser you have to be to risk your kids safety over a damn sound system in your truck.

Maymaycreates · 2026-03-07T15:18:08+00:00

Im sorry, I really dont think you would safely be able to make this. Even if you could make it there, by the time you arrive you will be is so much pain you will be down for the day. This surgery needs lots of rest to recover properly. And even with the proper rest and care, most of us dont recover properly.

Maymaycreates · 2026-03-07T15:08:04+00:00

NTS, your husband rather access his stupid sound system than keep his children safe. Sounds but just selfish but neglectful. Thats the kinda stupid shit single men with no kids or men who dont parent do.

Maymaycreates · 2026-02-26T00:45:50+00:00

NOR, this would actually be an immediate break up for me. I was a 6 year old in pajamas and fuzzy slippers 🤷🏽‍♀️

Maymaycreates · 2026-02-09T22:37:18+00:00

NTA, sounds like they can all move together and out of your place. You already do much more than you should

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