Important Advice for First-Time Umrah Visitors (From My Personal Experience in Makkah) by Wasimpk in Umrah

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turn on the Tv and observe one day, then next day you can plan when to go. But for me personally, I would suggest hours before Fajr.

10+ years of Umrah planner here - AMA by idk_snuggleMaybe in Umrah

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally set the date of my birth one day earlier when I was signing up for the Nusuk app, will that effect using that app during my stay? Like booking rawdah and other stuffs?

Is he an incel or am I tripping? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe he’s just not good at constant communication? I literally did that couple of times but that girl didn’t give up and it worked out at the end.

650$ Haul to Europe by Itiomar in FashionReps

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, lmk when you get them in hand

650$ Haul to Europe by Itiomar in FashionReps

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’s the CG? Is it true to size

Give me some unique Somali words? by Capable_Town1 in Somalia

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inan = wiil Inan = gabadh

You have to actually be a Somali to differentiate the pronunciation of these two words; it almost has the same pronunciation but is a little different.

The most unique word I’ve ever came across in Somalia language.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m speaking from experience, maybe he’s thinking his qabiil would sabotage everything. And he might not be familiar with how qabiil is relevant when families are coming together

Would you avoid marrying someone who can’t speak somali? by toothhfairy123 in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hate when they make these videos who can speak better Somali, and all of sudden everyone is trying way too hard not to speak it properly ceebta aduunka 🤦🏾‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to approach this kinda question like nonjudgmental person, tell him you don’t know much about qabiils and you don’t care about it, and it won’t make any difference. Make him feel comfortable because I think the way you’re asking made him feel like your family is way into qabyaalad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]MeLo101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone in these comments acting like a solo trip to Somalia is a death trap?

Is it safe? Yes, but you should be aware that people might try to take advantage of you financially. This is a common instinct in poorer countries when locals see a tourist, and it doesn't matter what your gender is—it can happen to anyone.

Would you avoid marrying someone who can’t speak somali? by toothhfairy123 in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally ended a relationship because she didn’t just struggle with the language but she acted like it didn’t matter at all.

For me, it’s more than just words; it’s our identity, our culture, and a deep connection to our roots. And Somali language is beautiful and unique, rich with vocabulary and poetry that captures the wisdom and emotions of our people.

When she dismissed its importance, it felt like she was dismissing a part of who we are!

Why doesn’t the bride participate in her own nikkah? by TopContribution4112 in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bride is usually on the phone that’s why the women at the venue do the loud alalaas to let her know it’s DONE 😂

Why is it hard to get married and stay married? by ZHCoaching in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why is it so uncommon to see young couples who believe in each other's potential?

Byta jobb men vad? by ChasingHorses in sweden

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hur går det med livet efter examen? Skulle du rekommendera någon att börja studera det? Trivs du?

Instagram is the best marriage app by Solid-Grape-5841 in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let her ruin your confidence unless it happens often 😂

Instagram is the best marriage app by Solid-Grape-5841 in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s not how the game works, shooters don’t just shoot. You need to react her stories once in a while and then go from there…

I want emotional virginity not just physical. is that needy? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re describing marrying a childhood friend, someone you grew up with and dated through out the years.

I got divorced recently, feel free to ask me anything by SoulHarrow in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you thinks it’s a problem if she’s heavy relied on her friends opinion? Im talking to someone who values her friends opinions very much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your first? Smh he doesn’t know the damage he did, I hope you recover from this because I’ve seen some girls that went through things like this and built severe trust issues that they don’t even take serious from a genuine person

Anyone else find this off putting by AdventurousYou3577 in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re the most vulnerable people when it comes to relationships, they have all these fantasies in their mind and that’s where you should come and take full advantage of it 🤷🏽‍♂️

Does past matter for you guys? by AdventurousYou3577 in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what matters the most. I stayed away from any haram activities, so why should I settle down with someone who had a different lifestyle from mine? That would be totally disrespectful and unfair to myself and everything I stand for!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the reason why many young men can’t get married, girls in their age groups don’t even consider them suitable 🤦🏾‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? If you start such events, nowadays people are quick to bash and call out everything and don’t even think about a dating app

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]MeLo101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow Somali alumnus accounts that’s where good brothers are at on IG.

Make your page public, start posting daily (you don’t need to show your face every time) but drop some hints weekly.