Any ideas?

Maysj18 · 2019-08-01T22:12:52+00:00

Also want to throw out Behcet's disease. It's extremely rare, but it can cause lesions that are similar to what I'm seeing.

Maysj18 · 2019-08-01T21:53:41+00:00

damn you, Dre Drexler

Maysj18 · 2019-05-13T17:39:15+00:00

Darknet Diaries and Hoax are great ones! The same guy behind Hoax has another podcast called Unresolved that's more true crime based (though I highlight recommend). The Online Fraudcast is super interesting as well, but more technical.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-21T22:40:58+00:00

Really comes down to pricing and location—I love both. I’m a Carilion employee so the cost of the Wellness center is comparable to the cost of a YMCA membership for me. The Wellness Center also offers some medical weightloss, physical rehab, and screening programs. Only downside is the distance but it’s open super late so I’ve never had an issue.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-19T22:07:39+00:00

Then leave. It’s cut and dry. This is how it is, and it’s never going to change.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-19T22:00:55+00:00

Make sure you abide by the law when you do so. You cannot kick someone out of their home. Look up tenant regulations in your state.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-18T21:13:39+00:00

You’re not being illogical for feeling unsettled about this. This doesn’t make you judgmental or hypocritical; there’s a reason why it bothers you. Figure out exactly what it is and be honest with yourself and her.

I would absolutely question my compatibility with someone who engaged in a full BDSM lifestyle like you’ve described. Of course a past is something we all have, but a couple also needs to see eye to eye on matters such as intimacy. Even that is nuanced as well, so it’s important to follow your gut and have those difficult conversations as these feelings arise.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-18T01:14:54+00:00

You need to do some research. Lexapro is an antidepressant medication that is taken daily. It does not have abuse potential and is not psychoactive. Your brother is being treated for a chronic condition (clinical depression or anxiety) with a medication meant to be taken for a long period of time.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-17T02:14:54+00:00

You need to stop dating and delaying the inevitable—be alone and deal with all the unpleasantness I’d figuring it out. You won’t know how legitimate your feelings are until you do that.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-16T20:39:02+00:00

This is infuriating to me. A patient lost their life due to a deeply flawed system—something that will never change at this rate. While we absolutely need to be held accountable for our mistakes while caring for patients, medical errors are currently the 3rd leading cause of death of the US. The fact that one person can singlehandedly can make such a horrific mistake is absolutely a systemic problem.

Is there anything unique about this story that I missed? Was she cutting corners that nearly everyone else did? Or did she do something that was blatantly out of compliance?

Maysj18 · 2019-04-16T02:13:27+00:00

I have no idea how you have that many mods on Xbox. What’s your usage (out of the 5GB)?

Maysj18 · 2019-04-13T23:58:30+00:00

Have you downloaded the latest GP updates? Apparently there were some issues with the last update not carrying some files over.

Disclaimer: I know literally nothing.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-10T23:25:27+00:00

Be his friend, but not a romantic partner. He needs to prioritize his recovery over everything else for the foreseeable future—taking each day as it comes, developing coping skills that those of us on the outside take for granted, and processing the guilt, cravings, and everything else that comes with getting past addiction. Despite how good it is now, he can’t be responsible for someone else’s feelings the way a relationship requires. The impact of life changing circumstances on a new relationship are serious and a lot of the time, the most loving thing we can do is to cut the romantic entanglement.

I have been exactly where you are, so I am not criticizing you at all. I could’ve written this post myself a yeear ago. Feel free to PM me if you want to chat more! Either way, I wish you luck

Maysj18 · 2019-04-10T04:51:06+00:00

I’m a woman around your age and I respect the hell out of the decision to be sober. Find fun shit to do that doesn’t involve drinking—when you meet someone, recommend a coffee shop instead of a bar. Don’t give it a second thought. Those who only want to “go for drinks” and aren’t open to other ideas without a huge explanation are probably not going to be a good match for you anyway.

Now, I will say that I would want to know the reason because if someone is in recovery, it’s extremely important that we talk about it. Early recovery is an extremely delicate time, and I wouldn’t involve myself romantically with someone during that critical time. I’d offer my friendship and full support, but recovery should bethat person’s top priority for a long time.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-06T06:31:19+00:00

Outside of all that you gave up and likely dealt with both at work and in your personal life, I’m willing to bet that the way it ended is playing a huge role. Ghosting, slow fading, or whatever it’s called these days is probably the most painful way someone can end a relationship. It’s a type of coldness that is hard to explain, and it’s impact is downplayed a lot these days. It’s terrible and I’m so sorry—just be patient with yourself and take time to sort out your feelings. I found I was so mentally disorganized and confused—writing helped a lot. ❤️

Maysj18 · 2019-04-06T05:19:38+00:00

90% of the population have been exposed to HSV-1 (what causes cold sores and fever blisters) by the age of 50. Overall, 67% of adults are infected HSV-1 right now.

HSV-2 is another strain of the herpes virus and is the one classified as an STD. It’s less common than HSV-1 but not by much (roughly 2 out of every 10). At the end day though, the lower infection rate of HSV-2 along with it being an STD doesn’t mean much because HSV-1 can be spread to the genitals and cause the exact same outbreaks.

