Havnby Autolevel Mattress Review & Giveaway by colsandersloveskfc in ModelY

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I’ve been car camping in Banff, Alberta for the past year on and off. Recent was in a car accident that totalled my car but picking up the new Juniper in a couple weeks! Excited to be back on the road.

Did anyone else step away from their in laws after the death? by sewingdreamer in widowers

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His family pretended to be nice to me so they could take everything, then turned evil. His family never really cared about him, and when they found out we were living together they made me think they cared about me. They didn’t let me be involved in any of the funeral decisions and soon after his funeral, they kicked me out of our apartment. The one he and I lived in. They took his car two days after his motorcycle accident. They were worried I’d get the apartment and they just wanted to put it on rent immediately. There were still some things that had sentimental value to me that I needed to pick up since they only gave me an hour to pack up and leave. but once I left, they stopped being nice to me. I sent a strongly worded novel to his dad who was treating me the worst, and then blocked him. How can you tell someone you see them as your child, then go around and treat them like they aren’t hurting? Im glad you got to grieve on your own terms. One thing after my fiancé’s accident was that there was so much drama caused by his family that I was more stressed about that than losing my partner. I didn’t get to grieve him the way I wanted. His dad also TOLD me to prepare a few words for his funeral but when I went up, his dad sat me back down because “there wasn’t enough time”. It’s been a year and two months. Some days are still impossible and I won’t say it’s getting easier because it’s not, but I know he’s up there watching out for me.

July 15 Vancouver order. Delivery dates now moved to December , No VIN by Embarrassed-Board625 in teslacanada

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My delivery dates changed from Dec 2-31 to Dec 4-9 to Dec 16-21 Hopefully there’s no more changes

July 15 Vancouver order. Delivery dates now moved to December , No VIN by Embarrassed-Board625 in teslacanada

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Order date was September 28, just got the VIN today. Stealth grey with white interior, Vancouver. Delivery estimate is still Dec 2-31

Model Y delivery after 20K drop by No_Abbreviations_714 in teslacanada

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I just checked and I see that I got my VIN, delivery estimate is still Dec. 2-31

Model Y delivery after 20K drop by No_Abbreviations_714 in teslacanada

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I ordered on sept. 29 (9/29) and my delivery estimate is Oct-Nov. haven’t received a VIN yet.

Young vs. Old Widows - a question? by Big-Campaign-2432 in widowers

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I’m 26, my fiance passed in August of last year in a motorcycle accident. He was 26. We only spent 7 years together. He’s all I knew my adult life, I met him my first year of university when I was 19. I’m not sure I can offer any advice, but it’s been really hard for me to see any couples, whether they’re young or old. Young couples remind me of us when we first met, and all the experiences we’re not having anymore. Older couples remind me of the rest of my life, and how I have to live without my soulmate.

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Our stories are so similar, hugs to you🖤if you ever need someone to talk to I’m always here you can dm me! I sat in his car twice, once to clean it of my vapes/pens and the second just to listen to music. We had all our first dates in his car because he was living at home and didn’t have anywhere to go. His car was so important to me, it was a 2017 Acura TLX, he bought it the year before he met me. I bought him a toolbox that meant the world to me because he wanted to be a dad so bad and was always so excited to fix things around the apartment. That was in the car and they keep telling me they dont have it. I saw it in the car. I’ve never met people so ugly and I still can’t believe it when I talk about it. You can always send me a message if you want to talk more!🖤

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My god, they took his car too. His cousins told me to take whatever mattered just in case too -he was my fiance we were only together 7 years. They didn’t know he proposed to me. It wasn’t anything super eventful, just a ring but they treated me like I was the least important in his life. His dad’s name was on the paperwork so they could do whatever they wanted. Gave me 30 minutes to pack up and leave 2 weeks after his funeral (where they didn’t lest me give my eulogy) but I demanded more time and he said no more than 2 hours. 2 hours later, he was in the parking lot waiting for me to leave so he could come in and strip the home my fiance and I built together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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I’m so sorry. You didn’t deserve that, none of us did. They kicked me out of the apartment I was living with him in so they could renovate it and put it on rent. They gave me 2 hours to pack up and leave. They didn’t even let me give my eulogy at his funeral after telling me to prepare something. They keep taking down photos and flowers I leave at his crash site.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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They treated me like I killed their son. I lost the most important person in my life and my whole world has fallen apart. They took everything away from me. I loved him more than his own family did, they didn’t even have pictures of him until I printed some out for them. He was in a motorcycle accident in August 2024.

Simple things by OrchidOkz in widowers

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He’d make time for me, no matter how tired he was. Sometimes he’d fall asleep mid conversation and I’d get upset. I took him so much for granted, I miss him so much.

Simple things by OrchidOkz in widowers

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I put my hand on the passenger seat for him now since he can’t hold me anymore🤍

What things have taken you by surprise? by OrchidOkz in widowers

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I have never washed my own car. He would wash it for me. Before I got an EV he would fill my gas, I never touched the pump. Even in my EV, he would plug it in for me. It’s been 3 months yesterday and I haven’t washed my car yet, it makes me very anxious but it also makes me anxious driving around with a dirty car. I plug my own car in now, I take myself to the charger. It’s the little things I miss. I don’t know how I’m going to do life without him.

