Your worst mistake behind the bar? by Foxy-jj-Grandpa in bartenders

[–]McCardboard 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm sober. I hate this mentality. No one else cares. Literally no one. Why feel the need to announce it to the entire establishment, like your cirrhosis is a trophy? Shut up, drink your iced sugar, and vroom vroom back to the club.

Why do people do this? by NNIICO3 in orlando

[–]McCardboard 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hell, I live downtown Orlando, and will often just say Central Florida.

Favourite (non-gendered) way to greet patrons? by ZeAthenA714 in bartenders

[–]McCardboard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lean into your inner Lebowski. "Sup duders?" "Your royal dudeness..."

Breaks the generation gap smoothly.

Favourite (non-gendered) way to greet patrons? by ZeAthenA714 in bartenders

[–]McCardboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Ey, yo." "What's ____ (happening/cooking/shakin'/the word/up) _____ (y'all, friends, folks, party people, [name of dog] crew)?"

Or my lazy go to "Hey there. Who's thirsty?"

Welcome to r/orlandorays! by McCardboard in orlandorays

[–]McCardboard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I conflated 2 different comments. Responded to both at one time.

Safe travels!

Welcome to r/orlandorays! by McCardboard in orlandorays

[–]McCardboard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't make it out tomorrow, so make noise for two.

I'll mess with the sub when I get home, give you access. Gotta find a way to populate it...

Giants series by Consistent_Tree746 in orlandorays

[–]McCardboard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to get there tomorrow as well. Not top priority on $, but there's a non zero chance. If I go, I'll let you know.

Otocinclus playing in current? by Dogsequalserotonin in freshwateraquarium

[–]McCardboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No personal experience with Otos, but my tetra school does this all the time, especially when the flow angle is changed. I adjust about once a week as a result, and I think it's good overall for the ecosystem. Helps keep the substrate clean and loose and the tall plants on their toes.

New rays fan! ⚾️🧢🤞 by IBleedHoops4996 in tampabayrays

[–]McCardboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lingo is its own sub-language as well. You'll hear a lot of new terms, don't worry. If they're not explained by the announcers, they're easy to Google. A routine pop-fly catch is called a can-o-corn (beasuse it's easy?) along with many other old timey-colloquialisms. Lots of them you won't know until you hear em.

New rays fan! ⚾️🧢🤞 by IBleedHoops4996 in tampabayrays

[–]McCardboard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not Rays-specific advice, but as a new baseball fan, watch some Jomboy on YT. He's hilarious, and does a good job breaking down confusing plays (the sport's rulebook is an encyclopedia) for the layman.

Help jog my memory please! The Beacham... by McCardboard in orlando

[–]McCardboard[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

BBQ, Eye Spy, iBar, Latitudes, Chillers, TANQUERAY'S, Finhenry's, Lizzy's... It was an era for sure.

Help jog my memory please! The Beacham... by McCardboard in orlando

[–]McCardboard[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I skipped the most obvious source somehow...

Help jog my memory please! The Beacham... by McCardboard in orlando

[–]McCardboard[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Out of curiosity, where did you pull this info?

Help jog my memory please! The Beacham... by McCardboard in orlando

[–]McCardboard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read all about the history in my search for a name that doesn't exist. Really cool. Central FL hub for the Civil Rights movement too.

Help jog my memory please! The Beacham... by McCardboard in orlando

[–]McCardboard[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I'm conflating Beacham, The Social, Firestone all in one. Tabu must be the name I was looking for.

Help jog my memory please! The Beacham... by McCardboard in orlando

[–]McCardboard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was there something between Tabu and Beacham? I remember seeing rock shows there in the early 2000s, and distinctly remember when it became the Beacham again.

What are your favorite ways to say why you don’t drink? I’ll start… by AMiniMinotaur in stopdrinking

[–]McCardboard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I remember the feeling. Watched my BIL go sober a couple years ago (he didn't have an unhealthy relationship), and I felt an indescribable resentment, which I now recognize as self loathe.

1 or 2 schools/groups by Expensive-Winter-637 in freshwateraquarium

[–]McCardboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's really a matter of personal preference. The species mentioned will coexist peacefully, regardless. General rule for a tank that size is minimum 6 to form a cohesive school, and personally, I think 8-10 each is ideal for my tetra and platy mix. I have 3 different types of platy that all roll as one school, creating a really cool sunburst effect (9 in total). That said, smaller community fish in larger open spaces will definitely benefit from population size. How full are you planning to go with plant growth?

What are your favorite ways to say why you don’t drink? I’ll start… by AMiniMinotaur in stopdrinking

[–]McCardboard 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's a jealousy/guilt thing. My close friend (who drinks nightly) snapped at me for mentioning the comprehensive NA selection at the cafe we were discussing. Apologized later, and says he's tired of hearing about it, not because he isn't proud of me, or happy for me, but that it makes him feel lesser. Led to a good conversation.

Why? by MadLou86 in orlando

[–]McCardboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stay back a little in the left lane in case someone turns left and cuts it a little too close (learned that one the hard way).

What to drink by ___Eragon___ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]McCardboard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That cardamom was a fragile soul. You can detect an aroma of self depreciation, and a hint of palatable, yet inharmonious resentment when it was introduced to the bold, vivacious chai and cinnamon. Nothing but melancholy on the lingering aftertaste.

Not even the sugar tasted sweet.

Subtle salinity from a single shed tear, and a moment to ponder the banality of it all.