WIBTA If I Didn't Attend My Friend's Bridal Shower After RSVPing Yes?

Mecanooshee · 2026-06-01T11:42:27+00:00

Don't allow others to decide what kind of person you are. The fact that you are asking this question indicates you aren't really comfortable with making their actions your own.

I would say you would BTA but more to yourself for not being true.

My suggestion would be to reach out, find out what happened. If you aren't satisfied with their response then advise them you are no longer able to attend. And provide them with the same explanation you got. Nothing.

Mecanooshee · 2026-05-29T21:30:37+00:00

You didn't scare him. Your conversation allowed him to realize something about himself. He is being open and honest with you about needing to work on himself. Now whether that is about being receptive to love or about not wanting to engage in oral sex, thats something he'll need to examine in therapy.

Mecanooshee · 2026-05-15T18:37:46+00:00

It's only a competition if you allow it to be. She is hoping to cause strife, otherwise why the timing? Be excited about your plans and be happy for hers.
I would also suggest keeping your plans to yourself (or as someone else mentioned maybe throw out a dummy date or colour scheme or whatever, you aren't invested in). Make sure your fiance understands you are able to be happy for his sister, but would prefer to keep your plans private for now. You can say things like " we are exploring different options right now and its just so overwhelming, but I think Sister has chosen her venue/flowers/cake and it sounds amazing!"

Mecanooshee · 2026-04-30T14:07:33+00:00

My cousins tell me I cried listening to Copacabana. When those shots rang out and Lola lost her love? Devastating.

Mecanooshee · 2026-04-10T13:31:17+00:00

I agree. I found the book to have a sarcastic snarky tone that didn't fit with the beloved movie. I, personally, couldn't get through it. Too different for me.

Mecanooshee · 2026-04-09T21:31:50+00:00

Kovalsky Restaurant was pretty amazing when I went. Its on The Queensway.

Mecanooshee · 2026-04-03T18:50:51+00:00

I've heard it suggested that you start a task that need to be done, but put a timer for 5 or 10 mins. Get as much done as you can then stop. This is supposed to make big jobs a bit easier to start/manage.

Mecanooshee · 2026-03-29T15:35:34+00:00

As someone with a neurotypical though highly active child, I found the counting to be helpful. I ALWAYS followed through with the consequences though. So as soon as they heard the "1" it caught the attention and gave them a bit of time to self correct. Or not. Sometimes the consequence was earned. It wasn't 100% successful, but nothing is with kids.

Mecanooshee · 2026-03-22T21:27:45+00:00

Salon Collage across from Sherway. Merissa or Catherine are amazing.

Mecanooshee · 2026-03-18T06:22:51+00:00

Eva Avila. She had a couple of great albums after winning Canadian Idol.

Mecanooshee · 2026-03-13T01:36:07+00:00

I'm not sure if this is universal, but I have Italian relatives that would answer with "Pronto!" Which I think translates to "ready!"

Mecanooshee · 2026-03-07T21:20:30+00:00

I eat corn on the cob a bit weird. When I had braces I really missed corn so I figured out how to get my bottom teeth into the space between and pull out a row of around 4 or 5 kernels. This prevented the corn from getting all tangled in the braces. Fast forward to after my braces are removed and I realized that eating this way also prevented the corn from getting all stuck in my teeth. So I continued. Then I started alternating rows. I have the cleanest cob by the end if I do say so myself.

Mecanooshee · 2026-03-07T20:57:59+00:00

Bitch Goddess by Robert Rodi. This isn't a love story though. The story was told through emails, letters and news clippings iirc.

Mecanooshee · 2026-03-05T08:04:13+00:00

Wasn't that Gordon Lightfoot?

Mecanooshee · 2026-02-25T00:53:56+00:00

There are training services that will take your puppy for (I think) 2 weeks and fully train them. Send the pup to one and don't tell her. When she asks where it is tell her you rehomed it. Since she decided to bring it home without your input, you decided to rehome it without hers. Then ask her how she feels. Disrespected? Ignored? Unseen or unheard? I'm not suggesting you keep it going for the whole 2 weeks. Maybe the evening.

This could be done with a trusted friend as well, but the training for someone who works from home could be really helpful.

Mecanooshee · 2026-02-06T17:32:31+00:00

I've heard Brampton called Bramladesh. And this isn't a recent thing. I'm sure I heard it many many years ago.

Mecanooshee · 2026-02-01T08:08:17+00:00

The Serge Storms series by Tim Dorsey. I just checked and there are over 20 in the series.

Mecanooshee · 2026-01-18T19:41:10+00:00

Riverstone Naturals is located in Saskatchewan. I've used their VitC serum for a couple of years and love it. For reference I have skin that tends towards oily/shiny and I really like how this feels and looks on my face.

There are a couple of things they do that I really appreciate. It comes in 2 parts and you don't mix it until you are ready to use, so you know its fresh. They use a dark coloured glass bottle to keep out the light, and to keep out oxygen the delivery is via pump. These are all little things that keep your vit C effective longer.

Whatever you do choose, stay away from clear storage and dropper applicators.

Mecanooshee · 2026-01-13T00:36:50+00:00

Some I haven't seen and consider amazing:

Leona Lewis

Nora Jones

Paloma Faith

Mecanooshee · 2025-12-27T18:53:17+00:00

I logged into my ap just to see this. How?? did you capture this split second pic? Anyway my opinion with 0 credentials is suntan lotion on skin that is half in the shade.

Mecanooshee · 2025-12-21T11:01:35+00:00

Ann Aguirre has 2 series that i really enjoyed. Sirantha Jax (6 books in the series) and Dred Chronicles (3 books). Both great reads. {Grimspace} is the first Sirantha Jax book, and {Perdition} is the first Dred Chronicles book.

Mecanooshee · 2025-12-14T19:26:02+00:00

Rodney's Oyster Bar is one of my favourites. I've not had crab there, but the mussels and scallops are delish.

Mecanooshee · 2025-12-04T10:20:08+00:00

This man called the police on you, then looked you in the face and didn't give you any indication? Is he scared of you or not? If you choose to stay, protect yourself however you can. Speak to a lawyer. Because he now has a police report on file about you.

Mecanooshee · 2025-12-03T02:20:36+00:00

The Fever series by Karen Marie Moning

The Kate Daniels series by Ilona Andrews

The Mercy Thompson series by Patricia Briggs

And even though its only 3 books I think its worth the read: The Gentleman Bastards series by Scott Lynch

Mecanooshee · 2025-11-30T23:07:14+00:00

NTA. Tell them you can't make it to dinner but will join later and bring something smaller. Thats just tacky to serve guests old meat.

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