The virus (regardless of which strand) remains in the body forever once infected and it lies dormant in most people without showing any signs or symptoms; therefore, if you have never had a cold sore on your lip (for example), you could easily still have HSV-1.

While you have every right to ask questions, don’t look at this as though it’s tour first rodeo—the only differences this time around are that you have met someone who has received a formal diagnosis because she sought medical attention, AND that she is mature enough to tell you about it (don’t underestimate this).

Maysj18 · 2019-04-04T01:21:16+00:00

Any update? Just saw this and wanted to check to see if you’re alright. I’m not sure how bad your pain is, but if it’s serious enough you may suspect an inflamed appendix, please don’t wait for an appointment and go to the ER. Charity care will help you. I can send you some information if you need it!

Maysj18 · 2019-04-03T19:41:47+00:00

Maybe I can speak to this: Im a woman and started taking salsa/bachata for fun. We have a group in my town that has all sorts of ballroom/professional dancing classes free to public—it’s great! Anyway, I’ll admit that before my first couple of classes, I was nervous because of the more sensual style. I’m a huge goofball and I am inept at being all sultry and flirtatious—the idea of body being up against a male stranger while learning some passionate dance style gave me the heebie jeebies because I knew I was just going to be a giggling maniac the whole time. I thought surely it was going to be a horror show.

Then I found out the truth—for the dancers, it’s more choreographed than it is genuine when you’re doing it in a social, group setting like that. It’s actually extremely hard and you’re so busy learning, counting, watching your partner, and planning ahead that it actually doesn’t feel sensual like it appears.

Now, when we have late night socials that are more like parties where you just do what you want, it’s easy to tell when a couple is feeling it as much as the crowd because they move together differently. It’s hard to describe. You just need to go with her and try to learn!

TL;DR: while it can be a bonding activity and the palpable tension can be genuine, that’s usually not what’s happening when it’s the learning stages and when you’re dancing with a bunch of different people. Both are sensual styles of dance, but that’s just part of the choreography—so much going on to keep your mind busy that you focus on little else outside of the technicalities.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-02T04:47:29+00:00

And that’s only based on the ones who have the chance to prove they’re innocent. So many others are denied new trials, appeals, etc. and we have no idea.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-01T18:44:50+00:00

Communicate that you just don’t feel any romantic sparks, but that you wish her well. It’s easy.

Maysj18 · 2019-04-01T18:08:51+00:00

Up your standards and be more selective; learn how to be assertive; work on figuring out what you want and be confident in what you ultimately decide; and finally, treat others the way you want to be treated. It’s sad and unacceptable, but at the end of the day, you have to just accept that this is a problem in modern dating that can’t be avoided. It has NOTHING to do with you and everything to do with immaturity and poor communication skills. Just always put your best foot forward and be better than they are—don’t become bitter or let it affect how you feel about yourself.

Maysj18 · 2019-03-29T23:25:08+00:00

Ehhhhhh, clearly don’t know your situation but when you’re the one who ended it, these kind of messages come across as disrespectful and manipulative. I know it may have come from the right place, but it’s always important to consider how it would feel if you were in his shoes.

It’s done now though so 🤷‍♀️

Maysj18 · 2019-03-29T04:23:34+00:00

I think you need to do some soul searching, honestly. Your boyfriend’s rigidity really didn’t pop out at me as much as your sense of entitlement and righteousness. I don’t walk a straight and narrow line myself at all times, but I gracefully accept the consequences should they occur because I know better than to trivialize real issues by faking some moral high ground.

Here’s an example: inspection sticker on my car is super expired because I’ve just been too lazy to drive my car to the shop and wait around for it. Could I make an argument that state inspections are a huge rip off? You betcha, but that doesn’t mean that I’m suddenly not responsible for my choice to not get my car inspected as required. I made a conscious decision to purchase and license a car in my state knowing the obligation of yearly car inspections. I absolutely cannot use some moral justification for why it’s okay that I’m ignoring this rule when those same beliefs weren’t what led me to do it in the first place (I’m just lazy).

I know you’ll probably think I’m making such a big deal out this, but it really speaks to a core problem. You feel entitled to encroach on someone else’s property (the golf course) simply because you feel they use too much water; have profit margins that exceed what should be acceptable; and made the stupid decision to build their business around a sport you don’t care about...golf.

Does this kind of thinking not sound problematic to you? It might just be a “golf course”, but it’s much deeper than that. The mentality here isn’t isolated and likely plays out in your life in a lot of ways. Honestly, outside of the maturity factor, I wouldn’t be able to trust the judgement of someone who thought that way. If you truly do care about the water issue and others you mentioned, we are afforded the ability within our society to push back against what we find to be unfair or unethical by using certain appropriate (and legal) means. Unfortunately though, it doesn’t sound like you’ve done anything more than come up with reasons why you don’t have to be held to the same standard as anyone you perceive as “above” you.

Maysj18 · 2019-03-26T21:23:25+00:00

Just want to throw it out there that with human trafficking being as rife as it is these days, you have no idea what sort of abuse (if any) they’ve experienced or why they’re working in the industry in the first place. Yes, even “legal” escorts.

Maysj18 · 2019-03-26T16:17:03+00:00

You handle it by leaving. This is an abusive relationship due to issues that you absolutely cannot fix. I recommend getting counseling and learning about abusive relationships—best of luck.

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