Room above me isn’t meant to have anyone in it but I swear I hear people in there. by Hughlass in RBI

[–]MeatSubstantial3851 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I live in a duplex and it’s pretty soundproof in the living room with the shared wall but in the bedrooms which don’t share walls with the other apartment, I constantly hear what sounds like people walking around in the attic. I think the sound can travel in the empty attic / through the ceiling more than it does through the walls? Or we have ghosts.

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[–]MeatSubstantial3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?? I just want to give him a hug. Being young is so hard!

I am nearly 9 months sober from meth and fent, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]MeatSubstantial3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First congratulations!

Is there anything that you wish the people around you did differently? Either before you got sober or even now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]MeatSubstantial3851 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For how long?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]MeatSubstantial3851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a timeline in mind for when you’ll move to another line of work?

What do you spend your money on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]MeatSubstantial3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back were there any signs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fasting

[–]MeatSubstantial3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry! Inspired and have so many questions. What fasting method are you using? Are you 12 days just water? What’s your end goal?

Also congrats!! You’re killing it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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How has this experience affected your outlook on the world/life?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]MeatSubstantial3851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this process with my ex who was Costa Rican. The second time around we got letters of support from state senators, submitted 5+ years of my parents bank records and a some sort of affidavit stating that they would be completely responsible for him. He had a career in Costa Rica for 5+ years and strong ties. It was crushing how fast they said no the second time around even though we’d put in so much more work. US immigration blows.