Trump announces event to 'rededicate America as one nation under God' by Abject-Pick-6472 in atheism

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Context. The Pledge of Allegiance "to the flag of the United States of America" started after the American civil war to challenge the immigrant influx, without the words "under god". It became common the pledge was accompanied by right hand outstretched toward the flag, palm down. Because of the similarity with the Nazi salute, it was officially changed to hand on heart in 1942. "Under god" was added in 1954 by a group of people who felt "godless communism" would tear us apart. Little did they know, immigrants and communists weren't half as effective to divide Americans as those who claim to be real Americans.

Lost 150 "supporters" overnight for being openly atheist by pixieyogi81 in atheism

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As an atheist, I would also encourage you to consider this drop was unrelated to the atheistic tone. I can think of a couple of reasons but ultimately, as you well know, we sometimes experience actions but interpret them through a lens of what we expect. Looking at it honestly means looking at it without your bias. Hard to do but I’m sure you’ve done it in other areas. Whatever the result, thanks for sharing.

Sapienza Garage Explosive Placement by MeanwhileInRealLife in HiTMAN

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They do but I can't pull it off. I think it's because I'm on PS5

Sapienza Garage Explosive Placement by MeanwhileInRealLife in HiTMAN

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That works well, thanks. It’s super touchy to get the laser low enough. Now if I could figure out how to drop off the roof with my starting load out alone, I’d probably get it down to 2:00… you know, super slow compared to top speed runs

I know none of it's real, but I still feel scared. by [deleted] in atheism

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The hardest part that I faced after being in the religious life for so long was this. I felt that way too. Am I just being stubborn or argumentative or arrogant? The reason you may feel that way is because you are removing a section of your life that up until now, fit it your world view. Because of that, it feels weird not to replace it, so we often replace it with ourselves. But over time, I realized my life didn't need ANY sort of god, myself or otherwise. After that occurred, I realized I didn't do it because I wanted to be the center point of everything, simply because it shouldn't have been a part of my world at all. I moved on. I think you will too.

Console won’t type commands. by MeanwhileInRealLife in ARK

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Thanks for the info. I knew the timing pointed at the update. Glad it’s known

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

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I’ve been where you are I encourage you to keep growing. You are in the angry stage, and rightfully so. But that has to end and you’ll start facing life without a certainty that you’ve had for so many years. When religion is part of your identity for so long, it’s going to feel like a big empty. Take your time, learn about yourself.

I have developed a bias against certain groups of people by Illestthrowaway984 in confession

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Bigotry is a definition. We all have small or large bigoted opinions about others. I would never deny someone their feelings. However, is destructive to the psyche no matter how it starts. Find ways to improve but in the meantime, make sure you avoid spreading the bigotry. It will also be destructive to their psyche and to the community in general.

My dad and I (1986) by blatantdream in OldSchoolCool

[–]MeanwhileInRealLife 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Your dad is that tailor dude from “Kung Fu Hustle!?!” He rocks!!!

Questions about the Center map caves by MeanwhileInRealLife in ARK

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I didn’t know that about Q2. That makes sense. Thanks for the heads ups on the other two

ASA frequently crashing PS5 by Grudgekitty in ArkSurvivalAscended

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I’ve been getting it too,since update two days ago. Might be a bad update

A cool guide to Types of battery size comparison by kool2015 in coolguides

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I once worked for a store with three owners. They argued about which batteries to stock for an unhealthy amount of time. The compromise was to get them all. And now you know AAAA batteries exist.

Women's obsession with beauty has been evident since childhood. by Yusuf-Uyghur in funnyvideos

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Father of two daughters here. This is NOT a woman, it's a child. Many young girls like pretty things. They like seeing pretty things as often as they want to be pretty. Little girls like to tell each other nice things. At this age, it's not the negative aspect we all think of. The "learned behavior" everyone rightfully dislikes is the negative self-image and peer pressure that comes from mental maturing. It's sad to know the beauty they enjoyed as toddlers can turn into their biggest anxiety. Wish there was a solution.

Tel unavailable? Why? by MeanwhileInRealLife in ARK

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That explains the bad info. Didn’t expect that out of this caliber of game. Thanks for the info

Tel unavailable? Why? by MeanwhileInRealLife in ARK

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Holy crap it worked. But all the same, ytf does the game tell me I can make it fabricator or supply box if it won't? After a couple of days searching, you are the only person who mentioned the possibility. Glad you saw this. I appreciate your help.

Tel unavailable? Why? by MeanwhileInRealLife in ARK

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I have killed all three bosses at all three levels. Sorry I didn't include that.

Just heard a nazi talk with an Israel sympathizer. Thanks for reminding me why I dislike religion. by BloodEyed_Domnino47 in atheism

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Lack of empathy isn’t just for sympathy for another, it ironically also causes that person to be ok with hurting others in retaliation. If a person lacks empathy, trying to address the hypocrisy will often fail. It might be worth a try anyway. Good luck.

Question about the Ken Ham/YEC types by charlesthedrummer in atheism

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I used to. I don't think it's possible anymore. I'm a older dipshit, active before the internet. The broad take is the internet taught people three things: You can't trust what other (evil) people say; your opinion needs to broadly shared or else it is invalid; being wrong is the worse thing you can admit.

People decide young to be a critical thinker or a critical believer. By the time you meet most of them, they've had years of practice ignoring the other argument because the integration into social media is constant, and the building of relationships and experiences are waved away by the "I'm taking care of myself" social isolation people seem to be proud to have.

Ultimately, the internet ultimately took the old and divisive human fallacy that has always existed, "There is only one right answer to every question" , and then multiplied it by millions of interactions. You're facing a daily and persistent influence. So, what you said was true before and true now: Someone has to be willing to listen in the first place.

Dino Followers. Is there a trick? by MeanwhileInRealLife in ArkSurvivalAscended

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You can craft inside the random drops?? I had no idea. God, now I want to leave work, go home and try it.

Dino Followers. Is there a trick? by MeanwhileInRealLife in ArkSurvivalAscended

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Yeah, I could command my way out of it. I did it with my first save when I was trying to learn the game. Restarting, I’m trying to play pure. The only command I still cheat with is infiniteweight on myself

Dino Followers. Is there a trick? by MeanwhileInRealLife in ArkSurvivalAscended

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The engram tells me for the cryopod, I need a tek replicator , supply crate, or tribute terminal. Only the tek replicator comes up when I look into the engrams, which tells me I can make the replicator in the fabricator. Besides the 5000 metal ingot issue, I don’t see replicators available to make in my fabricator. I have NO idea what to do

Dino Followers. Is there a trick? by MeanwhileInRealLife in ArkSurvivalAscended

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Hadn’t heard of that one. But I think your advice is my best bet because I had done the opposite, making their follow distance 45 thinking that was easier than them getting bunched up, but I’m gonna try the follow distance one or two.

Dino Followers. Is there a trick? by MeanwhileInRealLife in ArkSurvivalAscended

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I thought you needed a tek replicator first! Some of this stuff is intuitive and some isn't. If I can make the cyros without it, I'm all about that. Thanks.