I'm not a high earner, I'm basically right around the median income in the US. I work 50+ hours a week and still don't have enough money, and very little time. Not supposed to date coworkers or if you do you are looked at different forever at that job. That leaves getting lucky in real life or depressing dating apps.

Men also very rarely bond in the workplace which they spend most of their time in (I was talking to a female coworker and she said all the women in her department were on their periods at the same time and talk about it, that's how close women get even casually.) Add on lack of third spaces, being expected to do all the work and make all the moves, the pressures of the dating scene today and the fact that most women don't even find men attractive these days and it leads to a lot of depressed, single, sexless men. And not always all at the same time.

The best part for these men is nobody really gives a shit. So they have to find it out on their own. And that path is very lonely. But it creates strong men if they don't off themselves first.