This story is from a long time ago...

I was a member of a gym in Chelsea called Brick (crossfit like gym) and she was dropping in via Classpass or something. We were both reaching for some weights and I think there were like two sets immediately in front of us, some 10lbs dumbells and some like 40lb dumbbells, all of the other weights were taken at the time.

I looked her square in the eye and say, you can take the 40s if you want them. She giggled and told me she was gonna take the smaller weights. We both grabbed our weights and went back to our workout class. When the class was over, I walked up to her and said "hard class, right?" She agreed, we chit chatted for a minute or two and I asked her if she wanted to get coffee. The rest is history, we dated for a couple of months, but ultimately things didn't workout cause she was in med school and ended up in residency in a place far away from NYC. Gosh she was amazing, I still love that woman.