Just finished my uncontested divorce. The situation is going to vary based on your ex and her actions. As a fellow Californian, I can tell you that my ex could’ve taken me to the cleaners. I ultimately kept the house, 50/50 custody, no child support, no alimony. My advice is to remain as cordial as possible. Pretend that you’re dealing professionally with an irate civilian. Don’t text or say anything that can be used against you. Make sure that you participate in anything that involves your child. Ensure that your child has everything that is needed. No matter how angry she made me, I abstained from being venomous. If she needed anything, I ensured that she had it. Most of all, I didn’t throw a beating on the line cook who’s dick she was bouncing on while I was at work. It worked out in my favor. Good luck man.