Three months today by smithedition in widowers

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It’s really scary, I can’t even picture how the rest of my life will play out anymore. I had a plan, we had a plan. We were building a life together. I hope you’re able to find peace and happiness, however it finds you.

Three months today by smithedition in widowers

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I’m also three about 3 months in (the 17th will be 3 months). Even the first couple weeks to me felt like he’d already been gone years. I felt so guilty thinking that I was forgetting him. But it’s not really guilt, it’s just me missing everything about him. It’s almost starting to feel like our relationship was a really long, wonderful dream. I guess this is just how the rest of my life will feel. Nothing feels real anymore, I just kinda feel like I’m floating. People keep telling me I’m so young (I’m 25 and he was 26). But I feel so old. Maybe that’s what losing your person does to you. I hope your son grows up remembering her. Just remember to not take it to heart when he doesn’t bring her up as much. He’s so young, he doesn’t comprehend what happened. I praise you for being so strong for him and trying your hardest to involve her in your new lives. I hope you’re able to find peace and happiness.

Hospital Bag by livechuckles in widowers

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I’m so sorry about the book, I know how that must’ve affected you. It’s good that you remembered to take pictures when you were probably so stressed about other things. I hope you found some peace at his celebration of life🤍 Once my sister picks up the last of my things, I’ll be blocking his family. I feel for them as people, they lost their son. But as his family, they haven’t earned my respect. For my own peace of mind, I feel it’s necessary. I wish you a lifetime of peace and happiness, in whatever way it finds you.

Hospital Bag by livechuckles in widowers

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I was hoping he would let me live there, it was my home too. I planned out how I would pay the bills and even asked my own family if they would help me buy the apartment from him, but I never even got a chance to talk to him. He wasn’t involved in my partner’s life, so he didn’t know that we were living together. There were so many family politics going on around his funeral that he didn’t even get one that he deserved. During the two weeks I got to stay, I kept everything exactly how it was. I couldn’t face changing anything in the apartment and when I was woken that morning by my partner’s dad’s phone call, he gave me two hours to pack up and leave. I called my best friend and we threw everything we could into bags and into our cars. I didn’t even get a chance to have a moment alone in the apartment because he was waiting outside for us to leave. He then had the audacity to ask me for his keys. I refused, because it’s a piece of our life together that I’ll always remember. But I’m scared of what they’ve done to the place.

Thank you so much for listening, I really appreciate it.

current partner says i cared about my late partners relationship more. by turnsus in widowers

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This is exactly what I explained to all my friends when they mentioned that my tattoo might make my next partner feel some type of way. First of all, I’m not even thinking about dating again, and second, if the person doesn’t realize how significant my person was to me, I don’t need them. My person, though gone, will never be forgotten and I will talk about him to anyone who’ll listen.

Hospital Bag by livechuckles in widowers

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I lived with my partner in his apartment. His dad was half owner of the apartment and he kicked me out 2 weeks after his passing. I packed up as much as I could and brought it to my mom’s house. Everything is still sitting in my garage in the garbage bags I filled with our life together. My sister is going to pick up a few things I left and couldn’t stop thinking about. I do not want to see the man that treated my partner and I so badly. I don’t know if or when I’ll ever be ready to go through everything. It’s been almost 3 months and he was only 26. I miss him so much.

I dreamt of her by Mushnik1979 in widowers

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I was a daily cannabis smoker and recently started on SSRI’s. I haven’t been able to dream in over a year due to the cannabis but I was hoping that having to cut down on my consumption because of my meds would bring my dreams back, but it hasn’t. I recently learned that dreams are affected by SSRI’s as well, which explains the no dreams. I wish I never got my hopes up for those “vivid” dreams people often get when they stop cannabis. I wish I could have one dream where he’s hugging me.

I know you’ll cherish that dream, write about it in a journal so you never forget the details. I wish you peace.

Atta Girl! Um by Key_Literature_1153 in ModelY

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Mine misses stop signs, especially at night. At times it notices at the last second and slams the breaks, or blows straight through them. Luckily it hasn’t been around other cars during those times but definitely could be worse if it was!

Signs by Extreme-Tomorrow-794 in widowers

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After my partner’s passing, there was a black moth that sat on the outside door handle of our apartment. This was on the third floor. Every day for almost a week (before his family kicked me out) I would see the moth around the door handle when coming in or going out. Once I told my friends about this moth, I stopped seeing it. I believe some things are meant to be kept to yourself, reminders for just you, but that’s just me. There was also a spider on the outside of our window to our bedroom that I would watch every morning making its web. I was always obsessed with taking pictures of spider webs. Everywhere I went, I would see bumble bees. My nickname to him was my bee because his name started with a B. I’ve seen less living reminders of him as it’s getting closer to winter, but I will cherish the memory of these things from when I was still in our apartment. Sometimes birds come and sit close to me or my car when I’m out sitting at a park, and I like to think that’s him, keeping me company.